Hey guys. I was yesterday at the club where I met my ex. We broke up 4 years ago, saw each other couple of times up until now and she established she only wants to be friends ( I was hoping for friends with benefits ).
We started dancing as we're both very good dancers. Since dancing is simulation of sex, I could feel the sexual tension between me and her, I touched her all over her body and our breath was very close to each other. People could easily mistake us for being a couple. I felt her becoming more and more horny but it didn't matter. I though that I could easily escalate.
I was wrong. When I made a move, she backed away. Granted, I cut all contact before because I'm not really into friendzone so she said that I was testing her whether I'll get in contact her again. In other words, she thought that if she gets sexual with me, I'd be then interested.
To tell you the truth, she was partially right. But not completely. Today, we texted a bit and through humor she said she liked how the whole club watched us, it was a complete ego boost for her. I also said that her rejection was an ego boost as well to which she didn't comment, only sent a wink.
So what's the deal with this chick? I'm a highly valuable guy, so is she ego boosting herself, playing games, trying to be more dominant? I saw a lot of guys trying to win her over but they were probably beneath me, in her point of view so she picked me to satisfy her need for.. something.
Your thoughts? I'm interested in how to deal with those kinds of chicks.
We started dancing as we're both very good dancers. Since dancing is simulation of sex, I could feel the sexual tension between me and her, I touched her all over her body and our breath was very close to each other. People could easily mistake us for being a couple. I felt her becoming more and more horny but it didn't matter. I though that I could easily escalate.
I was wrong. When I made a move, she backed away. Granted, I cut all contact before because I'm not really into friendzone so she said that I was testing her whether I'll get in contact her again. In other words, she thought that if she gets sexual with me, I'd be then interested.
To tell you the truth, she was partially right. But not completely. Today, we texted a bit and through humor she said she liked how the whole club watched us, it was a complete ego boost for her. I also said that her rejection was an ego boost as well to which she didn't comment, only sent a wink.
So what's the deal with this chick? I'm a highly valuable guy, so is she ego boosting herself, playing games, trying to be more dominant? I saw a lot of guys trying to win her over but they were probably beneath me, in her point of view so she picked me to satisfy her need for.. something.
Your thoughts? I'm interested in how to deal with those kinds of chicks.
