While working out today I noticed a girl around 25 that was really hot. She was also serious and concentrated, so it made her look bitchy and mean. A few minutes later some girls came and it seemed they were friends and started talking. And this girl was smiling laughing and there was no trace of what made her look bitchy and mean.
So it got me thinking. When you see a girl like that(not smiling or laughing, neutral facial expression, serious looking and concentrated) you think she's a bitch. When you see a cute innocent girl with the same neutral expression or concentrated and serious. You think "aaww she's so cute and I bet she's a really nice person".
You think one is a bitch and the other is a nice cheerful person. Or at least that's what's going through my head. I know it's wrong to judge people like that, but my mind does it and I can't control it.
They have the same facial expression. Doing the same thing. Wearing the same clothes, etc. But one is a bitch while the other is a nice person. Just because of their looks.
I also started thinking why would my mind make such judgements. I don't have any experience with really beautiful girls - not even a conversation with one. Neither has one been rude or mean to me or bitchy. I have no bad experiences with them. The girls who've always rejected me through the years (because I used to be fat) were average looking girls. I never had the balls to talk to a really hot one.
I even understand that the hotter ones might be even nicer people and more cheerful. They're just protecting themselves more because of their looks and how people perceive them. Also I think that a girls being focused and concentrated shows discipline and intelligence(usually more intelligent people are concentrated while less intelligent people are absent minded and have unfocused eyes, more dreamy looking). And they might also appreciate it a lot more if you've got your fundamentals together and approach her during the day and just being genuine and not trying to impress her.
I also started wandering is attracting the hot girls the same as attracting average and cute girls, just a bit higher level?
LIKE:
- being good looking - but more good looking
- fashionable clothes - but more fashionable
- nice body - but better body
- having ambition - but having more ambition
- being charming - but more charming
- being experienced - but having slept with more women
- being smooth - but smoother
- minding the law of least effort - but more
basically is it the same things, just bit higher level?
I know there is an article about the process with super hot girls. But I'm asking about attracting them, before you've started talking and running your process.
??
So it got me thinking. When you see a girl like that(not smiling or laughing, neutral facial expression, serious looking and concentrated) you think she's a bitch. When you see a cute innocent girl with the same neutral expression or concentrated and serious. You think "aaww she's so cute and I bet she's a really nice person".
You think one is a bitch and the other is a nice cheerful person. Or at least that's what's going through my head. I know it's wrong to judge people like that, but my mind does it and I can't control it.
They have the same facial expression. Doing the same thing. Wearing the same clothes, etc. But one is a bitch while the other is a nice person. Just because of their looks.
I also started thinking why would my mind make such judgements. I don't have any experience with really beautiful girls - not even a conversation with one. Neither has one been rude or mean to me or bitchy. I have no bad experiences with them. The girls who've always rejected me through the years (because I used to be fat) were average looking girls. I never had the balls to talk to a really hot one.
I even understand that the hotter ones might be even nicer people and more cheerful. They're just protecting themselves more because of their looks and how people perceive them. Also I think that a girls being focused and concentrated shows discipline and intelligence(usually more intelligent people are concentrated while less intelligent people are absent minded and have unfocused eyes, more dreamy looking). And they might also appreciate it a lot more if you've got your fundamentals together and approach her during the day and just being genuine and not trying to impress her.
I also started wandering is attracting the hot girls the same as attracting average and cute girls, just a bit higher level?
LIKE:
- being good looking - but more good looking
- fashionable clothes - but more fashionable
- nice body - but better body
- having ambition - but having more ambition
- being charming - but more charming
- being experienced - but having slept with more women
- being smooth - but smoother
- minding the law of least effort - but more
basically is it the same things, just bit higher level?
I know there is an article about the process with super hot girls. But I'm asking about attracting them, before you've started talking and running your process.
??