Attraction having expiration

[Shroud]

This topic always confused me, I've read the article on here countless times...I get you have to move fast with a woman, show interest and be confident but I always find myself wondering about the other end of the spectrum.

Most of my friends who have gotten married over the past 3 years gradually got to know their wives, I am sure they displayed genuine interest and confidence, but I know for a fact they did not have sex with them due to their religious practices.

Its happened to me before countless times where a girl has rejected me and then comes back into my life, so can anyone clarify this for me?

 

[Estate]

There are two differences between the 2 situations....

1. You're intentions for her, and...
2. Her intentions for you...

#1 is the main thing discussed on this site. The core of the advice around here is about meeting women and sleeping with them. It's not about "how to get a wife". To be the guy who sparks attraction in a woman where she just finds you so sexy and wants to get you into bed means you're an attractive man. Husband material? Maybe, maybe not... it's just not really the point of the material on this site.
Its like the old addage, don't marry the girl who sleeps with you on the first date. If so, why do girls sleep with guys on the first date? They want sex too! But people only go to bed quickly with someone they find sexy and attractive right off the bat (both men and women). If you're positioning yourself as a sexy guy, yet you don't pull the trigger... the woman won't wait around. Hey, guys do the same thing.... ever hear of guys fading if they don't get laid after a few dates?

#2. See where I left off above? That's the other type of woman. She's not looking to hookup. She wants a husband, therefore she's looking for "husband" qualities. The nice guy can get lucky here. Husband material is the nice reliable gy, he probably has a decent job and can provide. SHe's reached a point in her life where he's slept with the hot guys and now wants to settle down and the provider type of guy is the safer bet...