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So I decided to head out and do some daygame again, it was a pretty chill day sun was out so why not? To my surprise I run into a few girls I've met before , which rarely happens because my uni is quite big , so a couple of the sets are with girls that I've met before. Just one of those days apparently. Again I believe I'd been blown out twice before I'd started recording , usually it takes me one or two sets because I'm such a geek and I spend alot of time around computers , not talking to girls.
I realize that the first sets of audio is a lot of content to give feedback on so I'll just keep it to one or two sets of audio focusing on the ones where I'd like feedback as last time people were only really talking about the first set which wasn't what I wanted to focus on. I open a bunch of new girls , get a number from a cute girl who seemed keen then later on in the day after a couple of sets , I run into a girl I met last week here is the audio , description below :
https://soundcloud.com/skid-17/set-8-edit/s-5lGRy
I'm walking around and I see her from behind. She is sitting on her mac book. When I open again judging from her reaction I've met her before , but at first again I'm trying to remember when. I'm sure sure how long ago it was whether it was recent or ages ago which is why I'm really uncertain at the start. Then I realize that I have unwittingly participated in an inside joke between us and I recognize its a girl I met from last week lols she is just dressed really different.I give into her frame saying I'm tired and qualify myself which is really bad. I'm really attracted to this girl , I find her easy to talk to since she is quite talkative (I'm quiet; opposites attract) and physically I think shes really cute. I took her Facebook and we've swapped like 2 messages (me trying to arrange a meet we talked about, her saying she is busy) she took forever to reply , so honestly I don't think this girl is very into me.
Sometime into the convo I'm trying to figure out logistics to see if we can meet. I put forward the idea of going for coffee the next day , she says its distracting , I re frame it asking how I am distracting
, she just nervously laughs it off I think which I think is good? Then she keeps going on about how she needs to get it done I just smile at her and mimic talking with my hands to tease her. Then she brings up something with gaming that's on her macbook so I take the opportunity to move her stuff , she helps me and I still right next to her so our legs are touching and she doesn't move. Then I look at her laptop. I say what was the purpose of this? Which after listening maybe a mistake since I should be rewarding her trying to get my attention but bringing up the thing on her mac book. Probably stupid , but I'm still in the mindset that she doesn't really like me , so I'm protecting my ego. She doesn't object at all to me sitting right next to her tho. I try again asking when she's free the next day and I make some progress she gives me a time but in order for us to meet she has to stay at uni and wait for my class to end , then she goes back to the whole maybe I won't be there routine again , I'm still sitting close to her btw. But she isn't making eye contact she's looking at her laptop , I start to think I might be over investing. When I ask her how she deals with stress , she says she stares at her computer. I didn't notice this in set but listening after she may have been alluding to the fact I was stressing her out? Oh shit oops. Shortly after this I decide I'm investing too much and she is occupied so after she says something about messages on her laptop , I move a bit away and lie down on the grass the idea in my head was to remove my attention since she wasn't agreeing to the meet. And wait to see if she reengages. I just lay down and go on my phone. I wait for about 2 minutes and I figure she isn't going to re engage so I cut the recording.
*AFTER THE RECORDING*
Eventually tho she does with something like "yay progress" I ignore it (maybe I should have rewarded?) shortly after I get back up and tell her I'm gonna head off , but if she stays to message me tomorrow she says it's ok and she will. Then I leave. I'm sorta sad because I don't think I'm gonna get anywhere with this girl but I like her a lot. Really curious as to what you guys think about it.
I realize that the first sets of audio is a lot of content to give feedback on so I'll just keep it to one or two sets of audio focusing on the ones where I'd like feedback as last time people were only really talking about the first set which wasn't what I wanted to focus on. I open a bunch of new girls , get a number from a cute girl who seemed keen then later on in the day after a couple of sets , I run into a girl I met last week here is the audio , description below :
https://soundcloud.com/skid-17/set-8-edit/s-5lGRy
I'm walking around and I see her from behind. She is sitting on her mac book. When I open again judging from her reaction I've met her before , but at first again I'm trying to remember when. I'm sure sure how long ago it was whether it was recent or ages ago which is why I'm really uncertain at the start. Then I realize that I have unwittingly participated in an inside joke between us and I recognize its a girl I met from last week lols she is just dressed really different.I give into her frame saying I'm tired and qualify myself which is really bad. I'm really attracted to this girl , I find her easy to talk to since she is quite talkative (I'm quiet; opposites attract) and physically I think shes really cute. I took her Facebook and we've swapped like 2 messages (me trying to arrange a meet we talked about, her saying she is busy) she took forever to reply , so honestly I don't think this girl is very into me.
Sometime into the convo I'm trying to figure out logistics to see if we can meet. I put forward the idea of going for coffee the next day , she says its distracting , I re frame it asking how I am distracting
, she just nervously laughs it off I think which I think is good? Then she keeps going on about how she needs to get it done I just smile at her and mimic talking with my hands to tease her. Then she brings up something with gaming that's on her macbook so I take the opportunity to move her stuff , she helps me and I still right next to her so our legs are touching and she doesn't move. Then I look at her laptop. I say what was the purpose of this? Which after listening maybe a mistake since I should be rewarding her trying to get my attention but bringing up the thing on her mac book. Probably stupid , but I'm still in the mindset that she doesn't really like me , so I'm protecting my ego. She doesn't object at all to me sitting right next to her tho. I try again asking when she's free the next day and I make some progress she gives me a time but in order for us to meet she has to stay at uni and wait for my class to end , then she goes back to the whole maybe I won't be there routine again , I'm still sitting close to her btw. But she isn't making eye contact she's looking at her laptop , I start to think I might be over investing. When I ask her how she deals with stress , she says she stares at her computer. I didn't notice this in set but listening after she may have been alluding to the fact I was stressing her out? Oh shit oops. Shortly after this I decide I'm investing too much and she is occupied so after she says something about messages on her laptop , I move a bit away and lie down on the grass the idea in my head was to remove my attention since she wasn't agreeing to the meet. And wait to see if she reengages. I just lay down and go on my phone. I wait for about 2 minutes and I figure she isn't going to re engage so I cut the recording.*AFTER THE RECORDING*
Eventually tho she does with something like "yay progress" I ignore it (maybe I should have rewarded?) shortly after I get back up and tell her I'm gonna head off , but if she stays to message me tomorrow she says it's ok and she will. Then I leave. I'm sorta sad because I don't think I'm gonna get anywhere with this girl but I like her a lot. Really curious as to what you guys think about it.
