Auto-Rejection with Younger women with Text

[trashKENNUT]

I find that with younger women, the longer you return your text, and if you know she likes you when there will be time where she sends multiple text where you know you can pull by setting a date but you decide to not send the text early, due to busy schedule, the more she will fall into auto-rejection.

Happen to me with three women this week. One is 23, The other 19, Another, She is 20. Not returning text within an hour can kill attraction somewhat. Any observation from you guys with younger women?

Zac

 

[Franco]

Zac,

Not returning text within an hour can kill attraction somewhat. Any observation from you guys with younger women?

I'm not sure this is really the case. What it might be is that, out of the few texts you have sent her, you didn't ask her out on a date. This can cause her to go into auto-rejection.

How long you take to respond doesn't matter too much, even with younger women, but the texts you send need to count. You need to be moving things toward a meet-up with every conversation you have, otherwise she will go into auto-rejection. These days, I don't even attempt to build rapport (although I will throw in humorous comments sometimes in the middle of a text while still moving things forward). It's a total waste of time unless you met the girl on the internet. You should build enough rapport with her in person so that you can quickly set up the meet.

If she wants to, she can try to put off the meet-up by trying to get you to text her more so she can make you an orbiter, but the best thing to do here is to actually take EVEN LONGER to respond. But when you do finally text, it should still be with the intent of meeting up. That way, it's very clear to her that you want to see her, but you aren't going to be texting her forever, and she needs to make a decision. Younger girls tend to overstep their boundaries often with getting you to chase, so as soon as you seem to stop chasing, they also tend to freak out quickly and overstep in the other direction and will sometimes just straight up ask you if you want to hang out.

Remember, girls are still subconsciously working on their "game" when they are that young, too. So take advantage of it by making them slip up.

- Franco

 

[trashKENNUT]

Franco,

I'm not sure this is really the case. What it might be is that, out of the few texts you have sent her, you didn't ask her out on a date. This can cause her to go into auto-rejection.

Quite possibly.

How long you take to respond doesn't matter too much, even with younger women, but the texts you send need to count. You need to be moving things toward a meet-up with every conversation you have, otherwise she will go into auto-rejection. These days, I don't even attempt to build rapport (although I will throw in humorous comments sometimes in the middle of a text while still moving things forward). It's a total waste of time unless you met the girl on the internet. You should build enough rapport with her in person so that you can quickly set up the meet.

I do that sometimes, trying to have small conversations with women, like what you said with the humourous comments. I feel i am not moving slow though, just might be my initial approach, too.

If she wants to, she can try to put off the meet-up by trying to get you to text her more so she can make you an orbiter, but the best thing to do here is to actually take EVEN LONGER to respond. But when you do finally text, it should still be with the intent of meeting up. That way, it's very clear to her that you want to see her, but you aren't going to be texting her forever, and she needs to make a decision. Younger girls tend to overstep their boundaries often with getting you to chase, so as soon as you seem to stop chasing, they also tend to freak out quickly and overstep in the other direction and will sometimes just straight up ask you if you want to hang out.

Exactly, i see girls trying to put off meet up sometimes. This is very important note, you are right. Younger girls also tend to overstep their boundaries.

Zac