Avoiding the friend zone?

[ocantu1987]

Been talking to a girl recently and I got to say that I can get her talking alot about herself lol. My fundamentals are strong and I give strong EC and all but she has never maintained EC it with me, she always break EC first (this has been the biggest IOI for me lately, girls that like me maintain EC with me).

Anyway I asked her out already (last week) and she said yes and I texted her, but she is busy with thanksgiving this week and I said it's cool i'll text you next week. This girl is really talkative as fuck, all we do is talk about her shit haha she has not asked me any questions about me at all. On average we talk for about 1 hour and a half lol

While we were talking, she got some 2 phone calls and 1 text and she put all on hold to continue talking to me (hmmm, IOI?)

I am thinking that if i keep visiting her office (she works at my community college) I might end up in the friend zone because we talk about her lol. I plan on asking her out one more time this monday.

I am not sure about this girl liking me, maybe she is friendly. Any advice for not ending up in the friend zone?

BTW I have exhausted all Girlschase articles this month so share some of your knowledge guys lol.

 

[Smurf]

Hey ocantu,

So you guys are talking a lot. That's good, I struggle with deep diving. How many chase frames are you setting? Also, how much are you touching her? If you're talking a lot, try even not talking as much and just hold eye contact without saying a word.

What I'm trying to say with all of this is make sure to ramp up your sexual vibe. Also, depending on how much you visit her office, you might want to cut down on that to reduce your availability.

Keep in touch man!
Jake.

 

[ocantu1987]

Thanks jake, yeah i haven't touched her much, but I gave her a hug wich she reacted awkward to me and I got close to her to show her a trick with her computer and she backed away from me hmmm. but the next day she was as chatty as ever. Youre right, I shouldnt visit her office much I think ill cut back.

Chase frames are something I haven't added to my game yet, any idea where to start?

she told last night that she wasn't mexican and that she was from el salvador, i am Mexican and I felt i could of said "you're not Mexican? I don't think it is going to work out between us " haha I didnt say that of course, but that is a chase frame right?

 

[Smurf]

Hmm, it's weird she doesn't react well to your touch. Try working small up, like her upper arm and shoulder. Get her comfortable with that and then you can proceed with that.

Chase frames, if she says anything that could be remotely sexual, use it against her. So say she says, "work was hard today", you could say, "I thought you liked it hard?" Then completely change the subject. The more she plays along, the more she likes you, I've found. It doesn't seem like this girl is extremely sexual so I'd just say one thing and then change the subject.

The Mexican El Salvador thing is good, as long as it's said in a playful vibe. Remember, it's how you say something, not what you say. You can have a perfectly banal conversation in regards to words, but if you close the proximity a bit, lower your voice to a sexual growl and give her strong sexual EC, it can change the entire mood.

Keep us posted though!

Jake.

 

[ocantu1987]

Thanks man! will try.