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met over OLD, we had date on Sunday.
Bar, box, sitting next to each other, but still was very hard to even have proper eye contact, nor escalate to sex topic, physical escalation. Sometimes i touched her on shoulder but even though there was some level of compliance (drink, where to sit, basics) , the momentum wasn't.
She was smiling/laughing on my sexy compliment or attempts bute...it wasn't 'it"
We were on date over 2,5 hours and would be longer but i decided to cut it (normally i don't have this long dates but was trying different techniques or some restarts)and walk her home (i didn't seriously invite her to my place, only when we talked about movie i suggested we could go but she didn't react and i didn't push.. lack of atmosphere)
Infront of her doors, didn't go for kiss(before i used to but i am trying to listen to you, see my first ever post, where I was just pushing and pushing..)
After date i sent her "it was nice etc..". She used to be online before meeting, but she didn't see my msg/or was online till today morning.
I did mistake yesterday night and texted her "Hi Gloria, I had a great time on our date the other day. I just wanted to check in and see how you're doing. If you're up for it, I'd love to catch up again sometime soon. Let me know what you think. Take care!"... So basic.
She replied this morning:
Yea sorry yesterday had crazy but amazing day so didn’t use phone much
She completely ignored invitation. Btw , she didn't go for a date from OLD right away, it took cca 3days of texting (but not long convos, it was playful)
So. How i read it, it seems over, however, what would you suggest as a next step? She was shy, polite, conservative , i was tuning my temperament down to not be too much but even though she was somehow more or less complied and very easy to talk to, i could not see any windows to escalate.
And even if she would agree on second date (she ignored that invitation in her reply) I can't imagine how i will make any sexual atmosphere.
Thank you
Bar, box, sitting next to each other, but still was very hard to even have proper eye contact, nor escalate to sex topic, physical escalation. Sometimes i touched her on shoulder but even though there was some level of compliance (drink, where to sit, basics) , the momentum wasn't.
She was smiling/laughing on my sexy compliment or attempts bute...it wasn't 'it"
We were on date over 2,5 hours and would be longer but i decided to cut it (normally i don't have this long dates but was trying different techniques or some restarts)and walk her home (i didn't seriously invite her to my place, only when we talked about movie i suggested we could go but she didn't react and i didn't push.. lack of atmosphere)
Infront of her doors, didn't go for kiss(before i used to but i am trying to listen to you, see my first ever post, where I was just pushing and pushing..)
After date i sent her "it was nice etc..". She used to be online before meeting, but she didn't see my msg/or was online till today morning.
I did mistake yesterday night and texted her "Hi Gloria, I had a great time on our date the other day. I just wanted to check in and see how you're doing. If you're up for it, I'd love to catch up again sometime soon. Let me know what you think. Take care!"... So basic.
She replied this morning:
Yea sorry yesterday had crazy but amazing day so didn’t use phone much
She completely ignored invitation. Btw , she didn't go for a date from OLD right away, it took cca 3days of texting (but not long convos, it was playful)
So. How i read it, it seems over, however, what would you suggest as a next step? She was shy, polite, conservative , i was tuning my temperament down to not be too much but even though she was somehow more or less complied and very easy to talk to, i could not see any windows to escalate.
And even if she would agree on second date (she ignored that invitation in her reply) I can't imagine how i will make any sexual atmosphere.
Thank you
