BEGINNING
Well, the night had started powerfully as after like 3 times in a row that I had done it, I realized that, provided an audience of at least a couple girls and no "factually speaking guys" to hijack the convo, I could now create a strong flirting or sexual or female engrossing vibe almost at will (I chase frame early on, then work up in the convo dating stories, relationship history, what they like in a partner.. Needles to say women love it).
These two girls sitting around me indeed LOVED it.
Especially the "more adventurous one", the one attuned to one night stands -let's call her "Open"- can't have enough and keeps building me up saying I was so amazing and that's why she loves guy of my nationality.
I was also planting the idea of her being the naughty one, trying to coax her quieter girlfriend into something sexual and me.. Well, maybe me joining them.
The other girl, let's call her "pruder" was no stunner but much cuter and also much more reserved: I'd get to know later they were out for pruder as she was going through a bit of a difficult period.
Open tells me they're not sure whether or not they'll join the partying because she doesn't have a place to stay.
I stop for a second as I'm actually not 100% sure I'd do her, but it's slightly more on the yes side and they're fun and we're still all having a good time, so I offer my place and add something like "no worries, we do whatever we feel like doing or not doing, no pressure".
No "ok" or "yes we'll stay there" ensues, so I wasn't sure at all that was gonna happen.
That was the first mistake (read "lessons learned").
PARTYING
As we move somewhere else for a club we're in a group of mostly guys: "my girls" are indeed the only two for 6-7 guys (the competition for scarce resources was one of the things which turned me off about the night).
I lose a bit the spark while partying: didn't like the music, didn't dance much and probably missed the occasion of being more touchy/sexual with the two of them.
In the last club I don't even stay physically close to them.
Worth noting maybe the girls don't have money and don't get a single drink.
After we change a couple terrible places it's now past 3am. I'm quite tired and more and more sure nothing good gonna come out of this. I'm also feeling shackled of being in this group and wanna go game solo in the very last part of the night, so I tell the girls I'm going and ask if they have a place to stay (note: not if Open or both are coming, just making sure they had a place).
I give it a 10% chance open is gonna take up my early offer at this point and 5% that both of them will stay over.
But Open points at me as her place to stay and they both follow me back home (they pay the taxi).
As much as I think they still like me, I don't have a great feeling about this.
AT HOME
At home I do little, my main regret of the night together with having stuck around with that group: I go for kissing Open on the neck as her friend is in the toilet, but no spark ensues. My main game plan was to escalate once we'd be under the cover and I'd start hugging them.
The natural sensuality of bodies hugging would do the trick, went the thinking.
But the bed is big enough for us to have lots of space among us, and Open wants me to sleep on the side.
We're all tired and there's no sexual mood (or I'm not able to generate any): they keep their jeans on and there's no touching and hugging and we just sleep.
Little pussy I am, I don't try reaching out for Open laying next to me as at this point, I think, it'd just be creepy (still think at that point it probably was).
I'm thinking the morning will give me the last chance, but they get up early as Pruder has to work so no chance of "getting closer" as we naturally wake up.
I'm not too affected, but feel a bit of an idiot for having missed the night and a possible opportunity, though I'm not sure which directions I should have taken.
I'm thinking I could have proposed and insisted for a massage together to be delivered without the top or something like that..
LESSONS LEARNED
-No offering a place to crash
Never gonna offer my place again with an aura of "no pressure". In similar half-social circle situations I will from now on actually add "I just have one rule: in my place it's naked sleeping", then laugh, but the message should get across it's no place for crashing.
YOUR FEEDBACK
Any feedback?
Well, the night had started powerfully as after like 3 times in a row that I had done it, I realized that, provided an audience of at least a couple girls and no "factually speaking guys" to hijack the convo, I could now create a strong flirting or sexual or female engrossing vibe almost at will (I chase frame early on, then work up in the convo dating stories, relationship history, what they like in a partner.. Needles to say women love it).
These two girls sitting around me indeed LOVED it.
Especially the "more adventurous one", the one attuned to one night stands -let's call her "Open"- can't have enough and keeps building me up saying I was so amazing and that's why she loves guy of my nationality.
I was also planting the idea of her being the naughty one, trying to coax her quieter girlfriend into something sexual and me.. Well, maybe me joining them.
The other girl, let's call her "pruder" was no stunner but much cuter and also much more reserved: I'd get to know later they were out for pruder as she was going through a bit of a difficult period.
Open tells me they're not sure whether or not they'll join the partying because she doesn't have a place to stay.
I stop for a second as I'm actually not 100% sure I'd do her, but it's slightly more on the yes side and they're fun and we're still all having a good time, so I offer my place and add something like "no worries, we do whatever we feel like doing or not doing, no pressure".
No "ok" or "yes we'll stay there" ensues, so I wasn't sure at all that was gonna happen.
That was the first mistake (read "lessons learned").
PARTYING
As we move somewhere else for a club we're in a group of mostly guys: "my girls" are indeed the only two for 6-7 guys (the competition for scarce resources was one of the things which turned me off about the night).
I lose a bit the spark while partying: didn't like the music, didn't dance much and probably missed the occasion of being more touchy/sexual with the two of them.
In the last club I don't even stay physically close to them.
Worth noting maybe the girls don't have money and don't get a single drink.
After we change a couple terrible places it's now past 3am. I'm quite tired and more and more sure nothing good gonna come out of this. I'm also feeling shackled of being in this group and wanna go game solo in the very last part of the night, so I tell the girls I'm going and ask if they have a place to stay (note: not if Open or both are coming, just making sure they had a place).
I give it a 10% chance open is gonna take up my early offer at this point and 5% that both of them will stay over.
But Open points at me as her place to stay and they both follow me back home (they pay the taxi).
As much as I think they still like me, I don't have a great feeling about this.
AT HOME
At home I do little, my main regret of the night together with having stuck around with that group: I go for kissing Open on the neck as her friend is in the toilet, but no spark ensues. My main game plan was to escalate once we'd be under the cover and I'd start hugging them.
The natural sensuality of bodies hugging would do the trick, went the thinking.
But the bed is big enough for us to have lots of space among us, and Open wants me to sleep on the side.
We're all tired and there's no sexual mood (or I'm not able to generate any): they keep their jeans on and there's no touching and hugging and we just sleep.
Little pussy I am, I don't try reaching out for Open laying next to me as at this point, I think, it'd just be creepy (still think at that point it probably was).
I'm thinking the morning will give me the last chance, but they get up early as Pruder has to work so no chance of "getting closer" as we naturally wake up.
I'm not too affected, but feel a bit of an idiot for having missed the night and a possible opportunity, though I'm not sure which directions I should have taken.
I'm thinking I could have proposed and insisted for a massage together to be delivered without the top or something like that..
LESSONS LEARNED
-No offering a place to crash
Never gonna offer my place again with an aura of "no pressure". In similar half-social circle situations I will from now on actually add "I just have one rule: in my place it's naked sleeping", then laugh, but the message should get across it's no place for crashing.
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