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met up with the chick from this outing here
We met up at this café, outside before going in, us parking next to each other. Again, pretty quiet/reserved similar to how she was in my car.
After dark, later in the evening but not too late.
As we walk and talk i’m doing things to relieve some of the pressure, also trying to elicit what has her so seemingly closed off as we enter.
Local café, dim lights, quiet vibe, but a good amount of people for whatever reason.
Mostly light chit chat, she tells me shes feeling kind of sick. Nevertheless we order some coffee n get sat. I decided to pay for both.
She’s a bit more comfortable at this point, we’re sitting at a booth right next to eachother. I’m alot more physically forward this time around because I plan on closing her, and this is what was lacking the last time I saw her. She’s receptive, but not really melting into me how a girl usually would be.
I keep getting this sense that she’s not allowing herself to be comfortable/ in the moment. And that her mind is elsewhere.
I decided I needed to try and get her more present/allow her to ease into the environment. I pull back a bit, and we chat about surface level stuff, and segway into deeper topics.
Throughout she’s pretty compliant, allowing me to touch her jewelry, hair, etc. But getting her to open up vibe wise, was like pulling teeth. I’d get flashes of smiles/excitement, but they’d quickly be overwashed by what looked like nervousness to me.
It’s worth mentioning that groups of people would walk by, and we’d visibly get stared at/hear chatter directed toward me, and I saw it kill her vibe a little.
This chick isn’t normally my “type” but she’d be considered super cute by most guys. Bleach blonde, really cute face, super submissive. If I had to rate her without personal bias I’d say she was an 8. Despite her not being my ideal type I still considered her attractive.
As time goes on she mentions feeling sick again, so I use it as an opportunity to bounce to her car like @Skills suggested in my other report. Different contexts but decided to either way.
I speculated it might’ve been the environment and was hoping she’d open up a bit more once we were gone.
Boy was I wrong. She put on some music heated up the car. I dialed up the touch more as we sat and talked. But she kept allowing herself to be distracted, talking about her car etc.
After a while I dial back on the touch and just let my seat back. I let things get quiet, and stare off into space looking at the stars. It’s calmer now. She’s flipping through songs asking what she should play next.
I tell her she’s so far I can barely see her phone. I give her my hand, and tell her to come join me so that I can see her better. She takes my hand but gives me a light refusal, saying it was too cramped. It wasn’t Lol.
I tell her how its way more spacious than mine, and ask again giving her my other hand and we grasp eachothers fingers. she takes it and I lightly pull her.
She comes about halfway, before slowly pulling away, saying it was too cramped. I pull back and after a while go back to talking with her. I’m super relaxed at this point, can’t say the same for her.
I tell her if she isnt gonna join me the least she can do is let her seat back so that she isn’t so cramped but she refuses this also. I could feel the lay wasn’t there at this point.
After a while of talking, she mentions needing to get home/ wasn’t feeling well, so , we parted ways. Left off on an okay note, and I shot her a parting text.
Did some diagnostics, not sure what I could’ve/should’ve done differently.
We met up at this café, outside before going in, us parking next to each other. Again, pretty quiet/reserved similar to how she was in my car.
After dark, later in the evening but not too late.
As we walk and talk i’m doing things to relieve some of the pressure, also trying to elicit what has her so seemingly closed off as we enter.
Local café, dim lights, quiet vibe, but a good amount of people for whatever reason.
Mostly light chit chat, she tells me shes feeling kind of sick. Nevertheless we order some coffee n get sat. I decided to pay for both.
She’s a bit more comfortable at this point, we’re sitting at a booth right next to eachother. I’m alot more physically forward this time around because I plan on closing her, and this is what was lacking the last time I saw her. She’s receptive, but not really melting into me how a girl usually would be.
I keep getting this sense that she’s not allowing herself to be comfortable/ in the moment. And that her mind is elsewhere.
I decided I needed to try and get her more present/allow her to ease into the environment. I pull back a bit, and we chat about surface level stuff, and segway into deeper topics.
Throughout she’s pretty compliant, allowing me to touch her jewelry, hair, etc. But getting her to open up vibe wise, was like pulling teeth. I’d get flashes of smiles/excitement, but they’d quickly be overwashed by what looked like nervousness to me.
It’s worth mentioning that groups of people would walk by, and we’d visibly get stared at/hear chatter directed toward me, and I saw it kill her vibe a little.
This chick isn’t normally my “type” but she’d be considered super cute by most guys. Bleach blonde, really cute face, super submissive. If I had to rate her without personal bias I’d say she was an 8. Despite her not being my ideal type I still considered her attractive.
As time goes on she mentions feeling sick again, so I use it as an opportunity to bounce to her car like @Skills suggested in my other report. Different contexts but decided to either way.
I speculated it might’ve been the environment and was hoping she’d open up a bit more once we were gone.
Boy was I wrong. She put on some music heated up the car. I dialed up the touch more as we sat and talked. But she kept allowing herself to be distracted, talking about her car etc.
After a while I dial back on the touch and just let my seat back. I let things get quiet, and stare off into space looking at the stars. It’s calmer now. She’s flipping through songs asking what she should play next.
I tell her she’s so far I can barely see her phone. I give her my hand, and tell her to come join me so that I can see her better. She takes my hand but gives me a light refusal, saying it was too cramped. It wasn’t Lol.
I tell her how its way more spacious than mine, and ask again giving her my other hand and we grasp eachothers fingers. she takes it and I lightly pull her.
She comes about halfway, before slowly pulling away, saying it was too cramped. I pull back and after a while go back to talking with her. I’m super relaxed at this point, can’t say the same for her.
I tell her if she isnt gonna join me the least she can do is let her seat back so that she isn’t so cramped but she refuses this also. I could feel the lay wasn’t there at this point.
After a while of talking, she mentions needing to get home/ wasn’t feeling well, so , we parted ways. Left off on an okay note, and I shot her a parting text.
Did some diagnostics, not sure what I could’ve/should’ve done differently.
