Hey guys so over the past few months my approaches have gone down to basically zero. And one of the biggest reasons why is I have bad sex logistics (well imo).
I don't have a place of my own (staying with parents) or a vehicle of my own. The school I go to is a train ride away from my home city also.
I've racked up a lot of loans for schooling in college so getting my own place in less than a year just seems like a foreign concept. So, I've identified these things as some roadblocks in my head.
I have had few fwb's over the past few months but most of them just aren't panning out usually because of the "I don't want to have sex like this" (this meaning a car ahah). I've got one consistent fwb and things go well she's definitely happy with the sex we have which is keeping her on (and she usually has the house to herself at least few times a month). On occasion we will try the motel route but that can be expensive on my minimum wage salary lol.
So, I guess I'm coming to you guys asking for some help in this regard. Are these things some legit roadblocks and if so what is a possible mentality I can cultivate to better deal with them?
It's been something that has been bothering me more and more lately. I'm finally building up some money so a car could be in my possession by early next year.
So I'm interested to hear what you guys think. Can anybody relate to this situation??
I don't have a place of my own (staying with parents) or a vehicle of my own. The school I go to is a train ride away from my home city also.
I've racked up a lot of loans for schooling in college so getting my own place in less than a year just seems like a foreign concept. So, I've identified these things as some roadblocks in my head.
I have had few fwb's over the past few months but most of them just aren't panning out usually because of the "I don't want to have sex like this" (this meaning a car ahah). I've got one consistent fwb and things go well she's definitely happy with the sex we have which is keeping her on (and she usually has the house to herself at least few times a month). On occasion we will try the motel route but that can be expensive on my minimum wage salary lol.
So, I guess I'm coming to you guys asking for some help in this regard. Are these things some legit roadblocks and if so what is a possible mentality I can cultivate to better deal with them?
It's been something that has been bothering me more and more lately. I'm finally building up some money so a car could be in my possession by early next year.
So I'm interested to hear what you guys think. Can anybody relate to this situation??
