So I was introduced to this girl by my friend who works with her and her friend. We meet at a bar, chat, dance and then we all leave together. We have all drank heavily and after some goofing around I sleep with her. He sleeps with her friend again. I was realllly drunk at the time and I heard the next day she was completely thrilled about my performance lol. Don't get me wrong I was covered in bite marks and usually I receive positive feedback from sexy time. But it was whiskey d*ck, I guess. She drove me home etc. Has somewhat blown off my attempts to see her and then said she was with someone a few days back.(I have heard that ended quickly). My question is what do you do once you have already had sex and she is not interested in seeing you again. Not necessarily this girl in particular but, in general, let's say for some reason you had sex with her and it was bad experience. She feels slutty. Or just not intrigued. What would be the proper course of action there?
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Forget about her and move on. Focus on attaining an abundance mentality, and if the sex was bad, figure out what made it bad and avoid doing that / getting in that situation again, all while focusing as much of your energy as you can on targeting the areas you want to improve. If you run into her around town be polite (or just ignore her), but don't chase. Usually it's a good idea not to engage yourself -- just let her engage. If you still want something with her, let preselection be your bread and butter.
Over and out
Oskar
Over and out
Oskar
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Never think you performed badly because if you had a big night often her memory of the situation would be fuzzy as well. Always think you did well cause if you do she is likely to start thinking it was her imagination that you where bad or just cement that you where good if she thinks you were good.
forgot the psychological term for this but its the same as if you act positive towards someone they are more likely to respond positively to you
forgot the psychological term for this but its the same as if you act positive towards someone they are more likely to respond positively to you