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Beach Game: How to treat longer initial interactions?

Bob Z

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Have a tactical question as I've been primarily doing beach game. Oftentimes I'll approach a girl who is tanning by positioning self closely and use indirect/situational opener - while still being flirty (trying not to "hide banana" like in Chase's indirect article). If girl is receptive I generally keep conversation. I've had this last 30mins and sometimes even 1hr+ convo.

My question is how I should treat this and where should I steer conversation? I always check logistics for insta-date (although haven't had one yet from this), but I'm not sure if its best to treat this as an insta-date in it of itself or to try to keep things brief. Going for compliance is something that makes sense, like seeing if she wants to get in water with me or more minor forms of compliance.

Would this be a good situation for convo beyond flirting/getting info on her/small talk? Would it be wise to try to do deep diving or sex talk etc? What should I try to accomplish in terms of steering the conversation? If it matters, the girls I usually see on beach are younger like 19-23. How long would be best to stay in these conversations?

This has also happened with groups of girls where I open with my wing, usually 2 on 2. For this - mostly the same thing applies except I have to focus on group dynamics and girls reputation with friend also.

Any tips on this? Thanks.
 
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