BeautifulPeople.com - A dating site that only lets in Cute Girls and Guys

[Gentle_Phrases]

The site has current members rate you as attractive or unattractive strictly based on your profile picture (even though they have you fill out a few key details). If the majority of users all around the world rate you attractive over a 48 hour period, that means that you're allowed in. The site also requires you to verify that you are an actual person (via legit process reviewed by personnel). Verified accounts are labeled so that you know it's not some old dude pretending to be Megan Fox.

Link: http://www.beautifulpeople.com/en-US

This article here explains more about the site:

http://reesarch.wordpress.com/2012/12/29/how-to-get-into-beautifulpeople-com/

http://reesarch.wordpress.com/2013/07/14/review-of-beautifulpeople-com/


Key point: it states that these days it's more important for you not to be unattractive, rather than for you to be truly beautiful.

I got in. Realize that this doesn't mean very much because of what's stated above. They're screening for ugliness more so than elite beauty. If you're average and take a good pick you should be alright. As for the demographics, there are very, very few fat girls there. Those that are have cute faces usually. Almost ALL the girls are bangable/cold approach worthy, even if they're older. I saw very few women that I wouldn't cold approach. Problem is that unless you live in a large city there might not be too many chicks very near you. Also, you must pay to send and receive messages (women who have paid to join are labeled with a "P"). I think most people do it for the ego validation - I did.

Thought I'd share. I tried this mostly because I was looking for some way to figure out if being ugly as fuck is why after 500 approaches and nearly the equivalent in online dating (yes, I tried again and started moving my profile to big cities, just to see what I can get) I've gotten nowhere. Guess it's just my personality (fuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu)

It should be a good way to judge the attractiveness of you profile pictures though.

 

[Amadeaus]

I imagine there are not a ton of girls on this site. Its a bit obscure, so you are getting a lot less people signing up right off the bat. Then the potential to get pre-rejected will scare even more girls off.

Online dating has its pros and cons, but ultimately, I think happiness can't be achieved in front of a keyboard and monitor. I've had a bit of success with meeting girls online and its not ass exciting as real life.

Having some internet people click hot or not on a picture of you doesn't mean shit. Go back to the drawing board and take a look at what you are doing. Don't keep doing whatever isn't working.

 

[lingua]

. . . I was looking for some way to figure out if being ugly as fuck is why after 500 approaches and nearly the equivalent in online dating (yes, I tried again and started moving my profile to big cities, just to see what I can get) I've gotten nowhere. Guess it's just my personality (fuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu) . . .

Take a look at this if you haven't already.

https://www.girlschase.com/content/what- ... o-you-give

 

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

If you got into beautifulpeople and are still failing with online dating and 500 approaches then there is something wrong with your personality or whatever you are doing. I have seen decent looking guys get blasted off of beautifulpeople and can only imagine how bad they felt when they went through that. Also, did you barely get in or did you get in convincingly?

 

[Mr.Rob]

I have seen decent looking guys get blasted off of beautifulpeople and can only imagine how bad they felt when they went through that.

I have no sympathy. Beautifulpeople simply sounds like ego attachment to something that isn't actually real to pump or lower your self-image/esteem. I can see the purpose of using it to date and as a tool to PIMP IT but everything else aside is simply useless ego calories that allow you to compare yourself to other people and judge yourself according to others opinions.

I view myself as an attractive man (so I've been told) and if I weren't "accepted" to beautifulpeople that wouldn't affect me one bit. When you play the comparison game you can't win. There is always someone with MORE.

-Rob

 

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

I disagree, in today's society looks matter a lot more than they did back in the day. It isn't necessary to look good but it makes things a lot easier when you put time into improving your appearance. You don't compare yourself to anyone, you are just being judged based on how you look and if she isn't attracted to your looks then your options are going to be a lot more slim than if she is attracted to them. Looks matter no matter what anyone says, it helps you look your best.

 

[Mr.Rob]

Looks matter no matter what anyone says, it helps you look your best.

Agree, especially in the online dating world looks and appearance matter a lot. But at the end of the day personality and your emotional state trumps looks by a long shot, as far as what I've witnessed and come to understand so far.

Though you were talking about how it would suck to get denied from the beautifulpeople.com site and I'm saying that it's ridiculous to take others opinions and lower your self esteem accordingly.

Here's the thing if you go on that site in hopes of being accepted to feel "hot" or whatever rather than as a tool to pimp it with then your doing it to pump your ego/self image and then your drawing your self image from those around you and not from yourself. That means your self-image/esteem is dependent on an external uncontrollable source. People can do what they please I guess but as for me I'm going to draw my esteem from within wherever possible.

 

[Gentle_Phrases]

Also, did you barely get in or did you get in convincingly?

I got in comfortably, though not by any landslide. I'm nothing special trust me. No woman has ever told me that I'm hot or even cute. Occasionally I get a compliment on clothing. Occasionally. I more often get subtle criticisms about my appearance from women, actually, as they grow more comfortable with me. Things like "why are your ears so small?" and "why is your nose like that?" etc.

If you got into beautifulpeople and are still failing with online dating and 500 approaches then there is something wrong with your personality or whatever you are doing.

Guess looks aren't that important afterall ...! I agree with your latter point that 500 strikeouts is a sign of a major problem; that's why I'm here. Sux to suck

I have seen decent looking guys get blasted off of beautifulpeople and can only imagine how bad they felt when they went through that.

Yeah. We all have our struggles. Have these decent looking guys ever had a gf?

I haven't.

Anyway, you and Rob both make excellent points. Between internal and external referencing for self-esteem...as usual the answer must lie somewhere in between. Probably closer to the internal side than one would think.