Bedded a Girl and now she needs space. EU.

[sunny2015]

Hi There,

I´m going to try to describe a short story that happened to me last week in the hope of getting anyone´s help . As an European my english level is quite poor so I apologize.

I went out with a girl who was really into me and I finished bedding her. She was telling me how handsome I was and describing me as her perfect match. Sex was good (in my opinion of course, although she was less active than I previosly thought) and she came twice.

I spent the night in her house and the next morning we were with a terrible hangover. Anyway, We had sex again in the morning. She had an appointment with a girlfriend so I left her house before lunch. I felt she was a little bit aloof when I kissed her before leaving her home but I didn´t care about it. I texted her after dinner telling her I spent a very good time with her and setting a new date next week. She texted me back saying that she doesn`t feel like having a lunch because she needs space. I texted her saying that is ok and she thanked me.

I don´t know how to act now and why it happened this. I´m 44 and she is 31 (she thougth I was younger, because I look younger). I never thought the relationship would go anywhere due to the age gap but I ruined it too fast. Or could be only a test?

So, is better to wait until she reconects me (perhaps never), try hard this week because I´m going away during 5 weeks or definitively next her?
She is a beatiful girl but I´m not in love right now and in my experience this kind of games are quite dangeorus because u can fell in love at some point.

any advice?

Thanks in advance!

 

[Fuck This]

Drunken hookups often have buyer's remorse. You don't know where her head is but give her the space she wants. Could be just a one night stand. Send her a check in text in a couple weeks. Don't pester her.....

 

[sunny2015]

Drunken hookups often have buyer's remorse. You don't know where her head is but give her the space she wants. Could be just a one night stand. Send her a check in text in a couple weeks. Don't pester her.....

Thx for your response "Fuck this". I think she wanted it before we got drunk. But, you never know.

Anyway I did a move. Fortunately I forgot my watch at her home so I texted her to hangout in a Pub or at her home to pick it up. She said yes to hangout in a pub close to her house. So there is another chance.. I suposse.

Sunny,

 

[sunny2015]

We met this afternoon and we had some beers. I touched her and she held my hands every time I grabbed them. I invited to visit my home and she come in but when I began to escalate and tried to kiss her I failed. I changed the topic and tried again later, Three times, so I gave up. We went out and had another beer until she left. Quite dificult for me to figure out what happened. I guess that it would be better not to contact her.

Sunny

 

[Quicknick]

This one is tricky. A lot of things might have happened. But if she resisted escalation after sex once, she can feel remorse, be in love with someone else, auto-rejection because of age, or just decided one time with you was enough.

Either way, smile and move on. Make sure she has your contact. She might come back.