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Had a breakthrough in my daygame today. 6 approaches and 2 number closes.
First approach: Run up from behind, say "excuse me, i know guys usually don't do this, but i think you look cute and i wanted to meet you. What's your name?" It was the first approach and pretty sloppy, i opened while i was barely by her side, she said she had a boyfriend and i moved on
Second approach: sexy milf standing on the street, i walk past and look back on her amazing ass. Dammit man you gotta do it. I turn around, throw same gambit. We chit chat, what we are doing out today and stuff. I ask if she's single and she says she's not but that she thinks i'm awesome and brave and that i should keep going.
Third approach: i walk past two girls. Damn man she's hot, i run over, same line and all, greet her friend, get their names, chit chat, ask if she's single, she says she's seeing something. I say "well if it's nothing serious, take my number and you can think about it" and then she says alright and i say "no wait, i take your number and then i shoot you a text and you have mine" and we do that, boom get her number and i eject. (More on this later, she just messaged me)
Fourth approach: Woman with dog. Went pretty shitty she wouldnt take my hand in these times and the dog dragged her off. Nothing to add here really.
Fifth approach: See girl, run over, throw my gambit, we chit chat, she's just come home from seeing friends somewhere in the country, she's hungover. I ask if she lives around here and she says she lives right over there with her sister. I say alright and if she wanna go on a date some time, she says sure and gives her number. We say goodbye and head off. (Don't think this number is flakey, she texted me right after my standard "Hey (name), nice to meet you! -name" text)
Sixth approach: See two girls in front of me, run in front, throw my canned opener, she says she has a boyfriend in a really manly voice haha so i didnt mind. Asked if he was a nice boyfriend and if he treated her right and she smiled and said yeah. Told her congrats and have a nice day.
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Major breakthrough. My first real daygame session i would say where i had great momentum and didn't skip sets as much as usual. I was gonna do a 7th approach, but i could hear she was crying and she was with a friend so i decided not to. I'm on summer holidays and i was gonna use my holiday to get kickstarted for good with cold approaching and after only one day with 6 approaches i would say i'm off to a good start. Most of the girls i approach all compliment me for being brave to approach, it's a really rare thing here i guess. Very motivating. My take away from all of this is maybe to prolong my intereactions, build more rapport before i go for the close, but i think i'm doing good.
Now about that girl who said she was seeing someone. She just messaged me: "hey (name) you too! I think you were really brave but like i said i'm seeing someone right now, so it would be rude of me to go on a date, even though you seem really sweet "
How do i tackle this? Was thinking of saying something along the line of "Hey (name), thank you! It isn't rude if you haven't agreed to be exclusive. You can do whatever you feel like, life was made to be lived
" or something. Won't be the last time i'm hearing this but the way i see it is that it is her anti-slut defense. What is your advice?
Cheers
EDIT:
Got another girl's number in the gym before i rounded the day off. Went like this:
"Hey i don't think i've seen you here before, what's your name", chit chat about training and about what else is going on in life, said i would go back to training but "do you wanna hang out some time?" (I know this one isnt ideal, statements/invitations not asking) but she said "maybe yeah" and gave her number
First approach: Run up from behind, say "excuse me, i know guys usually don't do this, but i think you look cute and i wanted to meet you. What's your name?" It was the first approach and pretty sloppy, i opened while i was barely by her side, she said she had a boyfriend and i moved on
Second approach: sexy milf standing on the street, i walk past and look back on her amazing ass. Dammit man you gotta do it. I turn around, throw same gambit. We chit chat, what we are doing out today and stuff. I ask if she's single and she says she's not but that she thinks i'm awesome and brave and that i should keep going.
Third approach: i walk past two girls. Damn man she's hot, i run over, same line and all, greet her friend, get their names, chit chat, ask if she's single, she says she's seeing something. I say "well if it's nothing serious, take my number and you can think about it" and then she says alright and i say "no wait, i take your number and then i shoot you a text and you have mine" and we do that, boom get her number and i eject. (More on this later, she just messaged me)
Fourth approach: Woman with dog. Went pretty shitty she wouldnt take my hand in these times and the dog dragged her off. Nothing to add here really.
Fifth approach: See girl, run over, throw my gambit, we chit chat, she's just come home from seeing friends somewhere in the country, she's hungover. I ask if she lives around here and she says she lives right over there with her sister. I say alright and if she wanna go on a date some time, she says sure and gives her number. We say goodbye and head off. (Don't think this number is flakey, she texted me right after my standard "Hey (name), nice to meet you! -name" text)
Sixth approach: See two girls in front of me, run in front, throw my canned opener, she says she has a boyfriend in a really manly voice haha so i didnt mind. Asked if he was a nice boyfriend and if he treated her right and she smiled and said yeah. Told her congrats and have a nice day.
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Major breakthrough. My first real daygame session i would say where i had great momentum and didn't skip sets as much as usual. I was gonna do a 7th approach, but i could hear she was crying and she was with a friend so i decided not to. I'm on summer holidays and i was gonna use my holiday to get kickstarted for good with cold approaching and after only one day with 6 approaches i would say i'm off to a good start. Most of the girls i approach all compliment me for being brave to approach, it's a really rare thing here i guess. Very motivating. My take away from all of this is maybe to prolong my intereactions, build more rapport before i go for the close, but i think i'm doing good.
Now about that girl who said she was seeing someone. She just messaged me: "hey (name) you too! I think you were really brave but like i said i'm seeing someone right now, so it would be rude of me to go on a date, even though you seem really sweet "
How do i tackle this? Was thinking of saying something along the line of "Hey (name), thank you! It isn't rude if you haven't agreed to be exclusive. You can do whatever you feel like, life was made to be lived
" or something. Won't be the last time i'm hearing this but the way i see it is that it is her anti-slut defense. What is your advice?Cheers
EDIT:
Got another girl's number in the gym before i rounded the day off. Went like this:
"Hey i don't think i've seen you here before, what's your name", chit chat about training and about what else is going on in life, said i would go back to training but "do you wanna hang out some time?" (I know this one isnt ideal, statements/invitations not asking) but she said "maybe yeah" and gave her number
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