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Beginner realization and question concerning: not her "type"

LearningMan

Space Monkey
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Last week me and some friends went to a watering hole together. There was one woman with us who I've known by name for some time, but haven't really hung out much together.
I figure its a good opportunity to run some game.
A bit of flirting, rapport, deep diving and I put A couple songs on the jukebox that would get her dancing.
All of a sudden she gravitated towards a biker. No big deal, she's a very outgoing person.
After a few minutes, I walk over to ask her about one of our friends who wasn't feeling well and went to the car earlier.
She introduced me to the biker and began relating stories of how her dad owned a Harley when she was young and her last BF went deep sea fishing in Alaska every year

...it hit me like a ton of bricks: she liked the rough and tumble type.
Which I'm not. No bother, at least I found out so as to not waste my time.

For me as a beginner, this seems like an insurmountable obstacle. I'd really like to be able to focus on girls who are looking for my type(been told I look like a model, so kind of going for that)

How do I find out early on in an interaction what a girls type is without asking explicitly?
Get her to bring up past relationships?
 
a good date brings a smile to your lips... and hers

ray_zorse

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Nah, always game as normal and make a move, this will make her decide whether you are her type or not. If you are attractive (a sexy dominant motherfucker) this will override any other considerations. If you are relatable on topics like Harleys or the fishing mentioned, it will help, but you can always find other stuff to relate on.
Ray
 
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