Hello there,
recently I've begun texting with a cute girl met via social circle. She's cool, but inexpirenced and shy. We met a few days ago while anging around with mutal friends, tried some conversation but didn't have much successs, more due to her being shy than else. Later I began texting her, and her girlfriends basically obliged her to respond, which was cool for both because now she's complitely into it.
Basically, there's lot of social pressure (and probably she feels it much) for us texting and maybe getting together. Fact is, things are progressing far too slow. In one of my early texts she refused to date, probably out of shyness. Now she's going on vacation and I won't be able to see her in two weeks. When she returns we'll surely see each other at a party.
SO, badly written introduction aside, here are the problems. First, we sent a lot of texts, but after the few intial ones, once the novelty and the exitment went off, I wasn't able to take the conversation to something sexual. I don't now why, probably because of me knowing she's really shy (and inexpirenced) and because after the initial spike of exitment i now know that' I'm gonna get her, unless i fuck up hard. Probelm is, I'm afraid that by when we'll meet again all attraction will be gone. Boh!
Secondly, in three weeks I'm going to a holiday, and that's with our mutal friends. I wouldn't mind having some fun and hookups during that time, but if things go as I expect them to go, by then I'll be on the road to relationship, and that's not counting the fact that her friends maybe would have approved me doing the crazy guy, but certantly not when I'm dating their friend (they are quite making pressure for the two of us to date).
So, what sould I do?
recently I've begun texting with a cute girl met via social circle. She's cool, but inexpirenced and shy. We met a few days ago while anging around with mutal friends, tried some conversation but didn't have much successs, more due to her being shy than else. Later I began texting her, and her girlfriends basically obliged her to respond, which was cool for both because now she's complitely into it.
Basically, there's lot of social pressure (and probably she feels it much) for us texting and maybe getting together. Fact is, things are progressing far too slow. In one of my early texts she refused to date, probably out of shyness. Now she's going on vacation and I won't be able to see her in two weeks. When she returns we'll surely see each other at a party.
SO, badly written introduction aside, here are the problems. First, we sent a lot of texts, but after the few intial ones, once the novelty and the exitment went off, I wasn't able to take the conversation to something sexual. I don't now why, probably because of me knowing she's really shy (and inexpirenced) and because after the initial spike of exitment i now know that' I'm gonna get her, unless i fuck up hard. Probelm is, I'm afraid that by when we'll meet again all attraction will be gone. Boh!
Secondly, in three weeks I'm going to a holiday, and that's with our mutal friends. I wouldn't mind having some fun and hookups during that time, but if things go as I expect them to go, by then I'll be on the road to relationship, and that's not counting the fact that her friends maybe would have approved me doing the crazy guy, but certantly not when I'm dating their friend (they are quite making pressure for the two of us to date).
So, what sould I do?
