Being called 'cute' - good or bad?

[NaturallySmooth]

I've been noticing that a lot of girls lately call me 'cute.' Like "awww you're so cute" or "aw that's cute" or something similar

It isn't hurting my game with them because i'm going to bed w the same girls that say this (and the sex is anything but "cute"). Still, even after I show them a great time in bed they will still refer to me as "cute"

Should I be concerned? I don't get "sexy" which I know is really emphasized on the site but i do get "cute." I don't mind because im young and as long as i get results, I get results. But i just wanted your guys' thoughts on this.

Does it ever happen to you?

 

[Marty]

NaturallySmooth:

To be blunt: if you're taking the same girls to bed, then you're getting the ultimate in compliance from them. I wouldn't pay the slightest attention to what they're saying about you in that case, as their actions speak for themselves.

A girl recently called me "very sweet" and I toyed for an instant with the idea of coming back with some smartass remark like "Sweet? Wait till you get to know me!", but instead I let it ride. I'm glad I didn't rise to the bait, as I ended up making out with her.

I think silence speaks volumes in terms of effortlessness and sprezzatura.

-Marty

 

[PinotNoir]

I agree with Marty here.

She may just be trying to get a reaction. And when you ignore it, you come off a lot stronger than someone that tries to defend himself (i.e., you look weak/insecure).

I was at a club last year and a girl said, "You're such a good guy." I said back to her, "Well, someone has to spank the bad girls and keep them in line." It didn't ruin the interaction, but it didn't help either. It was like a neutral comment.

If you're sleeping with these girls, it doesn't matter if they're calling you "bozo the clown" or "koko the monkey" really.

 

[NaturallySmooth]

I just want to add that it's not said in a condescending way like they are trying to baby me. They want to compliment me by calling me cute.

I guess it doesen't matter, I just don't know why I can't get sexy haha. Oh well, thanks for the comments guys. In the end it really is all about results and actions, not what girls say