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I have a problem being comfortable in a foreign setting, even while I'm just relaxing and not picking up girls (By foreign setting, I mean anywhere you don't usually go to, with people you aren't very close with- driving a couple of hours away to somewhere attractive, or camping, or traveling even).
What would happen is that I'd feel, deep inside, quite uneasy: I'm not myself, I'm not comfortable, and as much as the place I'm at is really nice and enjoyable, I just want to leave.
This feeling is intensified when I'm around people I'm not very close with.
Any thoughts?
Edit: I thought a bit about the situation. The thing is, I feel my approach to the whole outing is negative. Instead of thinking "wow look at this" or "this is fun, I wonder what other fun thing I can do" or even "I'm bored, what's next", I'm thinking less such positive things and more of "I don't feel very comfortable" which in turn makes me feel more comfortable. Makes sense? Has there been any article or forum post similar to this?
What would happen is that I'd feel, deep inside, quite uneasy: I'm not myself, I'm not comfortable, and as much as the place I'm at is really nice and enjoyable, I just want to leave.
This feeling is intensified when I'm around people I'm not very close with.
Any thoughts?
Edit: I thought a bit about the situation. The thing is, I feel my approach to the whole outing is negative. Instead of thinking "wow look at this" or "this is fun, I wonder what other fun thing I can do" or even "I'm bored, what's next", I'm thinking less such positive things and more of "I don't feel very comfortable" which in turn makes me feel more comfortable. Makes sense? Has there been any article or forum post similar to this?
