Experienced man knows what he wants (he wants to sleep with her as soon as possible). He's slept with many other girls, he is not shy. He touches her, he kisses her, he suggests to go to his place. He doesn't asks her for permission, he just do it because he wants to do it. It is relatively "easy" for her to follow him because he is leading her
Inexperienced man has a lot of difficulties. He is shy, afraid to touch her. He doesn't know how to kiss her. He doesn't suggest to go to his place, instead he asks her if she wants to go "someplace". He is not leading, he is hesitant. It is very difficult for her to follow him, he doesn't know what he wants, he is not sure of himself whether he can sleep with her
Women also like challenge. A man, usually inexperienced, is not a challege to her. He goes exactly wherever she says. He waits for her and replies to every texts she sends. He immediatelly picks up the phone when she calls because he can't wait. He shows up everywhere she says, and he waits for her hours. He does everything she asks for. He buys her meals, pays for everything as if he wanted to "buy" her approval and love. He thinks the more stuff he buys her the more he is proving to her. He tells her he loves her even when she doesn't ask, then he repeats it several times to make sure she heard it. And she did, ugh! He tells her everything about himself, even things she would never ask because he thinks she will be his mama. He can't say NO to her because he is afraid that she will leave. He is too nice, too complient, there is no excitement, he has no clue what he wants. He puts her on the pedestal, he does many things for her while she does nothing for him. She has bigger value in that relationship than he does. She has to lead him, she has to tell him what to do, she has to make most of the decisions. He is very boring to her
Experienced man is a huge challenge. Women love challenge. When she says lets go to the movies, he says: Yes, we will but first lets go to do XYZ, it is more fun. When she asks him to do something, she knows that she will have to do something for him as well, and even more. He says: I will be happy do that, but what exiting will you do for me? If she doesn't blush, she didn't get the hint yet. He won't ask her to do something, he will tell her to do it because he doesn't ask for permissions, instead he tells! He never tells her whether he loves her or not, she has to figure that one out. He never tells her anything about himself, she has to put lots of effort into it to find out. He lets her pay for herself because he doesn't have to "buy" her affection. He tells her NO without any hesitation, and she knows that he will walk away from her anytimes she doesn't comply. He doesn't see her as his mama, he sees her as a sexy girl. This man is exciting, leading, he knows what he wants. He wants her (pussy) and he will not hesitate to take the first opportunity to nail her. He is on the pedestal, not her. She needs to do things to keep him around, otherwise he is gone. He has bigger value than she does. She needs to follow him wherever he says, and she loves it because he is more dominant than her. She desn't have to make those difficult decisions because he is a man enough to make them on his own, and he doesn't need her permissions to take what he wants
So it is basically the same. Experienced man LEADS her to bed while being a challenge, while keeping the attraction between them high. She needs to follow him, and not the other way...
