This site is awesome, when i first found it i started changing how i act around people to be more sexy. It was fun and peoples reactions to me changed. Then i found a different pick up site that advises more just being present to the moment than anything else. I thought they were crazy at first because they would be talking fast and acting silly. Not at all like the James Bond style recommended here at this website.
But now ive been meditating everyday for a year and have been practicing being grounded in the moment while socializing and going out. When im feeling my legs resonating while talking to people and building up social momentum, i get out of my self image and just let loose. I do what i want without thinking. I escape my self image entirely. This is way different than how i used to act when i was trying to be sexy. That was being completely stuck in my self image.
Now when im grounded im able to set a really strong frame combined with a very carefree attitude. It's really fun and it makes me really funny although i can image people that are stuck in the self image could find me self centered and annoying. It's fun though when its happening because you're not thinking about that, youre just always thinking of something you find funny.
This seems very similar to how Russell Brand is. He has been meditating for many years now and is so carefree and silly. He acts much different than whats recommended here. He's not at all like James Bond or Brad Pitt, but yet he also gets laid all the time I'm pretty sure (could be a lot of the fame although i don't think he would need it and I think he was a sex addict from he was famous).
Here's one of his interviews with an attractive interviewer.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DQ5DcKlFc2I
Here's another interview of his
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UOqgH58Uoa0
Nothing like James Bond but he comes off so carefree and fun that most women find him attractive. Any thoughts on this? Being grounded vs stuck in self image
But now ive been meditating everyday for a year and have been practicing being grounded in the moment while socializing and going out. When im feeling my legs resonating while talking to people and building up social momentum, i get out of my self image and just let loose. I do what i want without thinking. I escape my self image entirely. This is way different than how i used to act when i was trying to be sexy. That was being completely stuck in my self image.
Now when im grounded im able to set a really strong frame combined with a very carefree attitude. It's really fun and it makes me really funny although i can image people that are stuck in the self image could find me self centered and annoying. It's fun though when its happening because you're not thinking about that, youre just always thinking of something you find funny.
This seems very similar to how Russell Brand is. He has been meditating for many years now and is so carefree and silly. He acts much different than whats recommended here. He's not at all like James Bond or Brad Pitt, but yet he also gets laid all the time I'm pretty sure (could be a lot of the fame although i don't think he would need it and I think he was a sex addict from he was famous).
Here's one of his interviews with an attractive interviewer.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DQ5DcKlFc2I
Here's another interview of his
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UOqgH58Uoa0
Nothing like James Bond but he comes off so carefree and fun that most women find him attractive. Any thoughts on this? Being grounded vs stuck in self image
