Hey guys first time posting here, just wanted to say thanks to everyone that contributes to this site as I've been following it religiously for the past year and it's turned my life around. I especially want to thank Chase and Anatman who I feel have especially helped me stop being such a huge homo, you're doing Gods work boys. Now to my question, I live in Canada, I'm 17, my parents are Christian fundamentalists and it's cold as fuck outside, I have no car, where am I supposed to get it on? I know there's an article on this but I feel like I could use some more advice... Would the movie theatre be a good idea? I know its adviced against the movies but I feel like at my age it's a good space for it, public bathrooms seems impossible to me and I have no idea what those backspaces at the mall are. I'm getting decent results with girls but lack a good private space to seal the deal... I want to move to Miami but until then any tips you guys could give would be unreal, thanks!
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I would have told you to meet your date at a hotel bar (or hotel restaurant), then pay for a room in the same hotel when you feel she is ready.... but you are 17 years and in my city you need to be over 18 years to book a hotel room...
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Welcome aboard, and wonderful to hear you're turning things around.
You might have to spend some time scouting your town out looking for places you can use, and you may have to be creative.
If there's a hot tub place in town (where you can rent a hot tub for an hour or two), that's ideal; just use that as the last (surprise) part of the date (don't bring swimsuits, or tell her to - then you'll just have to go in nude).
Otherwise, see what you can find around town. A movie theater *might* be doable, especially if you go during weekday matinees to movies that've been out for a while where you're the only two people in the theater, but more squeamish girls may not go for it because of the risk of an usher or another theater-goer walking by and catching you in the act. You might have trouble moving past handjobs or oral here. Since it's cold, outdoors is out... maybe a mall bathroom if you're really in a pinch (these don't tend to be guarded or anything, and if you can find an out-of-the-way bathroom and go at a time of day when there aren't many people there, that might be workable).
I'd probably talk to my friends and see if any of them has somewhere you can borrow or use. Chances are you've got a buddy who won't mind helping you get laid by letting you use his logistics if he's cool.
Chase
Welcome aboard, and wonderful to hear you're turning things around.
You might have to spend some time scouting your town out looking for places you can use, and you may have to be creative.
If there's a hot tub place in town (where you can rent a hot tub for an hour or two), that's ideal; just use that as the last (surprise) part of the date (don't bring swimsuits, or tell her to - then you'll just have to go in nude).
Otherwise, see what you can find around town. A movie theater *might* be doable, especially if you go during weekday matinees to movies that've been out for a while where you're the only two people in the theater, but more squeamish girls may not go for it because of the risk of an usher or another theater-goer walking by and catching you in the act. You might have trouble moving past handjobs or oral here. Since it's cold, outdoors is out... maybe a mall bathroom if you're really in a pinch (these don't tend to be guarded or anything, and if you can find an out-of-the-way bathroom and go at a time of day when there aren't many people there, that might be workable).
I'd probably talk to my friends and see if any of them has somewhere you can borrow or use. Chances are you've got a buddy who won't mind helping you get laid by letting you use his logistics if he's cool.
Chase
