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There's this girl I met several times now. The first time was at one of my parties. She opened me by pretty much falling on top of me. We sat there and chatted for a couple minutes. She asked me for my number and snapchat. I was just about to pull her to an empty room when and she got up and said "brb I gotta to check on my best friend". Normally, this is where I would persist and try to get her to stay. But I figured since she was the one who opened me and requested my phone number and basically wants my dick, she meant that she'd actually come back. This was not the case. I didn't see her at that party again. She sent me random snaps of herself the rest of the night.
During the week, I tried to set up a date with her, but she didn't go for it. Also, she stopped sending me snaps. I figured I missed an escalation window.
Next weekend, I ran into her by chance at another party. This time, I had massive preselection. Cause I had 4 of my girl friends, and I met a group of cheerleaders there who were also into me, and I met her friends who also liked me. So I basically had an entire room full of social proof. Problem is...I wasn't really sure how to isolate her. Otherwise I would have taken her home that night (I know...stupid mistakes which are costing me).
So two weeks later (a few days ago), I ask her out agian. This time she seemed pretty enthusiastic about it. She said she totally wanted to hang out and she asked me
Her:"what are you doing tomorrow?"
Me:I said "No plans yet, what were you thinking?"
Her: Idk gaha, I mean, I'll probably go to some parties but if I don't end up going it we should do something!
Me: Yeah, sounds good! Let me know when you find out if you're free tomorrow, and we'll figure something out
She never texted me (she was supposed to text me this last Friday). But yesterday (Saturday), she sent me a snap. It was a picture of her holding a wine bottle. The caption was "BF for the night". To which I replied with a selfie with a closed lip smile with the caption "he looks very sophisticated".
An hour later, she sent me another videosnap. It was literally 10 seconds of her filming a shower and at the end, she said: "Greatest shower for sex". Also, the caption was "greatest shower for sex" as well. To that, I replied with a similar selfie but this time, the caption was " Forsure! Looks like it'd be fun"
She never replied to that.
I know all my mistakes up till last night. I had two opportunities to pull her, and I should have been more persistent in getting the date last Friday. But what about this snapchat thing. I hadn't really encountered that before. Did I handle it correctly? What would you guys have done?
During the week, I tried to set up a date with her, but she didn't go for it. Also, she stopped sending me snaps. I figured I missed an escalation window.
Next weekend, I ran into her by chance at another party. This time, I had massive preselection. Cause I had 4 of my girl friends, and I met a group of cheerleaders there who were also into me, and I met her friends who also liked me. So I basically had an entire room full of social proof. Problem is...I wasn't really sure how to isolate her. Otherwise I would have taken her home that night (I know...stupid mistakes which are costing me).
So two weeks later (a few days ago), I ask her out agian. This time she seemed pretty enthusiastic about it. She said she totally wanted to hang out and she asked me
Her:"what are you doing tomorrow?"
Me:I said "No plans yet, what were you thinking?"
Her: Idk gaha, I mean, I'll probably go to some parties but if I don't end up going it we should do something!
Me: Yeah, sounds good! Let me know when you find out if you're free tomorrow, and we'll figure something out
She never texted me (she was supposed to text me this last Friday). But yesterday (Saturday), she sent me a snap. It was a picture of her holding a wine bottle. The caption was "BF for the night". To which I replied with a selfie with a closed lip smile with the caption "he looks very sophisticated".
An hour later, she sent me another videosnap. It was literally 10 seconds of her filming a shower and at the end, she said: "Greatest shower for sex". Also, the caption was "greatest shower for sex" as well. To that, I replied with a similar selfie but this time, the caption was " Forsure! Looks like it'd be fun
" She never replied to that.
I know all my mistakes up till last night. I had two opportunities to pull her, and I should have been more persistent in getting the date last Friday. But what about this snapchat thing. I hadn't really encountered that before. Did I handle it correctly? What would you guys have done?
