Best thing about Girls Chase

[Nova]

For you personally?

Could be your a beginner and GC has provided you with the means to get your first girlfriend or overcome AA. Maybe you were already fairly accomplished with women and GC has helped you in an area that you have never been 100% with.

For me Girls Chase has helped me conceptualize my game and actually be aware of what I am doing. It has inspired me to actually analyze my interactions and consciously work on ways of improving my abilities.

 

[Oskar]

Easily the most powerful way that Girlschase has affected me is in redirecting the questions I ask (focus) and how I organize them (mental models). Coming out of victim mentality for example is simply the shift from woefully asking "why me?" to getting in the habit of asking the extremely important question: "How can I...?" Learning to take more risks is the shift from focusing on "What bad could happen from this?" to "What good could happen from this?"

The questions we ask, how we go about organizing them, and how we answer them literally shape who we are to the same degree that we can consciously control and direct our environment (which includes and predominantly is ourselves).

To recognize this all we have to do is look at the effectiveness of deep diving and how the essential part of it is probing for answers with personal questions. We can learn what is distinctive about who, what, when, why, how, and with what someone is, was, and may become. We can find out how someone perceives the world and how they respond to stimuli, and can then shape ourselves to stimulate that person optimally. If we want to take this another level deeper we can see how our stereotypes are largely built on our past attempts at interacting with persons (reference points) to our perceived best interests. I'm actually preparing an article on this very topic right now so won't go too far down the wormhole here (it can be a murky one, but sheds light on a lot of basic phenomena -- e.g. rumination and evolution), but suffice it to say that the structure of the questions we ask (and there are only 7 basic "circumstances" -- which can be compounded and modified in as many ways as a sentence can) determines our actions (noting that the problems our ancestors faced created the mold for who we are based on the problems they solved and our culture the acceptable and unacceptable questions to ask -- the normal, safe routes). An easier way to think of this circumstantial question model is to imagine the structure of a molecule.

Oh, and having lots of girls chase me is pretty great too

Best,
Oskar

 

[Marty]

For me the best thing is that it has inspired me to do something I never thought I could do... to pursue girls I really wanted from completely outside of my social circle, just because I wanted them, rather than just stumbling into relationships opportunistically as in the past. I haven't succeeded yet, but the progress is tangible and encouraging. And that by itself has reminded me that it's possible to learn something entirely new, if only you apply yourself.

Not to mention a healthy reminder that there are people in the world who will settle for nothing less than being the very best. As you try to follow such a person's precepts and imitate his process, you are left in even greater awe of his achievements. Naming no names

Oh and never change the website name, it's glorious. Sticks in the mind... that's how I found my way back after a first glance, there's something delightfully odd and memorable about that juxtaposition of words!!

 

[Ryan]

For me, GirlsChase gave me the belief that i could get any girl that i wanted, given i put enough practise into Chase's advice. His articles always really made sense and you just know you're reading from someone who knows what he's talking about.

Normally when it comes to dating/attracting women advice, i just use it for reference, to get a girl in my class whom i like. GirlsChase however inspired me to go much further than i ever thought possible. During this time, my beliefs on women, sex and dating has totally changed. (I used to be someone who believed in having few relationships and sex within marriage only). I'm the opposite now, but i don't think anyone but Chase would have convinced me to consider otherwise back then.

 

[Marty]

Three more things to add:

1. A community of like-minded individuals

This site does a kickass job of bringing together gentlemen who, though diverse geographically, socially and demographically, nonetheless share a uniting passion: bringing suspense, adventure, and ultimately pleasure into women's lives. What an uplifting common purpose!

It is striking how most of the regular members come across as thoroughly kind and decent (in a masculine, non–"nice-guy" way). In spite of never having met anyone here in person, I feel a closer affinity to some associates here than I do with many of the fellows I regularly meet in my daily life.

2. Insight into the female mind

In our dynamic, progressive, almost miraculous modern Western civilization, boys and girls have practically the same experiences, superficially, at each stage of life: learning to walk, picking up language, kindergarten, making friends, school, university, finding their niche in the workplace... Yet don't you think it's interesting how in spite of all this, each sex develops into a very different creature, mentally speaking? Almost all of it is preset, wired into the brain through eons of natural—and more importantly sexual—selection pressures.

It's a realization that inspires awe when it finally hits you: despite growing up in the exact same environment, men and women have taken away utterly different conclusions from their youthful experiences as concerns how to behave, how to achieve what they want, how they fit into society and how they relate to others. It's like: "All this time I've been living alongside these people in skirts and dresses, who I imagined were mostly like me, save for obvious anatomical variation. But actually, they see life completely differently. Why?"

3. Proof that social skill can be learned

If you're not especially gifted with numbers and don't have much of a head for business, but you have good general intelligence, you can become a certified accountant if you only apply yourself. It may not be the most productive way for you to use your gifts, either for you or for society; it certainly isn't your "calling". But everyone today recognizes that this is possible, should you want to do it; and in fact if you treat it as a stepping-stone on the path to something else, you may learn some lessons that later prove useful.

Not everyone, however, recognizes that the same is possible with the "social arts". Yet there is no reason why it should not be, as Chase has proved to all of us here. If you don't naturally have the finest social antennae, or if (as in my case) you have a fair amount of inborn ability but "missed out" somehow on the refining process while growing up, then so long as you have good general intelligence and the willingness to work hard and work smart, you can remedy that. You can learn to listen to your intuition and know when it's whispering a valuable message to you (and when it might be leading you astray). Social ability is a skill like any other: 10% talent and 90% application, whether conscious or unconscious.