- Joined
- Jan 4, 2013
- Messages
- 747
In my experience, if you can, go to the grocery store during lunch time or at 5 PM. These "day" times are usually the best times.
For coffee shops and malls, I've had just as good results at 5 PM and later; we'll call these "evening" times. Again, don't wait too late. I never go to coffee shops in the mornings before work, so I have no idea about then. This is also a great time for bookstores, as I've seen a lot of undergraduate and post-graduate (closer to my age) students studying.
Recently, I've been keeping a View Log. I definitely recommend it. Here's 2 examples taken directly from mine:
I've started doing this, in addition to my Approach/Success Log. This is a separate log.
This way -- if I don't approach for whatever reason -- I can better pinpoint the types of women I want at what times/locations.
Also, no matter what anyone suggests to you on this thread, times are going to be different depending on where you live. Young college town vs colder conservative town vs........
And, people may gives times for when women they like are out, and not for the women you like.
So, I recommend making a View Log, like bird watching
EDIT: This may appear "creepy," but I'm not going out and stalking these girls. I'm just doing my normal lunch at different times, and if I didn't/couldn't approach, then I just write down some of the pretty women I saw at certain times/locations. In this way, I hope to either get a 2nd chance or to see similar women to them. It's like just doing my normal life and journaling about it. And, I like a better "focused" approach versus a random-hope-I-find-someone approach. I don't want to waste my time. If you keep going out at a certain time and not seeing anyone, obviously, change the time, don't waste your time, and this is a good way to remind yourself what times at what locations are bad/good. Lastly, you should also be keeping an Approach and Success Log, as I mentioned.
For coffee shops and malls, I've had just as good results at 5 PM and later; we'll call these "evening" times. Again, don't wait too late. I never go to coffee shops in the mornings before work, so I have no idea about then. This is also a great time for bookstores, as I've seen a lot of undergraduate and post-graduate (closer to my age) students studying.
Recently, I've been keeping a View Log. I definitely recommend it. Here's 2 examples taken directly from mine:
2014-01-22,Wed,1:30pm: 4 cute Asian women in B&N.
2014-01-23,Thu,12:00pm: 1 pretty white brunette wearing a striped shirt at park.
I've started doing this, in addition to my Approach/Success Log. This is a separate log.
This way -- if I don't approach for whatever reason -- I can better pinpoint the types of women I want at what times/locations.
Also, no matter what anyone suggests to you on this thread, times are going to be different depending on where you live. Young college town vs colder conservative town vs........
And, people may gives times for when women they like are out, and not for the women you like.
So, I recommend making a View Log, like bird watching
EDIT: This may appear "creepy," but I'm not going out and stalking these girls. I'm just doing my normal lunch at different times, and if I didn't/couldn't approach, then I just write down some of the pretty women I saw at certain times/locations. In this way, I hope to either get a 2nd chance or to see similar women to them. It's like just doing my normal life and journaling about it. And, I like a better "focused" approach versus a random-hope-I-find-someone approach. I don't want to waste my time. If you keep going out at a certain time and not seeing anyone, obviously, change the time, don't waste your time, and this is a good way to remind yourself what times at what locations are bad/good. Lastly, you should also be keeping an Approach and Success Log, as I mentioned.