Best US cities spend your 20s in as a guy.

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

I am currently in a medium sized city that has a lot of kids fresh out of college and although I do run into a lot of girls fresh out of college, it still feels kinda of conservative. The bar scene is relatively small, a lot of people tend to get married by mid 20s, and while I enjoy many parts of it I do not want to stay here long term.

Planning out a bit of my 20s and while this is a fun city in some instances, I want to explore some options.

I am really looking for cities where a guy in his 20s can find others in their 20s to be friends with and be a part of their social circles with alongside a city having a lot of hot girls in it.

All ears GC, want to hear as many options as possible!

 

[Richard]

Altair,

I think it would be more beneficial to find like-minded people instead of age-related people. I'm 22 but carry myself very well and am mature/confident so I tend to not vibe so well with other people my age who only have an interest in partying/alcohol, etc. As a result, my social circle tends to consist of people older than me where we're all like-minded and pursuing more-or-less the same goals. Just something to think about because if, apart from women, your life revolves around something scientific or intelligent then a place like Jersey wouldn't be best for you.

However, it sounds like you're looking for exactly that, right now. So, based on the experience and references of my friends in various parts of the country, here's some places to think about:
-Miami, FL.
-Honolulu, HI. <-- Not the stereotypical party but Hawaiians really live it up! My cousin got married here back in 2012 and the place comes to life at night!
-Chicago, IL. <-- My hometown - amazing combination of sky lounges and underground clubs
-Austin, TX
-San Juan <-- Ex girlfriend of mine grew up here. Good thing she took videos
-Boulder, CO. <-- Family vacation there in 2015.

-Richard

 

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

Chi town seems to have everything I want in a city, the party culture as well as an influx of midwestern blondes but the issue is and I know you hate me bringing this up Richard, it seems like black guys are the only minority group in that area that are socially acceptable for younger attractive blonde white girls to date and fuck.

Have you seen any brown guys killing it with the midwestern blonde types in the Chi town or is it a bit difficult based on the social culture of the area?

 

[Richard]

Chi town seems to have everything I want in a city, the party culture as well as an influx of midwestern blondes but the issue is and I know you hate me bringing this up Richard, it seems like black guys are the only minority group in that area that are socially acceptable for younger attractive blonde white girls to date and fuck.

Have you seen any brown guys killing it with the midwestern blonde types in the Chi town or is it a bit difficult based on the social culture of the area?

Chicago is a melting pot, homie. Every culture has their own little part of Chicago, and brown/Indian/Middle-Eastern is no different. Although, it's probably best to avoid those places because then you lose some intrigue for being a brown guy but, yeah, I see Middle-Eastern men with hot women; especially the ones involved with the sky lounges and what not.

Confidence in yourself is most attractive and it's a womans highest priority when it comes to sleeping with a guy, everything else is secondary. If y ou can give a girl great sex and convey it in a way that women pick up on then your skin, etc. becomes unimportant. Actually, girls will assimilate the things that stand out about you and associate them with good sex - I'm slightly overweight and it's noticeable but I'm confident and can make a girl orgasm regardless and the girls I fuck tend to go for bigger guys after we split. I've heard the same from other advanced guys with things like chest hair, etc.

 

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

I rather not hang out near those ethnic areas, not my cup of tea.

Nice to hear though, I know the Chi town is very underrated for its women, some Big 10 schools produce an overabundance of tall hot blondes.

 

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

bumped if anyone has any other good cities to offer