Best way to respond when a girl asks for a pic of you?

[PatriotsRule]

She just texted 'send me a picture of you'. Whats the best way to handle this? Just send a pic? How should i take it? Or use an old pic i look good in? Make her earn it? Ask for hers first? What you guys usually do?

 

[metomeya]

Depends on how much the girl is into you.

If she is really into you she'll send it first if you ask (even if she already asked you first). You'll just have to wear her down.

If she isn't that into you, your pic might be the deal breaker. If you are attractive send it. If not, I would follow what Style did. Send it with some type of social proof. For example, he would send a pic of him from a magazine article about him. Tons of social proof there.

I doubt you have a magazine article written about you, but I'm sure you can come up with something clever to show value.

 

[BarryS1]

Is this online dating or you guys met face-to-face? I think you should say "you'll have to get out of the house and meet me at X to see me." I've had a few girls try getting my snapchat id or make me send a picture before the first date. If the girl doesn't want to go out with you, but keeps requesting pictures, she probably thinks of you as a trophy (used to be me). I have a couple female friends that collect dumb pictures that guys send them. Before snapchat made the images disappear after 10 sec., this was a HUGE issue. I remember seeing tons of Yahoo! answers questions about the right pics for a guy to send via snapchat - what a load of stress!