Beware Triangulation

[Smith]

That's interesting. Some girl's names popped into my mind when I read this. How do we know if it's not our game that's the problem?
I mean, it's easy to imagine the girl trying to triangulate you than it is to identify faults in your game. Like you said, it's very hard to recognize you're being triangulated until you went on a lot of dates. Nothing's black and white of course, so if a girl is resistant to your hookup, it could mean a lot of things and it doesn't necessary mean she's trying to triangulate you right? Even if she is, is there anything we can do to screen out these type of girls before we invest too much time (or even any time) on her?

 

[NarrowJ]

I usually NEVER let a woman pick the venue.

That being said, I've had a few that reject my suggestion and offer a different spot. I'll have to start watching for this, and if they don't have a good excuse for dictating the location I'll know to thwart that and demand a compromise.


J.J.

 

[mindful]

haha funny reading this right now. I had a date on Monday where I suggested a spot (near my apt) and the girl counter-offered. This doesn't happen too often but when it does I let out a laugh and tell myself "you little sneaky bitch you...". It annoys me for a few seconds then I just agree to meet her where she suggests. Luckily I didn't encounter an alternative motive and banged her that night at her apt. So no, not always black and white... but i hate when it happens.

 

[Smith]

haha funny reading this right now. I had a date on Monday where I suggested a spot (near my apt) and the girl counter-offered. This doesn't happen too often but when it does I let out a laugh and tell myself "you little sneaky bitch you...". It annoys me for a few seconds then I just agree to meet her where she suggests. Luckily I didn't encounter an alternative motive and banged her that night at her apt. So no, not always black and white... but i hate when it happens.

Yes it isn't always black and white. I have a girl suggested a cafe so much closer to my place that I didn't know before. Don't think she has an alternative motive, but we'll see tomorrow lol.