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Hey Gents!
The purpose of this report is that I'm really good with LMR (up until sex itself, still tweaking that), unless the girl refuses to kiss, and usually that's accompanied with her saying she needs to more comfortable. I met this girl a week ago at the mall and saw her walking with her sister and my god her (and her twin's) ass was amazing, truly is what led me to approach. Turns out the twin had a boyfriend, so my 50/50 shot was right. I got her number, we planned to meet Thursday, then she rescheduled to Monday (today).
I get there and didn't totally recognize her until she said her name to the cashier (coffee place), at which point I side hugged her and teased a little. The conversation had flair from the start (and while typing this, I'm getting a little angsty, I may have missed an easy early pull), getting to know each other with sexuality thrown in (can't remember exact phrases). We sit outside and unfortunately all the seating options were pretty spaced out, so the touchiness I had at the start got broken apart (come to think of it, I could have sworn she inched away after a shoulder touch early on). But the talk was still really on.
I'll just collect quotes here as they come to me:
We went to a Trader Joe's and I used their restroom (had her hold my drink;hot water), then she wanted to go to Marshalls, so we did and the talk was still playful and charged, but my touch was way too weak. Walking back to the coffee shop, I weakly suggested we go to her place (came out weak and didn't give a stand-in reason...) or mine, but she countered with girl logic and I just felt retarded about how I just tried to pull...
We sat down on some couch chairs, but they were still really far apart (I did get her to move which one she was in, though). Eventually I mentioned not liking how far they were (think this is where my verbal game got weak; aside from the pull attempt) and then the third quote happened. After that, she mentioned her needing to be comfortable (thinking back...if I had a well executed pull, and continued touch, I'd probably still be busy doing other things right now...) and that she needs time to warm up. We chatted some more, then I randomly got up while she was talking and suggested we go (and told her to continue).
We went to my car and I got my jacket, but stood at the opened rear door and eventually said, let's just hang out here, and got in. She was cool with it and went to the other side. Once in the car, the distance felt enormous, but I'd occasionally touch her shoulder on points.
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Here's where the LMR part came in (though I now highly believe I flubbed a potentially hot night...)
She was extremely chatty and I wasn't getting a ton of IOI's, but I just went for a manhandle kiss at some point, but she dodged, so I sat back and reminded her of what she was saying. The rest of the night was talking and me occasionally going for it, and her constantly dodging, mentioning she needs time to get to know someone/she needs to be more comfortable. I was cool about it the whole time and did ask at one point that "if you aren't comfortable..." and she said that "I can feel awkward, but still be comfortable" (should have repeated the part of her admitting to being comfortable) and proceeded to dodge still. I asked her to scoot over at one point and she did, and I put my arm around her shoulders, but she moved it. I would occasionally mention my hand was cold and held it out and she'd grab it for a moment, squeeze and try to move her hand away. At some point, she was checking her phone for a map (to guess where I was from), and I put my arm around her then, but the rest of her body was still distant, and when I tried to pull her in, she fought back and I lost the arm around her.
My brother texted me at one point saying he was going to bed (parents are gone for a couple days) and I said we could just go hang out "there", but she kept saying it was "weird that my brother was there" (same reason she used to resist going to her place, "it's weird, her housemate is there") and that she had to go soon, she has work at 7:20 (it was like 9). At some point I asked her when her last boyfriend (or anything) was and she said June was when her 4 year relationship ended, and she asked me when mine last was, and I paused and she said "probably 2 weeks ago haha" and I put on a bad poker face (it was true... ;D) and she laughed. I told her that I'm at a point where I want to explore things and enjoy life. Eventually I pulled up an Alan Watts video about the dream of life (she's into philosophy stuff) and I had my arm around her again, and again on pulling her in, she fought back, and I called the evening (she said it before the video, but I made sure to make it sound like I was ending the date) by saying, "okay, get out
"
We walked over to her car and she said she had to go to the restroom, and started in that direction, then I called her name and opened my arms. She walked over and hugged me and tightly pressed her body against mine (even her hips, I'm wondering if it was truly out of attraction, or baiting me to chase her). We held it for a few seconds and we looked into each others eyes, but I didn't go for a kiss (felt like it would be cliche) and we parted ways and somehow she brought up us seeing each other again, "but you probably are going to think, she's crazy!" and I teased back "yeah, she's nuts!" And went to my car. Unfortunately it was foggy as hell and I had to pee again... so I went back to the coffee shop and waited at the restroom, knowing she was in the only stall. She came out and tried explaining the poop stain in the toilet wasn't hers and I just teased and gave her a sexy side look as I went towards the restroom and she left.
All in all, the sexual talk was crazy, I'm really feeling like better game would have gotten me some huge Latina ass tonight, but there was a lot here to learn from, and I need to make sure I learn all I can to avoid silly losses in the future. I'm realizing a lack of comfort could have been that, in the car, she focused on a bunch of interesting random topics, and my attempts to dig deeper into her, weren't carried through enough. Not to mention more touch throughout and stronger frames when I pull. Any tips would be very welcome (including on my writing style).
I'll probably follow standard second date protocol, given she didn't actually let me kiss her; "enjoyed it" text tomorrow, and shoot for another meet a couple days later. (Tips for where I should suggest? My place won't be an option after tomorrow; she takes pride in her cooking)
Take care Gents!
Josh
The purpose of this report is that I'm really good with LMR (up until sex itself, still tweaking that), unless the girl refuses to kiss, and usually that's accompanied with her saying she needs to more comfortable. I met this girl a week ago at the mall and saw her walking with her sister and my god her (and her twin's) ass was amazing, truly is what led me to approach. Turns out the twin had a boyfriend, so my 50/50 shot was right. I got her number, we planned to meet Thursday, then she rescheduled to Monday (today).
I get there and didn't totally recognize her until she said her name to the cashier (coffee place), at which point I side hugged her and teased a little. The conversation had flair from the start (and while typing this, I'm getting a little angsty, I may have missed an easy early pull), getting to know each other with sexuality thrown in (can't remember exact phrases). We sit outside and unfortunately all the seating options were pretty spaced out, so the touchiness I had at the start got broken apart (come to think of it, I could have sworn she inched away after a shoulder touch early on). But the talk was still really on.
I'll just collect quotes here as they come to me:
- "Me: You got a cold drink?
Her: Yeah, to balance the hotness of this (us)"
"Her: Does this turn on? (Lamp)
Me: If it's plugged in...
Her: Ohh...
Me: You know how plugs work right? You stick it in a hole and things happen...
Her: Yes...things do happen..."
"Me: These are too far... I like to be closer...
Her: How close do you want to be? (Sexily)
Me: As close as you want to be" (Feel like this was far from an optimal response)
We went to a Trader Joe's and I used their restroom (had her hold my drink;hot water), then she wanted to go to Marshalls, so we did and the talk was still playful and charged, but my touch was way too weak. Walking back to the coffee shop, I weakly suggested we go to her place (came out weak and didn't give a stand-in reason...) or mine, but she countered with girl logic and I just felt retarded about how I just tried to pull...
We sat down on some couch chairs, but they were still really far apart (I did get her to move which one she was in, though). Eventually I mentioned not liking how far they were (think this is where my verbal game got weak; aside from the pull attempt) and then the third quote happened. After that, she mentioned her needing to be comfortable (thinking back...if I had a well executed pull, and continued touch, I'd probably still be busy doing other things right now...) and that she needs time to warm up. We chatted some more, then I randomly got up while she was talking and suggested we go (and told her to continue).
We went to my car and I got my jacket, but stood at the opened rear door and eventually said, let's just hang out here, and got in. She was cool with it and went to the other side. Once in the car, the distance felt enormous, but I'd occasionally touch her shoulder on points.
---
Here's where the LMR part came in (though I now highly believe I flubbed a potentially hot night...)
She was extremely chatty and I wasn't getting a ton of IOI's, but I just went for a manhandle kiss at some point, but she dodged, so I sat back and reminded her of what she was saying. The rest of the night was talking and me occasionally going for it, and her constantly dodging, mentioning she needs time to get to know someone/she needs to be more comfortable. I was cool about it the whole time and did ask at one point that "if you aren't comfortable..." and she said that "I can feel awkward, but still be comfortable" (should have repeated the part of her admitting to being comfortable) and proceeded to dodge still. I asked her to scoot over at one point and she did, and I put my arm around her shoulders, but she moved it. I would occasionally mention my hand was cold and held it out and she'd grab it for a moment, squeeze and try to move her hand away. At some point, she was checking her phone for a map (to guess where I was from), and I put my arm around her then, but the rest of her body was still distant, and when I tried to pull her in, she fought back and I lost the arm around her.
My brother texted me at one point saying he was going to bed (parents are gone for a couple days) and I said we could just go hang out "there", but she kept saying it was "weird that my brother was there" (same reason she used to resist going to her place, "it's weird, her housemate is there") and that she had to go soon, she has work at 7:20 (it was like 9). At some point I asked her when her last boyfriend (or anything) was and she said June was when her 4 year relationship ended, and she asked me when mine last was, and I paused and she said "probably 2 weeks ago haha" and I put on a bad poker face (it was true... ;D) and she laughed. I told her that I'm at a point where I want to explore things and enjoy life. Eventually I pulled up an Alan Watts video about the dream of life (she's into philosophy stuff) and I had my arm around her again, and again on pulling her in, she fought back, and I called the evening (she said it before the video, but I made sure to make it sound like I was ending the date) by saying, "okay, get out
"We walked over to her car and she said she had to go to the restroom, and started in that direction, then I called her name and opened my arms. She walked over and hugged me and tightly pressed her body against mine (even her hips, I'm wondering if it was truly out of attraction, or baiting me to chase her). We held it for a few seconds and we looked into each others eyes, but I didn't go for a kiss (felt like it would be cliche) and we parted ways and somehow she brought up us seeing each other again, "but you probably are going to think, she's crazy!" and I teased back "yeah, she's nuts!" And went to my car. Unfortunately it was foggy as hell and I had to pee again... so I went back to the coffee shop and waited at the restroom, knowing she was in the only stall. She came out and tried explaining the poop stain in the toilet wasn't hers and I just teased and gave her a sexy side look as I went towards the restroom and she left.
All in all, the sexual talk was crazy, I'm really feeling like better game would have gotten me some huge Latina ass tonight, but there was a lot here to learn from, and I need to make sure I learn all I can to avoid silly losses in the future. I'm realizing a lack of comfort could have been that, in the car, she focused on a bunch of interesting random topics, and my attempts to dig deeper into her, weren't carried through enough. Not to mention more touch throughout and stronger frames when I pull. Any tips would be very welcome (including on my writing style).
I'll probably follow standard second date protocol, given she didn't actually let me kiss her; "enjoyed it" text tomorrow, and shoot for another meet a couple days later. (Tips for where I should suggest? My place won't be an option after tomorrow; she takes pride in her cooking)
Take care Gents!
Josh
