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I am not sure whether to post this in Field reports or some other section. But since my field report is intended to set up some questions, I decided to post it here.
Here is what happened to me recently, and how I possibly blew an opportunity to have a threesome.
Couple of days ago I met 2 women on a video chat app. They were sitting in a car and driving around. It turned out they were not that far from my location (about 1-hour drive). I suggested that they visit me sometime, and they agreed. After that we were texting a bit on WhatsApp. Two days later I get a call form them, saying that they are driving around again and want to pick me up. Of course, I agreed.
What caused me confusion was that I didn't know what their intentions are and, as a result, what should be my game plan. During our whole interaction via video chat and WhatsApp the vibe was very casual; there were no sexual conversations. As I understood, one of them was taken and the other wanted to find a husband. Obviously I was hoping they wanted a threesome, but were simply not too direct about that. When two women drive to you first for a meet-up, it definitely is not out of the question.
Anyway, they picked me up from my house, and we drove to the nearest city. At the moment, I live in a countryside, so there is nothing to do or see where I live. The city was quite far away, around 40-min drive.
Since I didn't have a clear game plan, I probably played it too safe. The conversation died off a bit after a while, and it got awkward at times; there were relatively long stretches were I didn't say much. But to be fair, the loud music in the car and me sitting in the backseat was not helping the situation either. They also didn't seem too excited or interested to talk to me, they didn't ask many questions, but it's possible they were shy.
When we got to the city, they couldn't decide what to do. After a while I took the lead and suggested we go to a bar. But they only wanted to drink some coffee because they had to go to work supposedly the following day. So, obviously they were not looking to party. In the bar, it got pretty awkward because we just kinda looked at each other and didn't talk much. I realized that this is going nowhere and said we need to leave. And that's pretty much all that happened because on the way home nothing much else happened.
So, my questions are:
1. How should approach such a situation? Do I play it safe, or do I take risks and be more bold? For example, I could've offered a hotel room instead of a bar. I could've jokingly said something about threesome. Be more physical with both of them etc.
2. Do I show equal interest to both of them, or do I pick one girl and focus on her mainly?
Here is what happened to me recently, and how I possibly blew an opportunity to have a threesome.
Couple of days ago I met 2 women on a video chat app. They were sitting in a car and driving around. It turned out they were not that far from my location (about 1-hour drive). I suggested that they visit me sometime, and they agreed. After that we were texting a bit on WhatsApp. Two days later I get a call form them, saying that they are driving around again and want to pick me up. Of course, I agreed.
What caused me confusion was that I didn't know what their intentions are and, as a result, what should be my game plan. During our whole interaction via video chat and WhatsApp the vibe was very casual; there were no sexual conversations. As I understood, one of them was taken and the other wanted to find a husband. Obviously I was hoping they wanted a threesome, but were simply not too direct about that. When two women drive to you first for a meet-up, it definitely is not out of the question.
Anyway, they picked me up from my house, and we drove to the nearest city. At the moment, I live in a countryside, so there is nothing to do or see where I live. The city was quite far away, around 40-min drive.
Since I didn't have a clear game plan, I probably played it too safe. The conversation died off a bit after a while, and it got awkward at times; there were relatively long stretches were I didn't say much. But to be fair, the loud music in the car and me sitting in the backseat was not helping the situation either. They also didn't seem too excited or interested to talk to me, they didn't ask many questions, but it's possible they were shy.
When we got to the city, they couldn't decide what to do. After a while I took the lead and suggested we go to a bar. But they only wanted to drink some coffee because they had to go to work supposedly the following day. So, obviously they were not looking to party. In the bar, it got pretty awkward because we just kinda looked at each other and didn't talk much. I realized that this is going nowhere and said we need to leave. And that's pretty much all that happened because on the way home nothing much else happened.
So, my questions are:
1. How should approach such a situation? Do I play it safe, or do I take risks and be more bold? For example, I could've offered a hotel room instead of a bar. I could've jokingly said something about threesome. Be more physical with both of them etc.
2. Do I show equal interest to both of them, or do I pick one girl and focus on her mainly?
