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Intro
Hey guys, I thought it'd be fun to compile a list of deep-dive topics for beginners. Post as many as you can!
If you're new to deep diving, please read these articles: https://www.girlschase.com/search/node/deep diving
The main point is that you don't end at these questions. You ask why, when, how, what, etc. You create threads and continue to understand more and listen.
Reading these below, it will sound a little unnatural and inorganic, almost like a survey. Remember not to use them like an interview, but naturally when they come up in conversation or introduce them naturally.
Finally, remember to add your own style and to come up for air every now and then with light banter/conversation. Add in a little of your own humor or a small story in relation (so it doesn't feel like an interview). If she says something that you like or connect with, validate her. You can also turn these into assumptions ("you hate cold; I bet you'd love to live in Fiji").
These aren't all going to be gold (some will be bad in the wrong situation), but it should stir creativity in you.
Topics
If you could live anywhere, where would you live? Money is no issue.
(Why? The culture, the food, the hot guys?)
If you could have any job in the world, what would you do? Pianist, stunt driver, private detective, fashion designer, etc.?
(Why? The free food, the freedom?)
Tell me about your relationship with your parents/siblings/family...
What was your favorite childhood memory?
What was the most adventurous or thrilling thing that you did?
What was the scariest moment in your life? What are you afraid of?
Tell me about your ex-boyfriends...
What will make you happy in the future? A good family/husband, kids, a dream job, a beautiful convertible car, etc.?
How many kids do you want? Do you already have names for them?
How soon do you want to marry or want to stay a bachelorette forever?
Do you think that love can last for eternity into the afterlife?
Do you believe in an afterlife?
What is your philosophy on life and love?
Tell me about your friends...
Tell me about your hobbies. What do you love to do?
What would you love to learn? To play the harp, learn a new language like Italian, etc.?
Do you regret anything in life?
Hey guys, I thought it'd be fun to compile a list of deep-dive topics for beginners. Post as many as you can!
If you're new to deep diving, please read these articles: https://www.girlschase.com/search/node/deep diving
The main point is that you don't end at these questions. You ask why, when, how, what, etc. You create threads and continue to understand more and listen.
Reading these below, it will sound a little unnatural and inorganic, almost like a survey. Remember not to use them like an interview, but naturally when they come up in conversation or introduce them naturally.
Finally, remember to add your own style and to come up for air every now and then with light banter/conversation. Add in a little of your own humor or a small story in relation (so it doesn't feel like an interview). If she says something that you like or connect with, validate her. You can also turn these into assumptions ("you hate cold; I bet you'd love to live in Fiji").
These aren't all going to be gold (some will be bad in the wrong situation), but it should stir creativity in you.
Topics
If you could live anywhere, where would you live? Money is no issue.
(Why? The culture, the food, the hot guys?)
If you could have any job in the world, what would you do? Pianist, stunt driver, private detective, fashion designer, etc.?
(Why? The free food, the freedom?)
Tell me about your relationship with your parents/siblings/family...
What was your favorite childhood memory?
What was the most adventurous or thrilling thing that you did?
What was the scariest moment in your life? What are you afraid of?
Tell me about your ex-boyfriends...
What will make you happy in the future? A good family/husband, kids, a dream job, a beautiful convertible car, etc.?
How many kids do you want? Do you already have names for them?
How soon do you want to marry or want to stay a bachelorette forever?
Do you think that love can last for eternity into the afterlife?
Do you believe in an afterlife?
What is your philosophy on life and love?
Tell me about your friends...
Tell me about your hobbies. What do you love to do?
What would you love to learn? To play the harp, learn a new language like Italian, etc.?
Do you regret anything in life?
