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APPROACH
Met this girl 2 weeks ago on campus in my city. I'm at the gas station with my brothers and she loops around looking for stuff, and I get the feeling she's wanting to be approached
She's in front of me in line and I tell her that I love her pants. She says thank you and is immediately very open. We talk for a little before she gets called up to the register, and I start scanning items with my brother. She walks out and I leave my stuff with him and walk after her. As I get out, I see that she's walking towards a friend of hers
Set a date, she flakes to which I respond that's fine, and then she sets a new time.
We link up last week wednesday at a smoothie spot.
She tells me that she's going to a Halloween party, and that she needs to find a costume. I tell her that I can help her, and we'll thrift it. She comes in, we hug, and I'm already playing Frogger on the arcade machine. I get off and let her try, and then we sit at the bar. She shows up with an outfit that is basically already complete, and is telling me that she's dressed like a cowgirl. She's got tats, a sleeveless denim vest on with some jeans.
I tell her that she's obviously dressed like a biker, and that we just have to get her a bandana. She says that she thinks she looks like a cowgirl and we banter back and forth about this.
We're sitting at the bar facing each other so our legs are touching and there's an immediate comfortability. Honestly at this point I'm already anticipating a lay.
She tells me about her career plans, and I tell her afterwards that she can come work for me.
B- ME work for YOU?
S.S - Yeah you said you were going to look for jobs after university... I'll help you out.
Physical intimacy established and I tell her let's go to thrift. We go out and thrift for a very short period of time before she asks me
We walk to the park, and at this point we are very very comfortable with eachother, I'm sitting on a rock and she's sitting next to me. I put her leg on mine and try to look at her to build tension and she looks away. I would go for the close but the logistics are terrible and she's leaving to the party in something like 30-45 minutes. If I wasn't in a dry spell maybe I would go for a public lay, but I'm not trying to risk it.
We move out of the sun and sit very close just gazing into each other's eyes, and I can tell she wants me to kiss her, so I do. She starts smiling really wide and somehow I very naturally tell her that I'm good at palm reading.
She ends up having to go, I drop her off and text her later
We hop on a call, I tell her to come over same night. Little to no conversation, I start playing some music and kissing her and then she says
B- I don't want to have sex.
S.S - (scrolling while I'm on top of her to queue some music) you don't like sex? you're the first girl I've met.
B- (waffling)
then sex.
Met this girl 2 weeks ago on campus in my city. I'm at the gas station with my brothers and she loops around looking for stuff, and I get the feeling she's wanting to be approached
She's in front of me in line and I tell her that I love her pants. She says thank you and is immediately very open. We talk for a little before she gets called up to the register, and I start scanning items with my brother. She walks out and I leave my stuff with him and walk after her. As I get out, I see that she's walking towards a friend of hers
S.S - Hey hold on, come here.
B - Yes?
S.S - I just wanted to keep talking, I thought you were stunning. (I spam this one btw.)
B- Oh thank you!
S.S -What are y'all up to tn?
B- We're just checking out this concert across the street.
S.S - Oh cool, cool. You go to school here?
B - I will next semester, I'm transferring.
S.S - Oh cool, I go to (my school far away)
B - what are you doing here?
S.S - I grew up here.
B - Me too!
S.S - Where'd you go to hs?
B- _
S.S - Oh I went to _
B- Oh cool!
S.S - Well we should get together and hang out before you go.
B - Yeah, what are y'all up to tn?
S.S - we're just coming from the gym, and we've got a cousin waiting for us at home so we've got to go, but I'll text you.
B- Okay!
B - Yes?
S.S - I just wanted to keep talking, I thought you were stunning. (I spam this one btw.)
B- Oh thank you!
S.S -What are y'all up to tn?
B- We're just checking out this concert across the street.
S.S - Oh cool, cool. You go to school here?
B - I will next semester, I'm transferring.
S.S - Oh cool, I go to (my school far away)
B - what are you doing here?
S.S - I grew up here.
B - Me too!
S.S - Where'd you go to hs?
B- _
S.S - Oh I went to _
B- Oh cool!
S.S - Well we should get together and hang out before you go.
B - Yeah, what are y'all up to tn?
S.S - we're just coming from the gym, and we've got a cousin waiting for us at home so we've got to go, but I'll text you.
B- Okay!
Set a date, she flakes to which I respond that's fine, and then she sets a new time.
We link up last week wednesday at a smoothie spot.
She tells me that she's going to a Halloween party, and that she needs to find a costume. I tell her that I can help her, and we'll thrift it. She comes in, we hug, and I'm already playing Frogger on the arcade machine. I get off and let her try, and then we sit at the bar. She shows up with an outfit that is basically already complete, and is telling me that she's dressed like a cowgirl. She's got tats, a sleeveless denim vest on with some jeans.
I tell her that she's obviously dressed like a biker, and that we just have to get her a bandana. She says that she thinks she looks like a cowgirl and we banter back and forth about this.
We're sitting at the bar facing each other so our legs are touching and there's an immediate comfortability. Honestly at this point I'm already anticipating a lay.
She tells me about her career plans, and I tell her afterwards that she can come work for me.
B- ME work for YOU?
S.S - Yeah you said you were going to look for jobs after university... I'll help you out.
Physical intimacy established and I tell her let's go to thrift. We go out and thrift for a very short period of time before she asks me
B - What should we do?
I wasn't considering this an escalation window until just now, but reflecting on it that might be what this was. I was surprised because we had just entered the store, but we had plans to hit the park after so I said that we could go to the park.
I wasn't considering this an escalation window until just now, but reflecting on it that might be what this was. I was surprised because we had just entered the store, but we had plans to hit the park after so I said that we could go to the park.
We walk to the park, and at this point we are very very comfortable with eachother, I'm sitting on a rock and she's sitting next to me. I put her leg on mine and try to look at her to build tension and she looks away. I would go for the close but the logistics are terrible and she's leaving to the party in something like 30-45 minutes. If I wasn't in a dry spell maybe I would go for a public lay, but I'm not trying to risk it.
We move out of the sun and sit very close just gazing into each other's eyes, and I can tell she wants me to kiss her, so I do. She starts smiling really wide and somehow I very naturally tell her that I'm good at palm reading.
B - Do you believe in palm reading fr?
S.S - No obviously not!
B - Then why are you doing it!
S.S - It's a way to make observations about you! do you want your palm read or not?
B - Okay, but you better not bring yourself up.
S.S - (points to her hand) so I shouldn't bring up this line about the love of your life?
B - What, did I meet him today?
S.S - Close, last week actually
S.S - No obviously not!
B - Then why are you doing it!
S.S - It's a way to make observations about you! do you want your palm read or not?
B - Okay, but you better not bring yourself up.
S.S - (points to her hand) so I shouldn't bring up this line about the love of your life?
B - What, did I meet him today?
S.S - Close, last week actually
She ends up having to go, I drop her off and text her later
S.S -biker or cowgirl?
B- Everyone's saying cowgirl!
S.S - They're just thinking about sex! (send an image from pinterest of a girl with her outfit on
B-funny, I don't see a bike!
B- you know I'd love to see you again before you leave
S.S - call me
B- Everyone's saying cowgirl!
S.S - They're just thinking about sex! (send an image from pinterest of a girl with her outfit on
B-funny, I don't see a bike!
B- you know I'd love to see you again before you leave
S.S - call me
We hop on a call, I tell her to come over same night. Little to no conversation, I start playing some music and kissing her and then she says
B- I don't want to have sex.
S.S - (scrolling while I'm on top of her to queue some music) you don't like sex? you're the first girl I've met.
B- (waffling)
then sex.
