Bite my tongue?

[Sub-Zero]

My girl and I argue almost once a week
We argue because when she does something I don't like I tell her then we fight.

I try to ignore it, but I don't feel that it solves the problem, but I know argumentshe aren't good.

I have to put her in her place so she doesn't thinks she runs shit, but it it messes us up, should I just let her do things that make me angry without acknowledging it? She says I am dramatic, but I have to check her when she acts or talks to me a certain way.

 

[Sophisticated Gent]

Ok. I am going to be an Asshole but next her. Life is to short to deal with a woman that doesn't respect you. She is doing this shit just to piss you off. There are too many other women to be with.

SGent.

 

[Chase]

Sub-Zero-

Moved this one to "Relationships."

I'm not sure if this is a casual / short-term relationship or a long-term one; if it's casual / short-term, you shouldn't be arguing at all and should just be calmly strict about what you do and do not accept around you. See this article:

Women and Drama

If it's long-term, it sounds like you need some heavy brushing up on your relationship argument-handling skills, but you absolutely should NOT be just swallowing your annoyance down inside - that's how she starts wearing the pants in the relationship and you become her lapdog.

Instead, see these articles:

• Operant Conditioning in Your Romantic Relationships
• Brain Hacks: Using Moral Superiority to Turn Arguments
• Beating Your Girlfriend at Her Own Blame Game
• End Relationship Drama with These 2 Rules

... and start managing your differences more efficiently, and less dramatically.

Chase