Bitter Men

[Sandman]

https://www.vice.com/en_us/article/gyj3 ... hate-women

The article has a shitty feminist propaganda but my focus is the young men who feel frustrated by their lack of success with the opposite sex and turn to hate them (and sexually successful men). I feel sorry for them. Wish they worked on themselves instead of having circle-jerk sessions of hate.

 

[ResentMasculinity]

ya, heard one person say, not sure if it always applies because I only heard it once, he said if you resent what others have, you will never have it.

 

[Grand Pooba]

I feel sorry for them. Wish they worked on themselves instead of having circle-jerk sessions of hate.

To self-victimize is a choice. Sometimes these folks feel like they have no choice, but ultimately their mental model is hugely flawed and leads them down that path. It's quite sad, but I don't really feel sorry for them.

 

[Mr.Rob]

Its hard to believe the guys on those reddit forums are actually serious. "Reverse rape"? LOL (AKA "I can't get laid because I'm a victim").

Quite tragic really how far low these young men have descended in their thinking and level of consciousness. I suppose you'd see much less of this if religion were still a major pillar of modern western culture but these guys have nothing to attach themselves to and go off the deep end and basically admit that they will never be able to get girls and give up (even more tragically is they probably give up without much of a fight i.e. actually attempting to seriously learn game and improve their fundamentals). Their consolation prize is they get to go on a internet forums and cry with a bunch of other ineffective men...

If these guys are so mad at women how come they don't just turn gay and date men? ... Haha I hear its much easier to get laid as a gay man and at least these guys could still get their emotional companionship needs met, albeit probably forced but hey its better than dying alone with a tube of lube and cheeto dust on your face watching bestiality porn.

-Rob

 

[Hue]

Instead of trying to open their minds as to why they can't get what they want, they flip it with the card of being "oppressed". There's actually people being oppressed out here, and these guys have the audacity to foster their own bullshit within that.. disgusting.
Makes me want to plug ways that I might be doing this.

The link between violence and misogyny is strong—mass shooters like Elliot Rodger, who killed six and identified as an incel, are usually young white men, and have a track record of sexual violence and entitlement. The Virginia Tech shooter harassed women on campus. Adam Lanza, who wrote about why women were “inherently selfish,” killed his mother before he murdered children in Sandy Hook. The Texas church shooter was dishonorably discharged from the military for severely abusing his wife and son. In general, 40 percent of women murdered were killed by their partners. When people jump to blame mental illness instead of misogyny for this demonstrable pattern, they underestimate and undercut the violence of misogyny and undermine the safety of women.

Somewhat frightening too, how so much hate can grow from terrible attitudes (though in some of these cases mental illness was definitely a massive factor, despite the latter of this quote). I wonder how all the shit going on with sexual assault / misconduct could play into communities like this.