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That's how I feel about this girl and my escalation attempt.
Btw if you're just skimming but are inclined to comment/criticize Perhaps skip down to "Back at the House, Escalation time baby" (written in Large font just scroll down you can't miss it). Escalation is a semi-sticking point of mine at the moment and something I want to get down to the T (I really like escalation it's fun for me!)
Lol so anyway I Keep getting these weird weird girls via daygame haha.
This girl looked a lot hotter with clothes on as well, but hey gotta start somewhere and work your way up to the hotter girls.
So let's see here, I met this girl in the mall while sitting on a bench. I called at her, she came over, I inquired on her accent (which she didn't really have) and then talked for 5 minutes grabbed her number and she was VERY into texting me.
She's an older girl, probably in her 30's, and when I text her she's like sending me paragraphs of shit and it's kind of weird to be honest, i'm not used to it. She even text me "Hope your having a great day!" for no reason.
Anyway I meet this ho at a Mexican place for food last night and she was just dressed cute but nothing special (based on her paragraph long texts I thought she might show up in a French maid outfit)
Things started out pretty chill I inquired on her day, teased her, made fun of some stuff, and deep dove her. Really basic shit and nothing too crazy to report until we started talking about relationships and how she thinks that relationship dynamics should be as they are in the culture of Nepal where men are extremely jealous and kill motherfuckers for looking at their women (at least that's how she described it). I then asked her to give her impression of American relationships:
Her: "It's basically some asshole that comes up to you, pretends to give a shit about you just to get your number, so he can fuck you" *Said with piercing eye contact...
Hahaha Whoa! didn't see that one coming! I hadn't had a shit test that I wasn't prepared for in a long time and I honestly choked for a second but I still stayed pretty icy, smiled, and just moved the conversation on (after a view seconds of silence to regroup my thoughts) as if nothing happened.
I wouldn't say I passed the shit test but at the same time I didn't fail it. It was really funny though and it definitely broke me out of autopilot haha!
She asked me 0 questions about myself during the date in the restaurant in which made me wonder if I was doing something wrong or not. Literally asked nothing about me, usually women at least say something to keep the conversation moving. If I let the silence hang she'd either keep her thread going or stay silent till it got awkward.
At one point I could think of anything to say so I talked about getting Obamacare which was pretty funny:
However, she about died of laughter while I sat there mildly amused... btw that wasn't original I watched a free tour of RSDJeffy that said he talks about that with women and I thought it was so funny I had to try it out so no I'm not that cool for saying it but it was still awesome way to cut a shitty thread and lighten the mood.
Anyway she finally asked me a question about myself an hour into the date and asked if I was OCD because of the way I eat/dress/talk/present myself. I inquire more into her inquiry and find out she thinks I'm like Christian Grey from 50 Shades (Oh brother).
We pay and go for a walk next around the restaurant and start touching each other more. Shes very receptive and I pick her up and fuck with her and she reciprocates and likes it. I tell her a couple stories I find funny and then ask her to come home with me to get some desert... I of course use the old "diet" excuse to pull her back to my place.
Back at the House, Escalation time baby
Once back at my place we get desert shit together, talk, and I talk about stuff I find interesting/funny and she likes it.
I bounce her back to my room and we feed each other berries and she sits on my lap and we pick out music to listen to.
I just got a canister of whipped cream because I like to squirt it on girls and lick it off them and then make them lick it off me... it's sexy and suggestive (it like the bottle is cumming on their face lol)
So I spray it on her neck and suck it off and make her take my shirt off and suck it off my chest. I then squirt some in her mouth, get her up, push her against my wall and start making out with her.
She's pretty into it already but I'm sad because her breath tastes/smells like cigarette's... kind of gross.
So I pull her into the bathroom (where my toothpaste is... I was planning to brush her teeth and freshen her shit up) and she's excited wondering why I brought her in my dark walkin bathroom.
Now I'm not for sure if I'm overthinking this but think what happened next put a damper on the mood for the rest of the interaction which was at this point pretty on...
I pulled the tube of toothpaste and showed it to her in front of her face and she was like "No I'm not". I took this as her being offended by it and my "old" self was like "oh can't offend the girl that wouldn't be nice! I guess we'll just go back to me sucking down her rotten cig breathe for the remainder of the night".
I think this was a defining moment because I submitted to her rule instead of her to mine (my rule being I don't kiss girls with nasty cig breathe) which I think showed a lack of dominance...
I should've just kept kissing her while I squirted in on my fingers without her knowing and then just ram my finger in her mouth and start scrubbing.... damnit! I wish I would've done that instead!
Anyway this cooled the vibe down instantly and I never was able to fully recover it back to that same intensity after that.
Next we kept kissing but there wasn't a ton of passion there. I also wasn't feeling the whole "act like your super turned on bit" which I should have no excuse for. "ANYTHING TO GET THE LAY" (assuming it's ethical and in both party's interest)
So we kiss makeout I rub my hand up and down her body but when it gets even near her boobs she pulls my hand away. I grab her ass and rub up and down her legs and she doesn't resist. I don't however go for her pussy in which I don't know why I didn't.
This goes on for a bit and then I get bored and tell her to massage me. She does and then I message her and I tell her to take her shirt off which takes a bit to convince her to do but she does eventually. I message her and attempt to make things more sexual and fail in doing so. The vibe starts to dimmer and there isn't much sexual tension.
Under the sheets and I fail to produce
I remember reading something chase wrote about getting the girl under the sheets and her clothes will come off easier so I trapped her in the blanket and made her stay under. I then came under as well and we kissed here and there and I tried touching her but she wasn't having any above the waist touching.
Vibe died down again but she liked snuggling with me so I told her to lay on top of me so that our bodies would create oxytocin and we'd feel better. I feel her up a bit and even put my hand down the back side of her pants and grab her ass...
Eventually she dismounts me and she snuggles next to me, we kiss intermittently. She won't let me touch her boobs/stomach (I think she's insecure about it) and I'm lacking passion, ideas, and motivation to get the vibe up in which I have no excuse and should've tried HARDER!!!
Now that I look back all I had to do was reinitiate a decent makeout and then try and take her pants off and rinse and rewash... just a fucking thought you lazy little bitch!! (Hardcore self talk helps me take better action)
Anyway I try to keep things going and she keeps talking about having to get up to work early and how she only got 2 hours of sleep the night before (which I believe but nonetheless if she was highly aroused that wouldn't have been the case). I persist and try some last ditch efforts but they all fall flat and she ends up leaving. She does kiss me on the way out and was very warm texting me this morning so perhaps it's not all lost and I'll get a second chance. I don't deserve one but hey I'll take it if I can!
So therefore I must take responsibility for us not ending up as lovers together and need to further review this failure as to where I fucked up exactly when I'm more alert and energized.
Also I need to put together some Hard Rules of escalating along with a process to try out for upcoming seductions. I want to get this shit dialed down, one because I really like this part of the seduction and two because I feel as if I'm just slinging mud at the wall and hoping something sticks at times.
Will keep updated on this one.
Keep it pimpin gents.
-Rob
Btw if you're just skimming but are inclined to comment/criticize Perhaps skip down to "Back at the House, Escalation time baby" (written in Large font just scroll down you can't miss it). Escalation is a semi-sticking point of mine at the moment and something I want to get down to the T (I really like escalation it's fun for me!)
Lol so anyway I Keep getting these weird weird girls via daygame haha.
This girl looked a lot hotter with clothes on as well, but hey gotta start somewhere and work your way up to the hotter girls.
So let's see here, I met this girl in the mall while sitting on a bench. I called at her, she came over, I inquired on her accent (which she didn't really have) and then talked for 5 minutes grabbed her number and she was VERY into texting me.
She's an older girl, probably in her 30's, and when I text her she's like sending me paragraphs of shit and it's kind of weird to be honest, i'm not used to it. She even text me "Hope your having a great day!" for no reason.
Anyway I meet this ho at a Mexican place for food last night and she was just dressed cute but nothing special (based on her paragraph long texts I thought she might show up in a French maid outfit)
Things started out pretty chill I inquired on her day, teased her, made fun of some stuff, and deep dove her. Really basic shit and nothing too crazy to report until we started talking about relationships and how she thinks that relationship dynamics should be as they are in the culture of Nepal where men are extremely jealous and kill motherfuckers for looking at their women (at least that's how she described it). I then asked her to give her impression of American relationships:
Her: "It's basically some asshole that comes up to you, pretends to give a shit about you just to get your number, so he can fuck you" *Said with piercing eye contact...
Hahaha Whoa! didn't see that one coming! I hadn't had a shit test that I wasn't prepared for in a long time and I honestly choked for a second but I still stayed pretty icy, smiled, and just moved the conversation on (after a view seconds of silence to regroup my thoughts) as if nothing happened.
I wouldn't say I passed the shit test but at the same time I didn't fail it. It was really funny though and it definitely broke me out of autopilot haha!
She asked me 0 questions about myself during the date in the restaurant in which made me wonder if I was doing something wrong or not. Literally asked nothing about me, usually women at least say something to keep the conversation moving. If I let the silence hang she'd either keep her thread going or stay silent till it got awkward.
At one point I could think of anything to say so I talked about getting Obamacare which was pretty funny:
I said all this in with a "meh" type of attitude as if I were downplaying an accomplishment and it wasn't something funny.
However, she about died of laughter while I sat there mildly amused... btw that wasn't original I watched a free tour of RSDJeffy that said he talks about that with women and I thought it was so funny I had to try it out so no I'm not that cool for saying it but it was still awesome way to cut a shitty thread and lighten the mood.
Anyway she finally asked me a question about myself an hour into the date and asked if I was OCD because of the way I eat/dress/talk/present myself. I inquire more into her inquiry and find out she thinks I'm like Christian Grey from 50 Shades (Oh brother).
We pay and go for a walk next around the restaurant and start touching each other more. Shes very receptive and I pick her up and fuck with her and she reciprocates and likes it. I tell her a couple stories I find funny and then ask her to come home with me to get some desert... I of course use the old "diet" excuse to pull her back to my place.
Back at the House, Escalation time baby
Once back at my place we get desert shit together, talk, and I talk about stuff I find interesting/funny and she likes it.
I bounce her back to my room and we feed each other berries and she sits on my lap and we pick out music to listen to.
I just got a canister of whipped cream because I like to squirt it on girls and lick it off them and then make them lick it off me... it's sexy and suggestive (it like the bottle is cumming on their face lol)
So I spray it on her neck and suck it off and make her take my shirt off and suck it off my chest. I then squirt some in her mouth, get her up, push her against my wall and start making out with her.
She's pretty into it already but I'm sad because her breath tastes/smells like cigarette's... kind of gross.
So I pull her into the bathroom (where my toothpaste is... I was planning to brush her teeth and freshen her shit up) and she's excited wondering why I brought her in my dark walkin bathroom.
Now I'm not for sure if I'm overthinking this but think what happened next put a damper on the mood for the rest of the interaction which was at this point pretty on...
I pulled the tube of toothpaste and showed it to her in front of her face and she was like "No I'm not". I took this as her being offended by it and my "old" self was like "oh can't offend the girl that wouldn't be nice! I guess we'll just go back to me sucking down her rotten cig breathe for the remainder of the night".
I think this was a defining moment because I submitted to her rule instead of her to mine (my rule being I don't kiss girls with nasty cig breathe) which I think showed a lack of dominance...
I should've just kept kissing her while I squirted in on my fingers without her knowing and then just ram my finger in her mouth and start scrubbing.... damnit! I wish I would've done that instead!
Anyway this cooled the vibe down instantly and I never was able to fully recover it back to that same intensity after that.
Next we kept kissing but there wasn't a ton of passion there. I also wasn't feeling the whole "act like your super turned on bit" which I should have no excuse for. "ANYTHING TO GET THE LAY" (assuming it's ethical and in both party's interest)
So we kiss makeout I rub my hand up and down her body but when it gets even near her boobs she pulls my hand away. I grab her ass and rub up and down her legs and she doesn't resist. I don't however go for her pussy in which I don't know why I didn't.
This goes on for a bit and then I get bored and tell her to massage me. She does and then I message her and I tell her to take her shirt off which takes a bit to convince her to do but she does eventually. I message her and attempt to make things more sexual and fail in doing so. The vibe starts to dimmer and there isn't much sexual tension.
Under the sheets and I fail to produce
I remember reading something chase wrote about getting the girl under the sheets and her clothes will come off easier so I trapped her in the blanket and made her stay under. I then came under as well and we kissed here and there and I tried touching her but she wasn't having any above the waist touching.
Vibe died down again but she liked snuggling with me so I told her to lay on top of me so that our bodies would create oxytocin and we'd feel better. I feel her up a bit and even put my hand down the back side of her pants and grab her ass...
Eventually she dismounts me and she snuggles next to me, we kiss intermittently. She won't let me touch her boobs/stomach (I think she's insecure about it) and I'm lacking passion, ideas, and motivation to get the vibe up in which I have no excuse and should've tried HARDER!!!
Now that I look back all I had to do was reinitiate a decent makeout and then try and take her pants off and rinse and rewash... just a fucking thought you lazy little bitch!! (Hardcore self talk helps me take better action)
Anyway I try to keep things going and she keeps talking about having to get up to work early and how she only got 2 hours of sleep the night before (which I believe but nonetheless if she was highly aroused that wouldn't have been the case). I persist and try some last ditch efforts but they all fall flat and she ends up leaving. She does kiss me on the way out and was very warm texting me this morning so perhaps it's not all lost and I'll get a second chance. I don't deserve one but hey I'll take it if I can!
So therefore I must take responsibility for us not ending up as lovers together and need to further review this failure as to where I fucked up exactly when I'm more alert and energized.
Also I need to put together some Hard Rules of escalating along with a process to try out for upcoming seductions. I want to get this shit dialed down, one because I really like this part of the seduction and two because I feel as if I'm just slinging mud at the wall and hoping something sticks at times.
Will keep updated on this one.
Keep it pimpin gents
.-Rob
