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RDawg

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Alright fellas, this is a bit of weird one, I must say. Unfortunately, I didn't get laid, but I was able to get a blow job out of it. I have never been so CLOSE to fucking a girl and yet not get the deed done. LMR is a bitch sometimes and it is probably one of the hardest things to overcome in seduction, as i'm starting to realize. In this report, i'm gonna skip most of the details early on and jump mainly into the LMR issues that I had and experienced.

Let's Begin

So, the night starts at an Italian club, where I was with primarily immediate family. We were at an Italian hall, celebrating my cousin's Kara's daughter's baptism. So, there was about 80 people in this small hall, it was like an 8 course meal and open bar. FUCKING RIGHT EH? OPEN BARS are the BEST. I was related to about 1/4th of the people in this hall. The rest of the people in this hall were either my cousin Kara's husband family or friends of her's and her husband.

So, everyone is drinking and eating and having a good time. And there is this girl there that looks very familiar, sitting at a table over. I don't quite recognize her but she looks pretty good. Anyways, I am at the bar, ordering a couple drinks and the girl comes up to me and start's talking to me. We begin talking and this girl is actually my cousin Kara's best friend. We had actually met 4 years ago, at my cousin's Kara's wedding were we both stood up in the wedding. That's why she looked familiar. I can recall, 4 years ago, this girl also wanted me badly at the wedding. I was 17 at the time however lol. I am now 21, and this girl is now 30. A lot of changes happen in 4 years, I must say, we both looked completely different now and she looked a lot better. She had blonde hair now instead of black, which looked nice. We are going to call this girl Shana, she is half italian, half arab.

Moving On

So, the night is going by, and everyone is mingling around, drinking a bit and doing shots. Me and Shana, are talking on and off throughout the night, and were doing some shots, getting a little tipsy lol. So, 10:30PM hit's and my parents tell me they are leaving. They offer me a ride home but I tell them I am just going to stay and maybe call a cab home later if I have to. So, my parents dip and then I say to Shana, "I'm gonna go for a walk outside in the hallway and grab some air maybe, come with me". She says... "Okay, but let's have one more drink first". So, I agree and we have one more drink and then head for walk in the hallway. We find a little random table in the tall, which there is some privacy, so we sit down and begin chatting. I talk with her and deep dive her for about an hour. After about an hour, I knew this girl wanted me badly, so I decided to pull.

Me:"Listen, let's get of here".
Her: Okay, what time is it?
Me: It's like 11:30PM
Her: Okay, just let me sober up a bit and then we will get out of here. (she was driving)
Me: Okay, perfect, let's go back to the hall and get our coats!


(So we walk back into the hall and everyone is gone lol. Everyone dipped haha! It was just me and her now. So, we basically grab our coats, have a glass of water and then dip by 12. We get to her car and then we begin driving..

Her: So what do you wanna do? Do you want me to drive you home? Or do you want to go grab a drink somewhere? (In my head I wasn't sure about logistic's yet. I didn't really want to invite her home because I hate bringing girls over to my place when my parents are home. I knew she was 30, so I figured she'd maybe lived on her own, but she I later found out she lived with her mom)
Me: Ya, it doesn't matter. We can go grab a drink
Her: Alright does it matter where?
Me: No, let's just go to some nice place by your house. (I was thinking about going back to her place after the drink)

So, we hit this little bar by her house and we order a beer. We sit there and chat for maybe 45 minutes and then I just decide to pull her back to my house. I didn't want to go back to her house because she lives with her mom at home. I'd rather be in control of the situation at my house, even though my parents are sleeping.

Me: Listen, I think this places looks like it's closing soon. Do you want to come back to my place and hangout. Just relax, maybe watch a movie or listen to some music.
Her: haha watch a movie? Yaa okay haha

So, we head back to my place and we get back here at around 1:15PM. We go downstairs, sit on my couch and then I grab us some beers, and throw a movie on. We talk for like 10 minutes and then I grab her and starting making out with her. Were making out for like 10 minutes and then she say's to me.

Her: I'm going to take my top off to get comfortable but we are not having sex though. (Kinda Surprised at this?)
Me: Alright, we can do whatever you like. We don't have to do anything you don't want to do.

So she's topless now and I basically rip my shirt off as well to now. We keep making out and i'm rubbing my hands up and down her body. We are both really into it right now and I begin rubbing the outside of her pussy. And then she says

Her: Okay, you can take your pants off (Okay? never heard this before)
Me: Alright (I take my pants off and i'm only in my boxers)

Were continue making out, while I am on top of her. I keep rubbing her the outside of her pussy and then she starts grabbing my dick and giving me a handjob. We keep doing this and then she basically gets up for a second, kinda pullss my boxers down and get's on her knees and starts sucking my dick. I was very surprised by this too but I wasn't complaining. It was a pretty decent blow job. So, she is blowing me and then after 5 minutes, she asks for a paper towel or kleenex because she has to sneeze haha. Maybe she's allergic to my dick or something? lmfao

So, I get her a paper towel, she blows her nose and then apologizes and say's she's a bit sick and that she's sorry. I don't care lol. She then get's back on her knees and starts sucking me off again. EH? AS LONG AS YOU SUCK MY DICK I DON"T CARE.

Eventually, I pull her off and then I throw her back on the couch and basically pounce on her. I begin rubbing my hard cock and finger on the outside of her pants. I then say things like. "I WANT TO FUCK YOU SO BAD", "I WANT TO MAKE YOU CUM", "I WANT YOU TO CUM ON MY DICK". She is like almost shaking now HAHA.

She then says...

Her: Okay, I'm gonna pull these off (her pants) but were not having sex.
Me: Okay?

Honestly, how things escalated were so weird. I never once tried to pull her pants off, or her shirt, or top. She all did it herself. Eventually I would of tried to get them off but I didn't have too, she did it for me, which was kinda odd.

So, anyways her pants are off now and she is just in a thong. I begin fingering her right away and she is absolutely loving it. I finger for about 5 minutes and then she says.....

Her: Oh Rdawg, I really want to fuck you but I can't.
Me: You can't? Yes you can, we can fuck right now and i'll make you cum on my dick.
Her: ohh noo, I just can't. This is so bad, your bad!
Me: You like that I am bad ;). And how can something so bad, feel so good??? (as I am fingering her)
Her: Oh I don't know.
Me: Doesn't this feel good right now?
Her: Yes it does haha
Me: I can make it feel ever better
Her: Oh I know you can, I don't doubt it at all
Me: So, Let's fuck then, and please each other. I just want to make you cum!
Her: Haha I can't, I just can't, I know it will feel really good.
Me: What do you mean you can't?
Her: I don't know. This is all happening so quick. I am so surprised we are even here right now.
Me: Quick? No, I think this just right! We are both here enjoying ourselves and having a good time.
Her: I am just not use to this. I have only been with 2 other guys and they were both boyfriends of mine. This is all a surprise to me. I never thought we would end up here. You've probably been with a lot of girls and are use to this, I am not.
Me: Well, what does that matter, how many people we have been with? We just here enjoying ourselves. At the end of the day, it's just sex. Sex isn't a bad thing, it's part of our biology, we were all made to have sex and enjoy ourselves.
Her: It doesn't matter. Ohhh I know, you are right but I just don't do this. It's just not me.
Me: It's not you? I know you want to fuck me right now, or else you wouldn't be enjoying this.
Her: Yes, I do want to fuck you, but I just can't. We can always do this another time
Me: Listen, another time probably wont' happen. I'm starting school next week and I know your busy with work, so it's gonna be very hard to meet up. I know if we both don't do it now, it probably wont happen because that's usually how things work out.
Her: Oh noo, we could make something work out.
Me: Listen! Were both here naked and enjoying ourselves, so I think we should just continue enjoying ourselves and please each other.
Her: Yes, I want to keep enjoying this with your right now, but I just can't have sex with you.
Her: You know, you are a very smooth talker and I like that haha. You are so convincing and you are probably right about everything you said, and I might regret not doing this.
Me: Okay hold on, what did we talk about earlier, we talked about living in the moment because you never know what tomorrow will bring and you agreed with me and you said you lived your life like that. (We talked about this when we were having drinks)
Her: Yes I know, and I am going against what I said right now.. Ahhhhhhhh, you are making things so difficult for me right now because I do what to fuck you but it's just not me.
Me: If you want to fuck me, let's do it then! At the end of the day, were just two individual's enjoying each other. I really like you, your really sexy and I really just want too make you cum over and over again.
Her: Ahhhhhhhhh.... I just can't... Your are so convincing though!!!!!! I hate it!
Me: Okay, stop for a second. Listen, I really like you, I think your really cool. And I know if we don't get together now, we won't ever get together because that's just usually how things work out. I mean tonight is the first time I saw you in 4 years and now were hear enjoying ourselves. When will something like this ever happen again? Probably not going to. So, what I am basically say is right now. Do you want me or not?
Her: Yes... of course I want you. I really do want to fuck you right now but I just cannot do it. Look your making my body shake so much right now.
Me: Alright, if you want me, then let's be together and give each other awesome orgasms.
Her: ahhhh, I can't fuck you.
Me: No, you won't fuck me. I'll fuck you and make you cum
Her: haha, I just can't. You make things so hard. I don't want you to be disappointed thought
Me: Oh, I'm not going to be dissapointed lol. I'm enjoying myself very much right now
Her: Okay, because I don't want you to take this personal because I do what to fuck you.
Me: No, nothing personal haha. I think we should just keep enjoying ourselves

Well, I think you guys get the idea now, this persistence went on for another 10-15 minutes maybe and then she basically said stop and I gave up. I didn't know what else to do. Also, the whole time I was being sexy with her, I was fingering her off and on and kissing her, slapping her ass anytime she would say "she can't". So after, we stopped she blew me for like 5-10 minutes but I couldn't get off. Whatever, this was such as frustrating situation. I have never felt so close to sex and not get it like that. We were both practically naked and going at it but she just wouldn't give. I didn't have any other tricks in the book and I didn't know what else to do. She ended up leaving at 4AM. So think about it we started going at it probably around 1:30 and all the way to almost 4.
After taking to a buddy of mine about this, he said that her culture being "half" arab and italian could play into her giving me the resistance she was. I grabbed her # before she left and texted her.

Me: It was nice catching up with - Remi ;)
Her: Ya it was :)

I don't know. LMR is such a bitch man. This is probably the hardest thing to overcome in any seduction. Fuck, oh well, the more experience I get with LMR, the better I will get at it overcoming it. I wonder if there is anything I could of done differently to fuck her? And I don't even know what to do this broad? I doubt ill try again because ill probably even get more resistance the next time?

- Rdawg
 

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Space Monkey
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RDawg said:
LMR is such a bitch man. This is probably the hardest thing to overcome in any seduction. Fuck, oh well, the more experience I get with LMR, the better I will get at it overcoming it.
It certainly is a bitch! I understand your frustration all too well, having experienced similar situations.

Indeed you were relentless in persistence but what if you had tried some push/pull? I.e. you backed off for a short while, then gradually attempted to moved things forward again (rinse and repeat as necessary), rather than continuously trying to convince her. Doing so probably just fueled the logical argument inside her head which prompted her to find reasons to resist.

Never let them engage their logical mind or they'll deliberately throw themselves out of state!
 

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Think you just got way too logical with her, brotha. It's why we call it physical escalation and not verbal escalation. ;)

Unless I missed it and glossed over it completely, you never got a hard "no" from her. It was just "I can't do this, but I really want to" and the like. She didn't want to submit verbally, she wanted to submit physically. At the point where you're completely naked and all she has on is a thong, and she's still not giving you the hard resistance like an adamant "No!" followed by pulling away, sitting up and putting clothes back on. She wanted you to take her physically. I likely would've just said fuck the negotiations and pulled her thong off and started fucking her. I think that's what she wanted!

So yeah, tough call on this one. I think if you were more aggressive physically and just took control of things, she would have gotten what she wanted. But then again, you never can know what the fuck is going through a woman's head!

At least you got some dome, homie ;)

J.J.
 

Rhaegar

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For a second I thought the title aid you got a blowjob from your cousin and I was like...

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RDawg

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RDawg said:
LMR is such a bitch man. This is probably the hardest thing to overcome in any seduction. Fuck, oh well, the more experience I get with LMR, the better I will get at it overcoming it.
It certainly is a bitch! I understand your frustration all too well, having experienced similar situations.

Indeed you were relentless in persistence but what if you had tried some push/pull? I.e. you backed off for a short while, then gradually attempted to moved things forward again (rinse and repeat as necessary), rather than continuously trying to convince her. Doing so probably just fueled the logical argument inside her head which prompted her to find reasons to resist.

Never let them engage their logical mind or they'll deliberately throw themselves out of state!

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Yes, I think push/pull might of helped in this case. I tend to be guilty of "pushing" all the time and not executing a proper pull. Thanks for the feedback!

- Rdawg

NarrowJ said:
Think you just got way too logical with her, brotha. It's why we call it physical escalation and not verbal escalation. ;)

Unless I missed it and glossed over it completely, you never got a hard "no" from her. It was just "I can't do this, but I really want to" and the like. She didn't want to submit verbally, she wanted to submit physically. At the point where you're completely naked and all she has on is a thong, and she's still not giving you the hard resistance like an adamant "No!" followed by pulling away, sitting up and putting clothes back on. She wanted you to take her physically. I likely would've just said fuck the negotiations and pulled her thong off and started fucking her. I think that's what she wanted!

So yeah, tough call on this one. I think if you were more aggressive physically and just took control of things, she would have gotten what she wanted. But then again, you never can know what the fuck is going through a woman's head!

At least you got some dome, homie ;)

J.J.

- J.J.

Honestly, J.J., that thought was running through my head the whole time. "Just pull her thong off and start fucking her". I was thinking to myself, I have gotten this far (I'm fingering her and she gave me dome) and she said she want's to fuck me, so I should just do it. Yet I was trying to get her to verbally submit before I tried something. Looking back at it, I think the whole "verbal" negotiation kind of fucked my "mindset" up in the moment and made me hold back from attempting something physically aggressive (e.g., taking her and fucking her). Well, I guess I know what i'm doing next time ;)

Thanks for the feedback!

- Rdawg

Rhaegar said:
For a second I thought the title aid you got a blowjob from your cousin and I was like...

HELL NO! hahahaha

- Rdawg
 

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RDawg -

Good process overall. You were almost there.
I have to agree with NarrowJ's assessment - too much logic on your part in response to her LMR.
Basically, this woman was looking for you to "take" her, so to speak. She was putting up resistance so that you could overwhelm her resistance and fuck her. As NJ noted, she put herself in a situation to be taken...half naked, not physically resisting, but verbally confusing you.
In this situation - about to become intimate quickly with a new man, in a "sexy" situation - many women get off on putting up resistance and then being freed by a masculine man who takes what he wants and gives the woman pleasure.

So in this part I've underlined some of your logical counters:

RDawg said:
Her: Oh Rdawg, I really want to fuck you but I can't.
Me: You can't? Yes you can, we can fuck right now and i'll make you cum on my dick.
Her: ohh noo, I just can't. This is so bad, your bad!
Me: You like that I am bad ;). And how can something so bad, feel so good??? (as I am fingering her)
Her: Oh I don't know.
Me: Doesn't this feel good right now?
Her: Yes it does haha
Me: I can make it feel ever better
Her: Oh I know you can, I don't doubt it at all
Me: So, Let's fuck then, and please each other. I just want to make you cum!
Her: Haha I can't, I just can't, I know it will feel really good.
Me: What do you mean you can't?
Her: I don't know. This is all happening so quick. I am so surprised we are even here right now.
Me: Quick? No, I think this just right! We are both here enjoying ourselves and having a good time.
Her: I am just not use to this. I have only been with 2 other guys and they were both boyfriends of mine. This is all a surprise to me. I never thought we would end up here. You've probably been with a lot of girls and are use to this, I am not.
...etc...

...Rather than engage her on her resistance, or question it, you should either ignore it and keep escalating, or acknowledge it playfully and then keep escalating.

The caveat here is that if she says "no" and physically resists you or pushes you away perhaps several times, then you pull back (punishment) and take away this pleasure. Or hold and try again later (persistence) when she's more comfortable.

Keep up the work though!
 

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- Grand Pooba

Thanks for the detailed feedback and clarifying this for me Grand Pooba! I'll keep this in mind next time and I'll be sure to execute through an LMR situation like this properly. Thanks for pointing this out!

- RDawg
 
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Grand Pooba said:
The caveat here is that if she says "no" and physically resists you or pushes you away perhaps several times, then you pull back (punishment) and take away this pleasure. Or hold and try again later (persistence) when she's more comfortable.
Thank you Grand Pooba, you explained this so much better than I did!
 
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