@Chad Tyrone,
It takes two to tango. You can't force a girl to do something she (even mostly) wants to do.
You know, when I was a kid, I had this social phobia. I was really good at getting the hottest girls to pursue me and ask me out but I'd always tell them no. I really wanted them to chase me harder... figure out some way to get me onto a date... but they'd only try to a certain extent then give up. I really didn't give them much back for their efforts either. If some girl magically knew for sure that I really did like her, perhaps she could've pushed even harder... but there's still no guarantee she would've been able to get past that barrier I had.
There's a lot you can do to bust through LMR. We've got a bunch of articles about it on the site:
I haven't touched much on last minute resistance on this site, and it's about the time I got a proper post up on it. Before we jump in, I want to share a note from a reader who wrote in asking about how to get a girl in bed to illustrate what I'll be talking about and provide us an example case...
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Yesterday's article about when you should have sex mentioned part of a female reader's comment on the article "I Don’t Chase 'Em, I Replace 'Em." The comment, though, was actually a fair bit longer than that, and touched on another subject too: “While I agree that the 'replace' mentality is...
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Last month I shared a report that doubled as a how-to on getting threesomes ("Threesome How-To: Step-by-Step to Get Two Girls") that was a big hit, in which I covered one of my real-life interactions leading to a threesome. What people really liked about it were all the details and the analysis...
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Hey guys. Today I’ve decided to share a practical technique that will allow you to minimize your chances of facing last minute resistance (LMR). Last minute resistance is basically when you have managed to open and bring a girl back home and she backs off at the last minute when you are...
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“Hey, so I know I’m being super persistent about all this, but I want to let you know that I’m just having fun and if you really want to go to the concert, you can have the ticket back and I’ll leave ya alone.” I hold the ticket out, open my body language, bow my head, and smile at her. She...
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When women resist sex, it’s easy to get frustrated. But you can beat this resistance (or often even preempt it) with a little dose of fractionation. Contents 1. What Causes Last-Minute Resistance? 2. Pattern Interruption Fractionation as Anti-LMR 3. Breaking Rapport 4. Reengaging 5. Caveats 6...
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For a woman, being promiscuous can be socially devastating, so she employs “anti-slut defense” to maintain a perception of purity, even if she wants to have sex with you. Contents 1. What Is Anti-Slut Defense (ASD)? External ASD Internal ASD Anti-Slut Defense Caused by You 2. Anti-Slut Defense...
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You can also often preempt a lot of it, depending on how you run your seductions.
But if you lack the skills to get a girl to open herself up to sex, unless you're in a raiding party in some lawless tribe marauding against helpless villagers and you're running around raping and pillaging, no, you can't just "borderline rape" her. I don't even know what that means... "borderline rape" sounds like "something that would probably get you jailed for rape if the woman chose to pursue that charge."
The thing is, yes, maybe part of her wants it. But if she's resisting, that means another part of her doesn't.
A lot of guys don't seem to realize the human brain is actually a bunch of smaller networks, made of individual cells, and they don't always all agree on everything. If there's a big chunk of her brain that's not on board with sex with you yet -- big enough to stop her doing it -- you don't know how that chunk is going to react if sex happens regardless.
Remember too that even if you think you are "reading her mind" right, people get mind reading wrong all the time. Girls are better mind readers than guys are and the stuff I have women tell me they think about what's in my head is just a garbled mess of off-base assumptions. Men are a lot more likely to assume "Oh, she wants it all right!" too.
You need buy-in, man. You can't just assume, "Well, she's resisting, but REALLY she wants it, so I'm just gonna give it to her."
Yeah... you might get lucky and suck a girl into sex she was unsure about but after she's really happy and grateful it happened.
Or she might be annoyed/disgusted/angry it happened, but she doesn't feel victimized or anything so you're off the hook.
OR... she might decide you took advantage of her, that she is a victim, you're an evil rapist, and now she's going to try to leverage any institutional or network power she has to punish you. Accusations, charges, etc.
People are infinitely variable, situations are highly variable, the same girl with a similar guy in a similar situation even might end up in a totally different place on different occasions. Especially if you're living in a society that tells women they are victims and men are bad, you do not want to be doing stuff that potentially plays into that frame, at all.
See this article... very important stuff, man:
Something that's been a hot topic on the discussion boards lately has been the subject of buyer's remorse and sex regret, and also more generally women just acting weird after sex happens fast. As you push the boundaries of what you can achieve with women and seduction, you'll find your...
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Get buy in. If you just "take" girls who aren't fully bought in for sex yet, you are asking for misunderstandings, girls getting hurt, and loads of trouble for yourself.
Chase