bonding phone call

[greenjade816]

what exactly do you guys talk on the phone about?

a girl who i can tell needs more comfort is down to have a quick call with me, but tbh i dont call taht often...

 

[Will_V]

I don't call very often, but it's the same as what you'd say if you met her on the street and had a chat. It's not an interview it's just a way to see if you're chill/cool.

 

[greenjade816]

I don't call very often, but it's the same as what you'd say if you met her on the street and had a chat. It's not an interview it's just a way to see if you're chill/cool.

hey will, this short tip helped me out a ton, the phone call went pretty smoothly. I know Chase said to keep the call short but it was great it flowed so easily that we ended up talking for around 45 minutes. My question now is how would you proceed with the communication?

This is a girl that has previously flaked on me, and I've asked her again to send me her schedule which she has yet to do so, hence my suggestion of doing this phone call to see if we banter.

I dont think i'll have time to see her this week (i also feel it's too soon to ask as i also did make a few soft closes on the phone with her using the words 'we should') and i'll be travelling away next week, so the earliest i can see her wont be in 2 weeks anyways. but how would you continue with communication?

 

[Chase]

Those 45-minute calls can be a lot of fun too.

Honestly, if you can't meet her for a while, those are fine. Then you're just staying on her radar while you're not around.

I dont think i'll have time to see her this week (i also feel it's too soon to ask as i also did make a few soft closes on the phone with her using the words 'we should') and i'll be travelling away next week, so the earliest i can see her wont be in 2 weeks anyways. but how would you continue with communication?

The solution is this:

Another bonding phone call (or two. Or however many you want/need).

Set the date up with her when you get back. She should be more ready for it then.

Chase

 

[greenjade816]

Those 45-minute calls can be a lot of fun too.

Honestly, if you can't meet her for a while, those are fine. Then you're just staying on her radar while you're not around.



The solution is this:

Another bonding phone call (or two. Or however many you want/need).

Set the date up with her when you get back. She should be more ready for it then.

Chase

would you try setting up the date on that very next bonding call?

"Then you're just staying on her radar while you're not around" chase are you saying no communication required whatsoever for the next weeks until im back?

 

[Skills]

what exactly do you guys talk on the phone about?

a girl who i can tell needs more comfort is down to have a quick call with me, but tbh i dont call taht often...

If you don't have sells phone experience this may be challenging but some keys:

-deep voice but no try hard or fake.
-relax don't be thinking on what to say
-dont stay in one voice frequency, look for @Glow post on this.
-make sure you let her talk and listen and focus on the subcommunications
- I only do phone calls if she insists or after proper hard close and about to meet she is having some hick ups or change of plans or she gets lost....

 

[greenjade816]

If you don't have sells phone experience this may be challenging but some keys:

-deep voice but no try hard or fake.
-relax don't be thinking on what to say
-dont stay in one voice frequency, look for @Glow post on this.
-make sure you let her talk and listen and focus on the subcommunications
- I only do phone calls if she insists or after proper hard close and about to meet she is having some hick ups or change of plans or she gets lost....

yes thanks skills all noted, but proper next steps in my situation?

 

[Skills]

yes thanks skills all noted, but proper next steps in my situation?

Well you need to ping... and then cont. Via text...ping, I use only 2 pings morning with sun emoji or eyes emoji.... she respond banter at high point soft close then hard close