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Whats up guys, been a long long time. I’ve had a rough start to the new years so didn’t go that hard on the approaches at all. I have been sick, tired, stressed, and going through some major life decisions to where I had to put the 10 girls a week exercise on pause. Have not been approaching as much, at all really, and am just now getting back into the swing of things.
This was like a little over a week ago, on a Thursday night.
This is part 1, how we met, the make out, and everything. Part 2 will talk about the lay.
Background, an alumni group meet up I did not want to go to but friend convinced me to go.
So I have mixed feelings about my alma mater, a large school with a big presence in major cities, really mixed feelings. As you all know, I had a rough social experience there, never really fit in with the cool kids, it was heavily Greek Life, felt left out, and I even had a few meltdowns on this site over it. A friend of mines who was also in the city (which has a huge alumni presence) texted me to come, I said I was busy, texted me again and said “ya you’re not busy”.
I felt a bit angry yet kinda flattered at the same time, at least someone remembered me right? Or cared to call me over.
I text him saying I am not that interested and I've kinda moved on from college. So he texts me again and says we’re going, the time, and where he will be. I don’t respond but this past Friday I just kinda said fuck it and went. This dude must really do well with women.....
Meet up with my friend, he is happy to see me, and there are two girls with him. One of the girls I remember and the other I used to see around campus. We chat a bit and then we head out.
Show up, the meeting is at this large bar type place, it was some sort of a social meetup and probably over a 100 people came, it was a lot and I remember a lot of those faces.
The event.
Just a bar event it seemed, my friend and I are chatting as the two girls are with us but then we get approached by random people throughout the night. I remember a good number of them despite going to a large school, a lot of them people who I felt socially rejected me.
I just nod, smile, give short answers, and let the whole thing play out. A couple did try to ask me about my career since they heard I got a corporate finance gig but I gave vague and open ended answers, they were probably trying to rub it in my face how they have a better paying and more prestigious gig. What can I say, I am still kinda pissed. Ya, we’re done with school now and you’re nice but I don’t easily forgive.
Then my friend leaves for a break, later finding out he bailed, and I am left with one of the girls who gets approached by a couple of girls.
One of the girls is a tanned brunette white girl and her friend is a blonde with a nice body and athletic figure, cute chiseled face too. I remember the brunette and saw the blonde around a couple of times while on campus a few years ago. Stand around until the conversations turns on me.
She was right, I was in that history class and I used to debate the professor, we had some funny debates though.
Blonde has slight accent, so I ask her where she is from, tells me she was raised in Brazil but came to the USA during high school. We talked a good bit, she was teasing me and flirting, could tell. We were talking and talking, then it led to this.
Thought it was over by then, was feeling pretty aroused by it to be honest. Girl I was left with laughed, the brunette smiled, and the blonde was still kinda going at me. I lean against the bar, blonde pushes against me, and I could smell alcohol on her breath.
By now a long time has passed, people are starting to leave, and I see some drunk craziness going on like people shouting, people making out, and drinking contests. Blonde and her friend have had a few in them.
Then I do it.
This somehow turned into me french kissing a drunk girl who was just throwing herself at me.
Dick was hard, make out with this girl for a while, and I really felt like taking her home that night but then I see the girl I came with leaving. I was sandwiched between two seats and this girl in front of me.
She is literally eating my face but there is no way I am risking taking a drunk girl home and fucking her, way too risky. I give her my phone, tell her to put the number in, she does it, but then tries to play games by making me get my cellphone from her. This girl was wasted, we make out for a bit more, but I am trying to get away from her now because I don't want to risk taking a drunk girl home.
I am trying to get away as she keeps pulling my head towards her face, grinding her body against mines, and really trying to spice things up. At this point bartenders and other people at the bar are looking over at our direction, laughing and some even recording us. I played around with the idea of taking her home that night but once again, my principle in life is not to take drunk girls home, it's too risky.
Look over at her brunette friend she came with, stare into her eyes, and lip sync the phrase "help me". Brunette gives me that "seriously?" look and I nod, her blonde friend is all over me and starting to bite me on the neck now. The brunette comes over with a guy friend of hers and they manage to get the blonde off of me, blonde starts saying random shit and she is definitely wasted. Well that was a wild night...
Weekend rolls around and I decide to take a chance and text her.
Somehow managed to make through work on Friday but Friday night I text her, telling her to come to my place Saturday, wondering if the number was even real. It was real, asked me who I was (lol I didn't text her when she gave me her number that night), tell her Germany 7, Brazil 1 and give the
smiley. She remembered and then asked me why I got away from her that night.
Do not get a response from her.
Then Saturday comes.
Spend Saturday morning working out and going grocery shopping right afterwards. Came back home at around 1 and instead of taking a shower, felt like just sitting down and watching TV for a while. I was somewhat spent and honestly did not feel like immediately taking a shower.
Then I hear a knock on the door, wtf? I thought it was someone else's door but then I hear the knock again and I go check, it's her.
I open the door, she is there, and I haven't even showered at all that day....
I let her in and she sits down on my couch, takes her jacket off is now in her yoga pants and white shirt.
This was like a little over a week ago, on a Thursday night.
This is part 1, how we met, the make out, and everything. Part 2 will talk about the lay.
Background, an alumni group meet up I did not want to go to but friend convinced me to go.
So I have mixed feelings about my alma mater, a large school with a big presence in major cities, really mixed feelings. As you all know, I had a rough social experience there, never really fit in with the cool kids, it was heavily Greek Life, felt left out, and I even had a few meltdowns on this site over it. A friend of mines who was also in the city (which has a huge alumni presence) texted me to come, I said I was busy, texted me again and said “ya you’re not busy”.
I felt a bit angry yet kinda flattered at the same time, at least someone remembered me right? Or cared to call me over.
I text him saying I am not that interested and I've kinda moved on from college. So he texts me again and says we’re going, the time, and where he will be. I don’t respond but this past Friday I just kinda said fuck it and went. This dude must really do well with women.....
Meet up with my friend, he is happy to see me, and there are two girls with him. One of the girls I remember and the other I used to see around campus. We chat a bit and then we head out.
Show up, the meeting is at this large bar type place, it was some sort of a social meetup and probably over a 100 people came, it was a lot and I remember a lot of those faces.
The event.
Just a bar event it seemed, my friend and I are chatting as the two girls are with us but then we get approached by random people throughout the night. I remember a good number of them despite going to a large school, a lot of them people who I felt socially rejected me.
I just nod, smile, give short answers, and let the whole thing play out. A couple did try to ask me about my career since they heard I got a corporate finance gig but I gave vague and open ended answers, they were probably trying to rub it in my face how they have a better paying and more prestigious gig. What can I say, I am still kinda pissed. Ya, we’re done with school now and you’re nice but I don’t easily forgive.
Then my friend leaves for a break, later finding out he bailed, and I am left with one of the girls who gets approached by a couple of girls.
One of the girls is a tanned brunette white girl and her friend is a blonde with a nice body and athletic figure, cute chiseled face too. I remember the brunette and saw the blonde around a couple of times while on campus a few years ago. Stand around until the conversations turns on me.
She was right, I was in that history class and I used to debate the professor, we had some funny debates though.
Blonde has slight accent, so I ask her where she is from, tells me she was raised in Brazil but came to the USA during high school. We talked a good bit, she was teasing me and flirting, could tell. We were talking and talking, then it led to this.
Thought it was over by then, was feeling pretty aroused by it to be honest. Girl I was left with laughed, the brunette smiled, and the blonde was still kinda going at me. I lean against the bar, blonde pushes against me, and I could smell alcohol on her breath.
By now a long time has passed, people are starting to leave, and I see some drunk craziness going on like people shouting, people making out, and drinking contests. Blonde and her friend have had a few in them.
Then I do it.
This somehow turned into me french kissing a drunk girl who was just throwing herself at me.
Dick was hard, make out with this girl for a while, and I really felt like taking her home that night but then I see the girl I came with leaving. I was sandwiched between two seats and this girl in front of me.
She is literally eating my face but there is no way I am risking taking a drunk girl home and fucking her, way too risky. I give her my phone, tell her to put the number in, she does it, but then tries to play games by making me get my cellphone from her. This girl was wasted, we make out for a bit more, but I am trying to get away from her now because I don't want to risk taking a drunk girl home.
I am trying to get away as she keeps pulling my head towards her face, grinding her body against mines, and really trying to spice things up. At this point bartenders and other people at the bar are looking over at our direction, laughing and some even recording us. I played around with the idea of taking her home that night but once again, my principle in life is not to take drunk girls home, it's too risky.
Look over at her brunette friend she came with, stare into her eyes, and lip sync the phrase "help me". Brunette gives me that "seriously?" look and I nod, her blonde friend is all over me and starting to bite me on the neck now. The brunette comes over with a guy friend of hers and they manage to get the blonde off of me, blonde starts saying random shit and she is definitely wasted. Well that was a wild night...
Weekend rolls around and I decide to take a chance and text her.
Somehow managed to make through work on Friday but Friday night I text her, telling her to come to my place Saturday, wondering if the number was even real. It was real, asked me who I was (lol I didn't text her when she gave me her number that night), tell her Germany 7, Brazil 1 and give the
smiley. She remembered and then asked me why I got away from her that night. Her: where did you go that night?
Me: I had to be at work in the morning, you were drunk, and I don't risk taking advantage of drunk girls
Her: Awww, you're such a nice guy!
Me: Too bad the Germans weren't as nice as me in the last world cup
Her: Nvm, you're an asshole!
Me: Alright so tomorrow afternoon at 2 (give her location and my apartment number)
Her: OMG! I live near there!
Me: Cool so not much of a walk
Her: Not sure if I will be able to make it, weekend seems busy
Me: Well it was nice meeting you
Do not get a response from her.
Then Saturday comes.
Spend Saturday morning working out and going grocery shopping right afterwards. Came back home at around 1 and instead of taking a shower, felt like just sitting down and watching TV for a while. I was somewhat spent and honestly did not feel like immediately taking a shower.
Then I hear a knock on the door, wtf? I thought it was someone else's door but then I hear the knock again and I go check, it's her.
I open the door, she is there, and I haven't even showered at all that day....
I let her in and she sits down on my couch, takes her jacket off is now in her yoga pants and white shirt.
