Hey guys this was probably one of my most interesting lays so far. I met this girl while I was working last Sunday, she wasn't my type but i needed the experience so I lowered my standards.
Something I had been trying out with the girls for that week or two was using time constraints. I was leaving for school so I would usually let girls know that from the start and I'd also be really upfront with my intentions. I'd gotten a lot of numbers during the time, went out with a couple of girls had some good leads but i'd only managed to lay one girl before i left.
So back to the girl. It was Sunday and i was helping her try to find some stuff in the store, but she was givin off vibes but i let her walk away. I regretted it so i caught her before she got too far and asked something about being single I don't know. She was and I said cool lets hang out.
She asked "What do you mean?" I said "Well I'm only here for another week, so something casual nothing too crazy. How does that sound?" She liked the sound of it then we went to the computers and I grabbed her number.
After that text i saw her and we met up and discussed our plans. We ended up going for a walk through the forest. I dont remember convo but the feel of it was good, and i was seeing how much compliance she would give me. We walked to the forest which has no lights so its pitch black and on the way we connected about books. She said nothing about the darkness so i knew it was cool. A couple feet in the convo died so we made out.
We would walk and talk then make out and keep breaking this up like this. I would escalate a little further each time and while we walked and talk it would be about sexual stuff. She asked interesting questions too, and mentioned how her roomate was transexual, and i said it was cool.
We just talked and walked but i never got to fuck her there. She said it wasn't private enough for her. When i inquired she meant four walls. This was after i walked her to another more private location. After that location change i was ready to just end the date, I enjoyed myself.
When we were ending things she said "Well know that I know your not a creeper and are cool with transexuals, when you come back we'll have to see, i just need time to process the idea of public sex".
I said "Well when I come back you'd be able to plan it so we wouldn't even need to have sex outside... you've got your apartment."
We laughed and i walked her to the station kissed her then walked home.
(Next day)
So she lets me in and we walk upstairs, and i take off my shoes and we make some fluff talk and then make out and then clothes come off. First thing i notice is she has hairy nipples,I really wanted to giggle but i held it in. I licked those tits
. We get to fucking but it's been a while so after some time I do end up busting and then i just go to eat her out for a while, I don't know how long. The way she said Clitoris was hilarious as well. She was very tight although not the most passionate lover. After we fuck and stuff i mention how i gotta get going because I gotta walk home. As I'm leaving I mention I'm hungry and she asks if i want some Talilia (or something). It was was bread made from a vegetable with lots of sugar added. That shit was delicious so i ate it and walked home.
(Next Day)
I was able to be direct and follow through and be completely congruent. I'd stopped worrying about being to upfront at work and a lot of my anxiety has been lifted because of it. I always tried to have her follow my lead and invest as well. Also I've been practicing being more physical with everyone and it has been paying off. I've got one other LR to write up and another FR as well. Peace out guys keep growing!
Something I had been trying out with the girls for that week or two was using time constraints. I was leaving for school so I would usually let girls know that from the start and I'd also be really upfront with my intentions. I'd gotten a lot of numbers during the time, went out with a couple of girls had some good leads but i'd only managed to lay one girl before i left.
So back to the girl. It was Sunday and i was helping her try to find some stuff in the store, but she was givin off vibes but i let her walk away. I regretted it so i caught her before she got too far and asked something about being single I don't know. She was and I said cool lets hang out.
She asked "What do you mean?" I said "Well I'm only here for another week, so something casual nothing too crazy. How does that sound?" She liked the sound of it then we went to the computers and I grabbed her number.
Me:Nice meeting you x - Raqimus
Her:Nice meeting you too
(Next Day)
Me: How's the cleaning going x
Her: Well, I have started cleaning my oven this morning. That part kind of sucks, but all the other cleaning is good.
Me: Damn so your making the entire place spotless?
Her: Starting to
Me: Hahaha, well let me know when your free later
Her: When are you available?
Me: Probably around 9ish, that cool?
Her: Yeah
Her: Where should we meet?
Me: Would your place be cool? Mines kinda occupied
Her: No cause my roomate is studying for a test and he is really stressed about it.
Me: Hmmm I understand (I kind of began to lose interest)
Her: Good, would you like to get a cup of coffee instead
Me: Yea sounds fun, would you wanna hit up pavement or starbucks instead?
Her: Yeah, I think starbucks is open later than pavement
Me: Hmm can we reschedule, I just got a tattoo and its hurting more than i thought, I'm sorry (This is true and i didnt expect so much after pain)
Her: Okay
(Next day)
Me: Hey sorry about yesterday, the tattoo doesn't hurt today, would you be open to something tonight?
Her: Sure, what were you thinking?
Me:Hang out at your spot lmao, if not there's coffee
Her: Coffee it is. What time are you available?
Me: I get out of work at 10pm, cool?
Her: Yeah, got any coffee place ideas?
Me: Starbucks or pavement, although at 10 not sure if they are open.
Her: They are not. Would you be interested in French Fries at tasty burger?
Me: Yea I could grab some grub
Her: Okay
Me: I'm getting off now, coming over
Her: Okay I think there was a Red sox game tonight
Me: Errr then tasty burger will be packed...
After that text i saw her and we met up and discussed our plans. We ended up going for a walk through the forest. I dont remember convo but the feel of it was good, and i was seeing how much compliance she would give me. We walked to the forest which has no lights so its pitch black and on the way we connected about books. She said nothing about the darkness so i knew it was cool. A couple feet in the convo died so we made out.
We would walk and talk then make out and keep breaking this up like this. I would escalate a little further each time and while we walked and talk it would be about sexual stuff. She asked interesting questions too, and mentioned how her roomate was transexual, and i said it was cool.
We just talked and walked but i never got to fuck her there. She said it wasn't private enough for her. When i inquired she meant four walls. This was after i walked her to another more private location. After that location change i was ready to just end the date, I enjoyed myself.
When we were ending things she said "Well know that I know your not a creeper and are cool with transexuals, when you come back we'll have to see, i just need time to process the idea of public sex".
I said "Well when I come back you'd be able to plan it so we wouldn't even need to have sex outside... you've got your apartment."
We laughed and i walked her to the station kissed her then walked home.
(Next day)
So she lets me in and we walk upstairs, and i take off my shoes and we make some fluff talk and then make out and then clothes come off. First thing i notice is she has hairy nipples,I really wanted to giggle but i held it in. I licked those tits
. We get to fucking but it's been a while so after some time I do end up busting and then i just go to eat her out for a while, I don't know how long. The way she said Clitoris was hilarious as well. She was very tight although not the most passionate lover. After we fuck and stuff i mention how i gotta get going because I gotta walk home. As I'm leaving I mention I'm hungry and she asks if i want some Talilia (or something). It was was bread made from a vegetable with lots of sugar added. That shit was delicious so i ate it and walked home.(Next Day)
I was able to be direct and follow through and be completely congruent. I'd stopped worrying about being to upfront at work and a lot of my anxiety has been lifted because of it. I always tried to have her follow my lead and invest as well. Also I've been practicing being more physical with everyone and it has been paying off. I've got one other LR to write up and another FR as well. Peace out guys keep growing!
