Busy Girl on the Bus

[Dormidov2]

I'll be as fast as I can, guys

I did a cold approach on Saturday on the bus. I was the only passenger and suddenly a cute girl enters and sits directly behind me. (I'm sure it was because all of the other seats were wet and not because she wanted to be near me

I was near of my destination so I had to do a more direct aproach.

Me: Hey, don't want to bother but i really think you're a really cute girl.
Her:Hehe, thanks
Me: I'm Dormido
Her: (Her name) *We have a little handshake*
Me: I was wondering if you have a boyfriend?
Her: Ehmm, no.
Me: Ok, so, how about we have some coffe or a dinner somewhere soon?
Her: Ehmm, it's only that i'm very busy, i just got out from one job and i'm heading to another one...So I don't really have so much time to go on a date
Me: Oh, that's a shame *Apparently, I said it in a skeptic way*
Her: Yeah, that's the truth, i'm busy all the week...well...not a lot on weekends.
Me: So, a weekend it is, right?
Her: It's just that i don't feel comfortable going in a date with a stranger...
Me: Oh, we can work it out easily! We change phones and talk a little bit so we are not strangers anymore, what do you say? *As I take out my phone*
Her: Ehhm, ok
*We change our phone numbers*
Me: That's it then, I gotta get down her but it was nice meeting you *We handshake again* And by the way, you have some gorgeous eyes *In my most sexy voice I could pull of*

And that's was my first approach on public transportation, guys.

After that, i added her to whatsapp and talked a little bit just to know her a little better, however I didn't wanted to extend a lot. We chatted for like...30 minutes. She was responsive and quick to answer which is nice.

So I have some questions:
[*]How much should I talk with her before setting up a date? After all, she said she didn't want to be with a stranger.
[*]How long should I deal with her "busy schedule"?

Any tips will be appreciated.

-Dormido

 

[skin_man]

After that, i added her to whatsapp and talked a little bit just to know her a little better, however I didn't wanted to extend a lot. We chatted for like...30 minutes. She was responsive and quick to answer which is nice.

Her quick response is a good sign that she is comfortable with you now. Better to not wait. If you both live in the same town, you should reiterate (read as: remind her) about the date you were to go on.

To be honest though, being on an instant messenger of whatever kind seems to rob the guy of intrigue. The point here is to push for a meet before you two become like room mates or something worse.

so the answers you wanted:

[*]How much should I talk with her before setting up a date? After all, she said she didn't want to be with a stranger.
[*]How long should I deal with her "busy schedule"?

* The next time you do handle your phone to do anything, compose a simple text about meeting up for coffee or dinner. tell her about seeing an interesting catalogue at a nearby store to your place - goal is to get her to meet you

* If she's busy, after you kept asking her out, give her days when you are free and ask her to let you know which would work for her. Seeing she said weekend earlier, you would be better off letting her see you on a weekend too. If she flakes, meet other girls and come back to her again. You may wash and repeat that for the next 8 weeks, after what, if nothing, cut contact.

Hope this helps.

Enjoy!