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"calling" a girl out on a bad hug?

Fluxcapacitor

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Dudes! I can't find the article in question but I recall reading an article I think by Chase where he was called out for having a shit hug by a girl? The next time he hugged her he made sure he gave a good hug. Maybe I dreamt this? But it seems very real to me! Haha

I know this girl from social circle, we had a bit of a fling last summer then she hit ASD and things got awkward between us. We then got back to being normal until I didn't say hi to her once, the following week when I was giving everyone a hug goodbye a gave her a hug and it was really awkward (the hugs were standard until I didn't say hi the week previous so it shouldn't have been awkward within the social context). I was like okay? The next time I seen her I purposely didn't hug her, she then would have seen me with another girl and the next time we were together she gave me a hug. So we were interacting normally, she came to say bye and I gave her a hug which caught her by surprise? This week she was coming over to say bye again and stood by me waiting to give me a hug but it seemed a little awkward. I don't know why you would wait to hug someone (I was busy so she had to wait) if you didn't really want to? You'd verbally say bye and walk.

Now I'm wondering if I should call her out on having a really bad hug (playfully not in all seriousness) if she does it again next time or whether this comes across a little needy?

I don't think we're gonna end up in bed again anytime, would be difficult to overcome the ASD she has about it. I'm also not that bothered but the awkwardness socially isn't great its like we had a dramatic break up the way it feels haha.

Thanks dudes!
 

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I read in an article about mystery by an anti pua female journalist who was studying pua's that she gave him a half assed hug.

He went with, "Oh don't give me that little pitty pat! Come here and give me a real one! :) " and the journalist fell for it and actually enjoyed it... only to write how she hated him for making her enjoy herself around him.

So, not something I've tried, but if you can make a journalist with her guard up admit she actually liked the technique, if for but a moment...
 

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@Hue thanks dude! I recall reading that so I'll give it a go!

I tired it twice this weekend gone and had mixed results. A friend of a female friend didn't respond to it but it wasn't a negative response. Remaining cool kept the social dynamics.

A random girl I just met responded to it really well and became a lot more compliant. I'll give it a shot with the girl in question. Worst case scenario things go back to being awkward again!! Haha
 
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