Calling women out on their "creepy" behaviour

[killerman]

So I had a date with this girl the other week. I met her on the megabus and when we met up she said i was the first guy she hadn't stalked on social media as I wasn't in her social circle. She said that usually she's stalks every guy she goes out with on facebook, instagram etc. I teased her saying how she was such a stalker. That if she knew where I lived she'd be there outside my house every night spying on me through binoculars hidden behind a car or on the roof of a house. All done with a touch of sarcasm and light humour.

However do you guys think I should have really called her out on her behaviour by saying something like "that's totally not cool, why would you even do such a thing? I thought you were better than that. That's really creepy and stalkerish, totally not cool" whilst looking a bit disgusted and unimpressed, you know, really let her know that it isn't cool, and that it's actually a bit of a turn off. You know, really let her know that you haven't been won over yet and now she's now got to work to gain back your respect. Or do you think it would just put her into auto-reject?

 

[foggy]

Personally I wouldn't say anything. I'd cross my arms and look at her with a bored/skeptical look on my face. Then I'd blink. During the blink, I would shift my eyes so that they are looking off to the side. My face would be facing her face still, though. Then I'd turn my head away from her and have a frown on my face. And then I'd change the subject completely. Body language speaks wonders. She'll know your feelings on the matter after doing that.

 

[Alex471996]

hahaha if you just wan't causal sex I think you did the right thing I mean even if she is crazy your investment is minimal so it ain't your problem. Its not your responsibility to call out her bizarre behavior.

 

[Seppuku]

Killerman,

You did it right by using a touch of humor and sarcasm.

However do you guys think I should have really called her out on her behaviour by saying something like "that's totally not cool, why would you even do such a thing? I thought you were better than that. That's really creepy and stalkerish, totally not cool" whilst looking a bit disgusted and unimpressed, you know, really let her know that it isn't cool, and that it's actually a bit of a turn off. You know, really let her know that you haven't been won over yet and now she's now got to work to gain back your respect. Or do you think it would just put her into auto-reject?

This will not help you. It will make her feel bad about it, and associate the bad emotion with you. She will then protect her ego by auto rejecting.

The key word is *uber cool* in all circumstances.

 

[killerman]

Ok cheers for the feedback, thanks!