Can charm help me with ego depletion issue?

[Jan]

I have recently read an article from Chase about the difference between attainability issues and issues with ego depletion.

Ego Depletion (and Keeping Women Around)

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It seems to me that ego depletion problem is related to HER SELF-ESTEEM. I believe that I'm often too pushy, which is depleting her ego. When I'm pushing for sex, in her eyes I'm lowering her value (self-esteem). This leads often to her auto-rejection. Initally I thought my problem was attainability, but now I'm more convinced that I have an ego depletion problem. This is why 'MOVE FASTER' mantra never made sense to me. I always thought I'm already moving TOO FAST. And indeed, when I consiously slowed down (worked on my patience) - I had better results.

I'm thinking that CHARM, BEING CHARMFUL can be the best solution for the problem. Because, what is charm? It's the way to inflate her ego, in other words, it's a way to raise her self-esteem.

Does this is make sense?

I want to keep selling hard (it's natural for me) + charm her to maintain her self-esteem => Pull

 

[ulrich]

Possibly but I think the only thing that you’re going to accomplish is extending the interaction.

If the problem is indeed ego depletion (or in other words, she gets tired of resisting you and gives in), adding charm will make it so it’s not as tiresome to keep rejecting you and your interactions will become longer until you get what you want… which leaves you with the same problem.
Maybe she won’t be as prone to feeling remorse because you are charming… but I still feel that is not what you’re looking for.

Perhaps what you should do is focus on calibration.
Be more attuned to the girl signals so you can tell when you’re getting her emotionally exhausted and avoid ego depletion and also identify more convenient targets that don’t need to be depleted for you to fuck.

 

[Will_V]

I have recently read an article from Chase about the difference between attainability issues and issues with ego depletion.

Ego Depletion (and Keeping Women Around)

Apologies if you haven't seen me on here much recently. I'm working on a few new things that should help you take your game to the next level; the first one due out is a book on relationships that I'm really thrilled with the development on. I'm aiming for it to be as complete a book on...

www.girlschase.com

It seems to me that ego depletion problem is related to HER SELF-ESTEEM. I believe that I'm often too pushy, which is depleting her ego. When I'm pushing for sex, in her eyes I'm lowering her value (self-esteem). This leads often to her auto-rejection. Initally I thought my problem was attainability, but now I'm more convinced that I have an ego depletion problem. This is why 'MOVE FASTER' mantra never made sense to me. I always thought I'm already moving TOO FAST. And indeed, when I consiously slowed down (worked on my patience) - I had better results.

I'm thinking that CHARM, BEING CHARMFUL can be the best solution for the problem. Because, what is charm? It's the way to inflate her ego, in other words, it's a way to raise her self-esteem.

Does this is make sense?

I want to keep selling hard (it's natural for me) + charm her to maintain her self-esteem => Pull

Good point, I think it can help but only when it's a rapport-building charm that's easy to accept and be around. The kind of intense charm that might hook a girl who's hot and ready might just further wear out a girl who is ego depleted and losing confidence in her control of the situation.