So I know this girl that is kinda a fringe social circle thing and I've hung out with her kind of briefly like three times where we flirted and dirty-talked but logistics have sucked badly since I was at a bar like 45 minutes from my house each time so I never got to get her alone. Anyway, my little bro was looking for a phone, and she was trying to sell one on Facebook, so I messaged her to buy it.
Not that any of this matters A WHOLE LOT because we're just discussing a phone... but anyway here's the convo:
Me: Is your s3 the 16GB? How much do you want for it?
Her: I do not know haha i think so Umm idk like 60 bucks?
Me: I'll take it (I think). Go to settings then storage. In storage you'll have app storage and phone storage. I think those 2 added together will tell you if it's 8, 16, 32 etc
Me: Good condition, right? Screen is intact,etc?
Her: Well its off I have a new one.. s4 I just keep forgetting to see if anyone wants the s3.. i know for sure I have a memory card in it too and everything in the phone has all been reset to factory settings. And yes.. good condition
Me: Well you can still turn it on and go to settings numbnuts
Me: Haha it's all good, I'm sure it's a 16. They're the most common. I'll take it.
Her: Lmao ok I'm about to go to lunch ill see if the battery's charged enough to turn it on lol
Me: Haha ok. It's for my little bro, so it's not a big deal either way but he wanted me to ask.
Her: Ok I'm sure it is.. i only used it for a couple months and got a new one
Her: I have cases too I'll give ya but ones pretty girly haha
Her: And it is AT&T if that matters
Me: Haha yeah he probably doesn't want any girly cases. I don't think ATT / Verizon / etcetera matters anymore. I think they're fairly easy to switch over now.
Her: Okay just wanted to make sure! Haha when do u want it?
Me: I won't see him for a couple weeks, probably. So just whenever is convenient. You in ____ or ____?
Her: [names town]
Me: Ah ok. I could swing through either this evening or tomorrow probably.
Her: Ok just lemme know! I can always meet u too if needed.. i work in sfield at the clinic so I come near ____ every evening about 530 or so
Me: Ok that works too. I actually have to run a few places after work this evening, so I think tomorrow might be better. Thanks [name]
Me: So I'll let you know
Her: No problem! Sounds good!
Next Day:
Me: Yo
Me: I can meet you wherever after work around 5 - 530.
Her: Okay sounds good! I'll msg ya when I'm leaving work!
Me: ok sounds good
Her: Heey I'm leaving work now
Her: If easier to txt my number is blah blah blah
Then I call her and like a ditz she explains that she forgot the charger at home so after we meet up she will have to go home and get it later and bring it back. I don't understand why she doesn't just go home and get it first instead of making two trips, but whatever. She meets me uptown and I get in her car and we do the swap and she starts asking me why she hasn't seen me and yada yada. She looks really nice in a skirt and a blue top that reveals her cleavage.
She then says she found the charger in her floorboard, I guess she did bring it but couldn't find it and maybe thought she forgot it. I said it would have been cool if she did forget it because then she could've used that as an excuse to come back and have a beer with me. To that she says, "Well I can probably do that anyway!" and I'm like "ok" and then she's like "Yeah so just get a hold of me!" and then we take off.
So then about 2 hours later I send her a text: "Yeah so I'm actually going up for a beer. Join me if you get bored
"
No reply at all. I'm sure she got the text- I mean, text messages probably have a pretty low failure rate lol. But it just seems weird because she's always been so cool with me, I could see her replying and just dodging it gracefully by just saying she's busy or something. Or was this too weird on my part? Buying a phone off her like nothing, but then asking her to hang out.
Also, it's one of those deals where I'm pretty sure she knows I'm interested in her. So it shouldn't be weird from that standpoint, where she thinks I'm just trying to weasel my way into her pants or whatever. But, what do I know.
Then, I also wondered how or if I should follow up. The 3 times or so I've ran into her she's always seemed to have somewhat of a crush on me, and when we were sitting in the car together I could feel a bit of tension there too, so I just have this feeling I need to follow up on it so I can find out for sure. But I have no idea how to go about doing that so it's not socially weird or anything. Could I just shoot her a message on FB like: "Just thought I'd just message you on here to let you know my bro likes the phone and said it works fine and everything". I'd love to find out if she just ignored the text, didn't get the text, or whatever, because like I say she seems into me so I'd hate to lose a chance at a nice lay. But then, how much face do I lose socially if she really was just blowing me off and I contact her again?
And that's a lot of questions so thanks in advance to whoever can help! Lol
Youngberg
Not that any of this matters A WHOLE LOT because we're just discussing a phone... but anyway here's the convo:
Me: Is your s3 the 16GB? How much do you want for it?
Her: I do not know haha i think so Umm idk like 60 bucks?
Me: I'll take it (I think). Go to settings then storage. In storage you'll have app storage and phone storage. I think those 2 added together will tell you if it's 8, 16, 32 etc
Me: Good condition, right? Screen is intact,etc?
Her: Well its off I have a new one.. s4 I just keep forgetting to see if anyone wants the s3.. i know for sure I have a memory card in it too and everything in the phone has all been reset to factory settings. And yes.. good condition
Me: Well you can still turn it on and go to settings numbnuts
Me: Haha it's all good, I'm sure it's a 16. They're the most common. I'll take it.
Her: Lmao ok I'm about to go to lunch ill see if the battery's charged enough to turn it on lol
Me: Haha ok. It's for my little bro, so it's not a big deal either way but he wanted me to ask.
Her: Ok I'm sure it is.. i only used it for a couple months and got a new one
Her: I have cases too I'll give ya but ones pretty girly haha
Her: And it is AT&T if that matters
Me: Haha yeah he probably doesn't want any girly cases. I don't think ATT / Verizon / etcetera matters anymore. I think they're fairly easy to switch over now.
Her: Okay just wanted to make sure! Haha when do u want it?
Me: I won't see him for a couple weeks, probably. So just whenever is convenient. You in ____ or ____?
Her: [names town]
Me: Ah ok. I could swing through either this evening or tomorrow probably.
Her: Ok just lemme know! I can always meet u too if needed.. i work in sfield at the clinic so I come near ____ every evening about 530 or so
Me: Ok that works too. I actually have to run a few places after work this evening, so I think tomorrow might be better. Thanks [name]
Me: So I'll let you know
Her: No problem! Sounds good!
Next Day:
Me: Yo
Me: I can meet you wherever after work around 5 - 530.
Her: Okay sounds good! I'll msg ya when I'm leaving work!
Me: ok sounds good
Her: Heey I'm leaving work now
Her: If easier to txt my number is blah blah blah
Then I call her and like a ditz she explains that she forgot the charger at home so after we meet up she will have to go home and get it later and bring it back. I don't understand why she doesn't just go home and get it first instead of making two trips, but whatever. She meets me uptown and I get in her car and we do the swap and she starts asking me why she hasn't seen me and yada yada. She looks really nice in a skirt and a blue top that reveals her cleavage.
She then says she found the charger in her floorboard, I guess she did bring it but couldn't find it and maybe thought she forgot it. I said it would have been cool if she did forget it because then she could've used that as an excuse to come back and have a beer with me. To that she says, "Well I can probably do that anyway!" and I'm like "ok" and then she's like "Yeah so just get a hold of me!" and then we take off.
So then about 2 hours later I send her a text: "Yeah so I'm actually going up for a beer. Join me if you get bored
"No reply at all. I'm sure she got the text- I mean, text messages probably have a pretty low failure rate lol. But it just seems weird because she's always been so cool with me, I could see her replying and just dodging it gracefully by just saying she's busy or something. Or was this too weird on my part? Buying a phone off her like nothing, but then asking her to hang out.
Also, it's one of those deals where I'm pretty sure she knows I'm interested in her. So it shouldn't be weird from that standpoint, where she thinks I'm just trying to weasel my way into her pants or whatever. But, what do I know.
Then, I also wondered how or if I should follow up. The 3 times or so I've ran into her she's always seemed to have somewhat of a crush on me, and when we were sitting in the car together I could feel a bit of tension there too, so I just have this feeling I need to follow up on it so I can find out for sure. But I have no idea how to go about doing that so it's not socially weird or anything. Could I just shoot her a message on FB like: "Just thought I'd just message you on here to let you know my bro likes the phone and said it works fine and everything". I'd love to find out if she just ignored the text, didn't get the text, or whatever, because like I say she seems into me so I'd hate to lose a chance at a nice lay. But then, how much face do I lose socially if she really was just blowing me off and I contact her again?
And that's a lot of questions so thanks in advance to whoever can help! Lol
Youngberg
