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I’ve been deep diving ChatGPT on high points, and if my understanding is correct, it’s given me a new perspective on seduction and social interactions in general.
In short, can seduction be boiled down to high points? That is—creating high points, managing high points, and capitalizing off high points?
What’s confused me in the past is that things like asking questions or leaning forward are listed as high points, but you can be moody or uninterested and still ask questions. So is a high point basically whenever her emotional state rises considerably above her baseline? And this can be a good high point (she feels happy) or a bad one (she feels angry)?
So, people who can create and manage high points are more popular, socially liked, and do better in seduction.
Is this why Chase says not to deep dive too early? Because rapport = baseline emotional state, and you need high points earlier in the interaction to hook women so it's best to use teases?
Is this also why low-energy or nervous guys struggle with women—because they’re bad at generating high points? And why some guys who seem good with women still fail—because they don’t capitalize on high points?
So, using high points and calibration is a major factor in seduction?
Teasing + Humour
Social Frame
Compliance + Commitment + Investment + Dominance + Leadership + Value + Attainability
Emotional Stimulation
Emotional Stimulation = Emotional Engagement + Emotional Connection + Emotional Immersion
Sexual Arousal
Sexual Arousal = sexual intent + sexual Energy + sexual framing + sexual subcommunication + Sexual Interest
So a conversation should alternate between rapport and teasing
In short, can seduction be boiled down to high points? That is—creating high points, managing high points, and capitalizing off high points?
What’s confused me in the past is that things like asking questions or leaning forward are listed as high points, but you can be moody or uninterested and still ask questions. So is a high point basically whenever her emotional state rises considerably above her baseline? And this can be a good high point (she feels happy) or a bad one (she feels angry)?
So, people who can create and manage high points are more popular, socially liked, and do better in seduction.
Is this why Chase says not to deep dive too early? Because rapport = baseline emotional state, and you need high points earlier in the interaction to hook women so it's best to use teases?
Is this also why low-energy or nervous guys struggle with women—because they’re bad at generating high points? And why some guys who seem good with women still fail—because they don’t capitalize on high points?
So, using high points and calibration is a major factor in seduction?
Creating high points
As I understand it, below is the engine which you use for making a girl more comfortable with you (so her emotional baseline is easier to raise)Teasing + Humour
Social Frame
Compliance + Commitment + Investment + Dominance + Leadership + Value + Attainability
Emotional Stimulation
Emotional Stimulation = Emotional Engagement + Emotional Connection + Emotional Immersion
Sexual Arousal
Sexual Arousal = sexual intent + sexual Energy + sexual framing + sexual subcommunication + Sexual Interest
Managing high points
Creating high points is good, but too few create boredom, and too many make them lose their effect. That’s why you should fractionate between emotional states. Also, the quality of the high point matters.So a conversation should alternate between rapport and teasing
Capitalising off high points
To capitalize off a high point, you should escalate when her emotional state is high—that’s when you get the most compliance. This is where you escalate verbally (deep diving, asking for her number) or physically (kino, pulling).
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