can you be to aggressive on date?

[Lex]

Ok ive been on two date recently with two gorgeous girl and the two date were really hot...I have bad logistic (I live with my parents...college student)at the of the first date with one of the girl we were in her car and we kissed then i went for neck then thing got hot I was licking her tities and her hand was on my cock but then she put LMR and I dont know how to fight it...

Her: Im killing your vibe?
Me:for sure(smile)

She drive me back home kissed good bye and that it...I text her she responds but the time she take to responds is longer Ive tried to do a secon date but it was end of semester so its wasnt ideal but ask her for during winter break she said surely(dont have a word for the french :sûrement )

Then friday I had a date with a really conservative girl. That ended up in the same way that the other...but yesterday she texted me saying saying that she didnt like the facf that I tried to have sex with on first date eventrought she told me that she dont do that kind of thing (I told her that i would have tried by txt)then we argue by txt but i feel that it a frame battle and I dont know how manage those thing ( she has wait 2 month with the man she was on love to have sex then 7 month with her last boyfriends) and for a girl whos that conservative she send me some sexting even when we didnt meet for example

Me:im gonna hit the showe
Her:hmmm sexy
Me:wanna joign me?
Her: I would like too but id be to afraid to let the soap fell on the floor and have to bend over to pick it up

Even when we were arguing she was texting thing like

her "you didnt had the chance to see my ass blabla
Me:no need for that i felt it ( grab her ass while making out in her car)
Her: oh I know
Me: you didnt like that either?
Her:not on a first date

So am I to aggressive and should keep thos kind of escaltion in bed?

Lex

 

[ray_zorse]

Hahaha girl #2 is chase framing you, playa... not so sweet & innocent after all huh? texting sth like "you didn't enjoy that either?" is submitting to her frame... don't do it. Correct response to drama is soft NEXT... don't engage with the drama, wait acweek to 10 days (or at LEAST 24h) then re-engage on a different topic such as rapport building or setting up a meet (I'd go the latter as a screening measure... if she causes drama & also won't meet, hard NEXT... if she brings up the drama at the meet then either laugh it off and change the subject, or address it reasonably if u think she may have a legitimate concern... since grabbing her ass is not a legitimate concern I'd laugh it ofd).

As to girl #1 you didn't persist hard enough, don't try to escalate to sex until you are in your seduction location (could you reallyhave sex in her car, did u have condoms & were you parked in a dark secluded location?) and then do your best to see utvthrough, laughing off & ignoring resistance or going around it by backing off slightly (without acknowledging the resistance) and then trying another tack. Go for that pussy -- once she begins to epress pleasure you're golden. If you yield to her resistance she'll hate u and u won't get another date (despite her promises).

cheers, Ray