Can't seem to get results

[mygamesucks]

I don't exactly know whats up. But when I am talking to girls, everything is fine. They are all laughing, and happy and pretty chill. But as soon as I start flirting, things take a bit of a different turn. No longer would the girl be smiling,she would act nervous and anxious, but reject every single one of my advances.

Am I doing something wrong? Just to give an example of how the situation would play out

Girl: I want to work as a detective.
Me: A detective? Why?
Girl: Because I want to put bad guys in jail!
Me: that means your gonna have to put me in jail!
Girl: I just might!
Me: I'm may or may not be carrying drugs on me right now! you wanna do a cavity search on me?
Girl: um... no
Me: Wow so your gonna let me slide?
Girl: .....
Me: so anyway are you busy later
Girl: yea my whole week is packed

I clearly am fucking up somewhere. Are these girls not interested in me to begin with? Or am i simply fucking up somewhere?

 

[Richard]

Me: I'm may or may not be carrying drugs on me right now! you wanna do a cavity search on me?

In that particular example it was right here because it sounds like you want her to cavity search you... which is weird - and you suggested that you may have drugs on you which could be dangerous to her so she goes on guard.

Girl: um... no
Me: Wow so your gonna let me slide?

She declines to play along with your joke - and you pursue even further.

I can't give you any specific advice for you based on just this example - I'd need to see more to offer more help.

-Richard

 

[Mr.Rob]

Dude mygamesucks, first of all I hate your name because one day soon you're going to be a pimp and that screen title simply won't fit... it's also depressing to address you as such :/.

Nonetheless I want to point out a couple thing that will get some thoughts rolling.

Girl: I want to work as a detective.
Me: A detective? Why?
Girl: Because I want to put bad guys in jail!
Me: that means your gonna have to put me in jail!
Girl: I just might!
Me: I'm may or may not be carrying drugs on me right now! you wanna do a cavity search on me?
Girl: um... no
Me: Wow so your gonna let me slide?
Girl: .....
Me: so anyway are you busy later
Girl: yea my whole week is packed

You're getting a bit too explicit for being in fairly new conversation with a girl. Think about it unless she's really turned on and wants to "toss your salad" or something you probably aren't going to get a good reception from asking her to do a cavity search on you. I mean do you really want to paint the picture of her opening up your ass to see whats inside... probably not a pretty image unless you're extremely turned on in which this isn't the case... and even then it's debatable.

I think what you were going for here is a Chase Frame which is subtle and implicit and you want to paint the picture of you two having sex together and her coming up with the idea first (so it makes her feel like she's chasing). Not her opening your asshole to see if theres something in it, that's just lame.

Though no need to fear at least your trying and failing, in which that I think is awesome!

If you want to get good at chase frames (which is flirting and framing the conversation as her having the idea of you two having sex) then check this post out I found it very helpful for my own game!

https://boards.girlschase.com/viewtopic.php?f=3&t=6582

And if you want to change your name (DO IT!) PM Franco the board administrator and ask him to help you.

You should be Pimpatron1000 or girlsblow...me or something... mygamesucks makes me want to dump gas on my nutsack and light it on fire.

Peace out dude and good luck with the chase framing. Come back and tell us how it goes!
-Rob

 

[mygamesucks]

Me: I'm may or may not be carrying drugs on me right now! you wanna do a cavity search on me?

In that particular example it was right here because it sounds like you want her to cavity search you... which is weird - and you suggested that you may have drugs on you which could be dangerous to her so she goes on guard.

Girl: um... no
Me: Wow so your gonna let me slide?

She declines to play along with your joke - and you pursue even further.

I can't give you any specific advice for you based on just this example - I'd need to see more to offer more help.

-Richard

Well if you want more, this is about all i can offer you.
Basically whenever I am talking to a girl, I try and make jokes about sex is a subtle (but i guess it isn't) way. However, this is like the point of downfall in all of my conversations with girls i want to get in bed. This is frustrating because i lost some truly good girls in my city (but this is NYC so i have millions to choose from). This normally happens while i meet a girl at a cafe, or on a college campus.


I guess Mr. Rob hit the nail on the head though. I am horrible at chase frames. I'll try again with a different girl and come back with results.

 

[Mr.Rob]

I'm not very good with Chase Frames either they kind of take a bit of nuance to figure out how to twist words around and do it quickly on your feet. And then deliver them in a way that's not creepy or off putting.

You will fail a lot (I still do) so if you're failing that means you winning.

Keep winning my friend and don't get discouraged to quickly!

 

[Mr. oblivious]

I suggest instead of going full on like you did there and probably creeped her out an go her defences up you should of used a cold read.

Made a comment about her strong sense of justice then use it to deep dive ask get why she has it etc

 

[Richard]

Well if you want more, this is about all i can offer you.
Basically whenever I am talking to a girl, I try and make jokes about sex is a subtle (but i guess it isn't) way. However, this is like the point of downfall in all of my conversations with girls i want to get in bed. This is frustrating because i lost some truly good girls in my city (but this is NYC so i have millions to choose from). This normally happens while i meet a girl at a cafe, or on a college campus.


I guess Mr. Rob hit the nail on the head though. I am horrible at chase frames. I'll try again with a different girl and come back with results.

Can you give any more examples of making sex jokes subtly?

Also, I'd like to make a distinction between chase frames and sex frames. Chase frames are statements designed to make something she says or does represent that she's "chasing you" or investing more into you. Sex frames are statements designed to make something she says or does represent that she wants to fuck you.

Chase frame:

Her: "Yeah, I usually study in the library a lot, you should totally come with me some time."
Me: "You're just trying to get my attention aren't ya?" <--- not sexual, but making it seem like she's working for my attention

Sex frames I cover here, with several examples.