Can't stop thinking about her? EVEN if meeting other girls?

[KollegahDerBoss]

Hey,
I've been on this site about 4 months now, and I managed it to get over my Ex and start meeting new girls and was actually quite happy with my results.
2 weeks ago, my Ex came back to me and fell in love with me again (she literally told me), so we met and flirted alot. (Note: Sex is not an option right now, since I'm still under 18)
Suddenly - she stopped texting me. She was no longer chasing me, no longer texting me - without a specific reason - and told me some days after she still has feelings for her Ex.

Alright - so now to the question:
I fell in love with her again - and I can't stop thinking about her - and EVEN if I meet and text with other girls, I still have enormous feelings for her - it doesn't help me.
What can I do to get over it - should I try to win her back? I mean, I got my fundamentals handled - what's the problem?

Thanks in advance.

 

[Thinkingenigma]

Who broke up with who?

 

[StoicMind]

I think she's not worth trying to win back especially since you are relatively new to all of this. Your ex is a validation leech it seems. She doesn't know what she wants except that she wants to feel good and loved and she doesn't care where she gets it from. She's like an emotional nympho. My advice to you is to try your best to get over her, continue to meet women because she won't be stable until she matures. Reality is defined by how we communicate to others and ourselves, if you tell yourself that she's not all that, she doesn't deserve you, then that's how you'll feel, that will be your reality. I could be wrong bit the info you shared seems very familiar to some situations I was in.

 

[KollegahDerBoss]

Who broke up with who?

She kinda did by being cold to me for a whole month (with some exceptions) - I was the one making it official.

Your ex is a validation leech it seems.

That's exactly what describes my situation. Thank you for the answer.
I'll try to forget her and move on..since she probably isn't worth my time.

 

[Thinkingenigma]

Yeah, second what StoicMind said. If she broke up with you, don't even bother trying to get back together with her. That's only going to end up with you on the short end of the stick again