Ok so I know there's an article about this - but my scenario is slightly different. There is a girl I have hooked up with and slept with several times. I find her very attractive and vice versa. She is at school in a different state so I can only see her on occasion. I'm not chasing, but I keep thinking about her. We have plans to meet up towards the end of summer. I know the best solution is probably to go out and meet/sleep with other girls. Problem is I am currently not in a city to be doing that (I will be in a few months). In the mean time, what suggestions do you have? Good online dating sites? What about trying to initiate phone sex? Does there need to be precedent or should I try that out?
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Jimmy-
Yeah, I'd probably hop on online and try to set things up with girls in the city you'll be in so you have dates lined up / girls eager to see you when you get there. You might want to wait until you're a little closer to the move (like 2 - 3 weeks out) though so their attraction doesn't fall off for you before you meet up.
I don't know about phone sex; doesn't much appeal to me so I haven't tried it. I don't really like long distance though. If you're in the woods for a couple of months and can't focus on girls, why not pick up a couple of good books to read, or start doing calisthenics, or learn a new skill? Take it as a few free months to burn on whatever you like before you move to a new city and start plowing time into exploring new venues, teaming up with wingmen, building your rotation of girls, etc.
Chase
Yeah, I'd probably hop on online and try to set things up with girls in the city you'll be in so you have dates lined up / girls eager to see you when you get there. You might want to wait until you're a little closer to the move (like 2 - 3 weeks out) though so their attraction doesn't fall off for you before you meet up.
I don't know about phone sex; doesn't much appeal to me so I haven't tried it. I don't really like long distance though. If you're in the woods for a couple of months and can't focus on girls, why not pick up a couple of good books to read, or start doing calisthenics, or learn a new skill? Take it as a few free months to burn on whatever you like before you move to a new city and start plowing time into exploring new venues, teaming up with wingmen, building your rotation of girls, etc.
Chase
I appreciate the response. I'll have to work on my online game - being in a city will make that more viable. It's interesting to hear you've never done phone sex, because it seems you've tried every trick in the book. It would feel strange to me, anyways. I don't really like long distance either so I need to just focus on my life - hobbies, read some good books like you said and I will find more girls over time. I'll probably have this girl around anyways for the occasional out-of-state trip so there's no use in me plowing time and effort into it, because it would yield no additional results.
